MEMBERS:
Find out what the model is willing to do in private BEFORE taking her private. If her PMs are open to you, PM her about it. If they are not, then send a MFC mail real fast and let her know in chat that you sent it. Also check their profiles, sometimes they will state what they do in privates on there. Asking/demanding they do things they specifically said they don't do is a very quick way to have the model end the private and potentially ban you.
Try to chat at least a little while in private. While you may be "busy," I think most models like to know there's a bit more interaction going on than the member just wanking. Let her know if you like what she is doing. Let her know you think she's cute/hot/sexy/etc. The model wants to know you are enjoying her, she won't automagically know that unless you tell her. Offer suggestions as to what gets you off.
Don't demand she watch your cam. Not every model is in to watching guys get off. A lot are (I think it's actually amazing how many models are just as big of perverts as guys are
), but not every model is. You can let her know it's on, but don't demand she watch you get off.
Warn the model when your tokens are getting low, so they know that the private is ending because of that, not just because you got off and are done.
Thank the model afterwards, either in the private before it ends or in PM or in some way. Remember, models tend to lose viewers when they go private, except for regulars or others who want to take her private. Some of those viewers are potential tippers. So thank her for her time.
MODELS:
Like above, some of the same things can apply.
Let members know what you do and don't do in private. This can be in public chat, on your profile or in PM if someone asks to take you private.
Interaction is good. Not every member just wants to see you bang yourself as hard as possible. Some like to hear back from you on if you like what they're saying or doing (if you are watching their cam). If a member gives a suggestion as to a position he likes, and it is something you like doing, follow through on it. But also let them know if it is not something you like.
If you enjoy watching cams, let the member know this. Not every member wants to be on cam (contrary to the popular belief from all the WATCH MY CAM BB posts that show up in public chat). But those that do will gladly oblige if you say you like it. Just don't laugh at them if they have a tiny wee wee. :lol: A little white lie here and there can help in that regard.
Don't answer PMs from other members while in the private. It's rude. And, yes, I have seen models who have done this to me while we were in private.
On the same token, don't answer texts or phone calls unless they are important. At which point let the member know the call/text is important and end the private. Again, I've had at least one model begin to do a texting session while in private with me. It's rude.
In both of these cases, the member is expecting your attention, so give it to them.
Let the member know if you enjoyed the private when you guys are through. If you want them to take you private again, in the future, because you enjoyed it, then let them know that, too.
Miscelaneous about cams
Let's be serious, here, there's a bit of narcissism on the part of models and on members who enjoy being on cam. So it's good to know what everyone is in to if you're going to be making your cam available to models/watch member cams. Some models like to know they are getting guys off when they watch cams, their narcissism is the knowledge that they are getting someone off. Members can feel the same thing when they know models are watching them get off. It's mild narcissism, but it's still there.
So, let each other know you enjoy what you're seeing. It feeds the ego ever so slightly for both members and models.
Find out what the model is willing to do in private BEFORE taking her private. If her PMs are open to you, PM her about it. If they are not, then send a MFC mail real fast and let her know in chat that you sent it. Also check their profiles, sometimes they will state what they do in privates on there. Asking/demanding they do things they specifically said they don't do is a very quick way to have the model end the private and potentially ban you.
Try to chat at least a little while in private. While you may be "busy," I think most models like to know there's a bit more interaction going on than the member just wanking. Let her know if you like what she is doing. Let her know you think she's cute/hot/sexy/etc. The model wants to know you are enjoying her, she won't automagically know that unless you tell her. Offer suggestions as to what gets you off.
Don't demand she watch your cam. Not every model is in to watching guys get off. A lot are (I think it's actually amazing how many models are just as big of perverts as guys are
), but not every model is. You can let her know it's on, but don't demand she watch you get off.Warn the model when your tokens are getting low, so they know that the private is ending because of that, not just because you got off and are done.
Thank the model afterwards, either in the private before it ends or in PM or in some way. Remember, models tend to lose viewers when they go private, except for regulars or others who want to take her private. Some of those viewers are potential tippers. So thank her for her time.
MODELS:
Like above, some of the same things can apply.
Let members know what you do and don't do in private. This can be in public chat, on your profile or in PM if someone asks to take you private.
Interaction is good. Not every member just wants to see you bang yourself as hard as possible. Some like to hear back from you on if you like what they're saying or doing (if you are watching their cam). If a member gives a suggestion as to a position he likes, and it is something you like doing, follow through on it. But also let them know if it is not something you like.
If you enjoy watching cams, let the member know this. Not every member wants to be on cam (contrary to the popular belief from all the WATCH MY CAM BB posts that show up in public chat). But those that do will gladly oblige if you say you like it. Just don't laugh at them if they have a tiny wee wee. :lol: A little white lie here and there can help in that regard.
Don't answer PMs from other members while in the private. It's rude. And, yes, I have seen models who have done this to me while we were in private.
On the same token, don't answer texts or phone calls unless they are important. At which point let the member know the call/text is important and end the private. Again, I've had at least one model begin to do a texting session while in private with me. It's rude.
In both of these cases, the member is expecting your attention, so give it to them.
Let the member know if you enjoyed the private when you guys are through. If you want them to take you private again, in the future, because you enjoyed it, then let them know that, too.
Miscelaneous about cams
Let's be serious, here, there's a bit of narcissism on the part of models and on members who enjoy being on cam. So it's good to know what everyone is in to if you're going to be making your cam available to models/watch member cams. Some models like to know they are getting guys off when they watch cams, their narcissism is the knowledge that they are getting someone off. Members can feel the same thing when they know models are watching them get off. It's mild narcissism, but it's still there.
So, let each other know you enjoy what you're seeing. It feeds the ego ever so slightly for both members and models.
