I've found over the years of camming that the more I involve my husband in this work, the happier we both are. It satisfies his voyeuristic fantasies, keeps him constantly turned him on, makes for lots of sex, which in return, keeps ME feeling hot. I think I feel sexier for shows, and because he's aware of what's going on, I'll talk about my work more and he relates to it, often offering the advice from a viewer's point of view. He loves being the first one to get me in a new outfit, loves helping me choose pics to put in a gallery, and even holds the camera for me sometimes. I also keep a few "activities" just for us, e.g. anal.
All in all it's pretty good. He works at home, and we're so old that our kids have all left home now, so that helps too although there have been days when r/l sex has dominated!