im from brooklyn...sorry10+ idiot for grammar alone ..... I couldn't read it, "lol!"
im from brooklyn...sorry10+ idiot for grammar alone ..... I couldn't read it, "lol!"
I think never getting emotionally attached is the ticket to success when enjoying a cam model.
This. I'm happy to see an OP of one of these cam model lovecon threads say this.
you know we can agree on this. some models hat i have visited / made friends with over 7 years have been cool, nice and sexy/funny.. . I think never getting emotionally attached is the ticket to success when enjoying a cam model. Its their job... they need support ..not lurkers....tits and ass is everywhere.. for me it never was about that. Thanks for your reply
thank you miss brownfox.. i came here for opinions and i accept all ... your nick is on point too dearMe too! I'm really impressed with how he's handled all of the replies to his thread. He didn't lash out with "Fuck you guys...you're just dumb whores...we're in love" or anything like that. Plus I think his screen name is awesome.
very true for sure and thank you for your opinionBingo. Don’t get emotionally attached. Friendships with clear boundaries are one thing, but what you described is way beyond that.
Asking for a loan at all should have been a huge red flag. A loan of that size is just crazy. General rule of thumb, IMO: If you can’t resist helping a model with a little extra money, don’t give anything unless you’re cool with it being a gift. Never expect repayment. If the amount is too much for you to part with unless it’s repaid, then don’t give it.
Being close with a model (friends or whatever else you believe is happening) only makes that rule more important, not less.
Well said!! I was in a dopamine fog for a minute..the 16K I can afford..it was my feelings and disappointment that was hard to deal with.. thank for your opinon.!Bingo. Don’t get emotionally attached. Friendships with clear boundaries are one thing, but what you described is way beyond that.
Asking for a loan at all should have been a huge red flag. A loan of that size is just crazy. General rule of thumb, IMO: If you can’t resist helping a model with a little extra money, don’t give anything unless you’re cool with it being a gift. Never expect repayment. If the amount is too much for you to part with unless it’s repaid, then don’t give it.
Being close with a model (friends or whatever else you believe is happening) only makes that rule more important, not less.
I'm glad it was money you could afford, because for many of those stories it was not, so that's something positive you can focus onWell said!! I was in a dopamine fog for a minute..the 16K I can afford..it was my feelings and disappointment that was hard to deal with.. thank for your opinon.!
IMO: If you can’t resist helping a model with a little extra money, don’t give anything unless you’re cool with it being a gift. Never expect repayment. If the amount is too much for you to part with unless it’s repaid, then don’t give it.
Random..brain works this way sometimes...had to vent ... get a coffee
thoughts…She..my camgirl “girlfriend”…settings..nighttimeUS on CB
SHE: had dream of car..mentioned exact car wanted..many times
connected with social media..skype whatsapp
became girlfriend
love bombed me on birthday with special cake in pass show
tipping heavy all the time
told me she had an ex…he lost his mind when his father died..they couldn’t make it..he was unwilling..
told me she had a son 5 years old..hesitited to do so
daily compliments
gave me more info
on her and her family without going in to details when asked further
changed the subject
asked for a loan…will pay back..as written on whatsappp
gave he loan..told her since she was going to look for a place in Italy to live pay me back when u get settled..but first
going with “uncle” to Germany to look for 2013 santa fe black or white
by chance I looked on face book and saw a picture of her her brother and her “ex” eating pizza in 2018 january
confused,,she lied..found her face book web site and told her while she was driving back from ger..if she even went there what I discovered
she was irate..i was snooping and checking her out..blamed her bro for the web site
but
I knew her real name..her passport and ID
we settled this and she said this was a long ago picture..i didn’t believe it but passed on it
since I had bought a ticket to meet her in Feb172019 on her birthday in Romania
then one day..dindt hear from her for 3 days
finally she was sick ill migraine, liver, back all of this bullshit,,,but I didn’t question
told me her ex came to her apartment..they spoke for hours in kitchen
he wanted her back…she told him I may be your wife but im not your woman..hahaha
all this time for a while..i told her I can get her divorced…but noo
he was he sons hero..they spoke every day since he lived in Austria working …hahahha
then one day..a Sunday..she told me that here “ex” went to her dad and professed his love for her
and since her day…they guy whos car was trashed..and she need to give him her car to drive..and that’s why she needed her dream..was sick she obliged.
I called her phone.. a man answered..i asked for her name…he had no idea who this was..he sounded honest
I mentioned his sons name and he became attentive and I guess asked cuz he can speak English why I wanted to kno about him..the son.. I asked for “d” again…I heard her in the background..this was her phone this man picked up..i heard her child..they were laughing
I finally hung up
she called sonn there after and an argument ensued..they were visiting her MIL and her “ex” was there
this all passed..i don’t know why I was suck an idiot..foolish I don’t know
but
she was leaving for Italy to look for a place that she can raise her son ..a nice place to get him away from her country
then one day
I called her..na…I called her she picked up we started to speak and she was under stress cuz now I was becoming more attuned to her lies and was asking more questions
well..this was bad,,,,her narsasitic devil reared out
she told me this is the last time I would hear her voice on the phone…she hung up
a week later
on whatsapp…we got into an argument..i sent her a picture…she asked why I sent it…but she had a fantasy about it
she told me it didn’t measure up tiny…belittled me…told me while she was in Italy,,she met a nice Italian man
they made love..his was huge..how degrading this was..brutal with no empathy.. I was hurt..she did this intentionally to hurt me…told me other things…I asked for my money
the loan to be paid in full 16,000USD
or I will follow thru with litigation in her country…she said..i told her it was a gift
I demanded my money… the car loan money..she said..what car?? what money?? ehh..never did
my estimate..tipped over 500,000 tokens on her on cb..and for the most part was thinking im helping her out because she is tired, sick, whateva..
I don’t know what happens to the mind..it takes you where it want to if you are not paying attention to things obvious to another person looking in on it
as of now…. a painful reminder when I think about it
how foolish I was and how calculation and evil she was within her greed..words escape me to define this feeling anger disappointment in myself and for what
to make someone else happy while I suffer… she knew
from the very start..how conniving..selfish..without feeling she knew what she was doing to me
it didn’t matter to her..i suppose..i probably am not the only one she has done this too
but it was my detachment from reality..addiction to this feeling..attention…that was the beginning to my end with this person
I don’t exixt to her now..ignoring on all platforms…
my first instinct is to get even fuck her up make her life bitter hurtfull painfull as she made mine..im not that person tho
it was all a game..a show..an act by a skillful scamming narcissistic being..as she remains today
Sure...love bombing can take many forms..some genuine some with an alternate motive. Thank you for the good wishes...my zen level is high.Can we love bomb people by simply making them a cake? So easy now.
This is oof. I'm sorry man. Good luck with your healing and maybe take a break to work on you and your inner love for a while.
Wow..great analogy. And maybe your right I should write this out as it was played .@Karma2Burn I feel like I read the outline to a James Joyce novel. You need to turn that into a book.
Reading between the lines, had you even met this girl in real life before you started to think of her as "girlfriend"?
Maybe my numbers are too conservative (or too depressing), but here is my take on the odds of converting an online-only romance into something that is real. If I am talking to someone who is trying to convince me that we are going to have a relationship based on just an Internet interaction, I am going to be 95% sure that they are either running a scam on me, or alternately they just have not learned that Internet chemistry and face-to-face chemistry are not the same thing.I never had met this person in real life..but this was as we both considered it a long distance relationship that with what we spoke of as plans..would lead to coming together. All started in March 2018 and thru out the following months.. and you know, in reading some of these in love with a camgirl threads..my story parallels alot of them..our "connection" solidified.
I think you are point on with that 95% take on it... and uffff so many fall for it Admittingly I had a huge lapse in common sense.Maybe my numbers are too conservative (or too depressing), but here is my take on the odds of converting an online-only romance into something that is real. If I am talking to someone who is trying to convince me that we are going to have a relationship based on just an Internet interaction, I am going to be 95% sure that they are either running a scam on me, or alternately they just have not learned that Internet chemistry and face-to-face chemistry are not the same thing.