Premiums hitting on premiums

[Mikeythegeek]

After a brief conversation came up in Amber's room today, I thought of this question...

I'm sure we've all seen female premium members (whether they're models or not) hanging out in rooms and some guy asks them "PM me?" Hell, some of us long time Amber Addicts have seen a female prem try to hit on the male prems!

So, with that set up, has anyone while perving on MFC (or any other cam site if possible) been hit on by another member? And either way, what do you think of that.

I think it's dumb myself. As I've put it before, the only attention whore allowed in a model's room is the model. That's it.

 

[DivSavel]

I've been hit on as a premium, definitely. That's one reason I'm exceptionally shy at talking sometimes in another model's room.

What's worse, is the first time a guy hit on me was during a model's show! I told him nicely that I was there to appreciate the model, just like him, and that she deserved our full attention. Personally, I think it's messed up to have a side thing going on like that when the point is to chill with the model and join the freechat discussion. But, that's just my preference as a premi.

When I'm premi, I feel like being flirty and naughty like that is a distraction from the room, and I always try to point the attention back to her.

 

[Keithy]

When I say stupid shit like "i squirt bb" in a busy room I used to get hit on asking if I was a girl.

 

[ViruSphere]

I've only had one premium message me saying that they're a girl, I didn't believe him. I find it very unlikely that a girl would be on MFC except if they're a model.

 

[Zoomer]

I have received several requests to turn on my cam and let others watch. Some thought I was a girl, but at least three knew I was a guy and still asked for cam and started trying to talk dirty to me - during public shows with my favourite model.

The ones who think I'm a lady I pull the wool over their eyes by not saying I'm a guy for about 30 seconds. The ones who know I'm a guy I just politely tell them that I'm not interested in that sort of thing - a form of "sorry, doesn't float my boat". Two of them continued after that - so I told them I was blocking them - which I did.

Doesn't worry me in the slightest. Of course if it were a daily occurrence I'd probably change my chat to friends only, but I enjoy having a very small friends list (3 models only basically) and still have convos with premiums who enjoy the same rooms as myself.

 

[AmberCutie]

If I get the idea that a member is partaking in my MFC chat only to hit on other premiums, they will promptly be banned. Take that shit to the lounge! Unfortunately, it's more obvious when it's a "female" member, and your public notes of "mmm your tits just made my panties wet" isn't taken well. You might think it's a compliment to me, but it actually puts other members' attention on YOU, so STFU about it.

 

[Bocefish]

It never ceases to amaze me how dudes pounce as soon as they suspect a premium on MFC is of the female persuasion. It's as if they never saw a woman before.

 

[LadyLuna]

Yeah, that's why I have my premium account set to friend's only. I don't mind having a mile-long friend's list though.

 

[bawksy]

It never ceases to amaze me how dudes pounce as soon as they suspect a premium on MFC is of the female persuasion. It's as if they never saw a woman before.

You might be on to something. Perhaps they think that female premiums are more plausibly IRL-obtainable than the cam girls.

I usually get one or two PMs from mistaken hornballs every time I post a Boxxy picture. It's cute.

 

[DivSavel]

One thing that does make me sad are girls who flat out hate other girls in their rooms. :icon-cry:
I genuinely enjoy chatting with, tipping, and chilling with a model, yet I've noticed some models (mostly non-american/UK some exceptions) that notice my feminine premi name and respond more negatively to me. I'm wondering if it's just awkward because they're straight and I'm bi, or if they're afraid I'm going to pull this shit on them. x_x It can be as simple as:

Model: Hi everyone!!
Me: Hellos pretty lady! =D What are you up to?
Model: ... Hi.
LuvUrCumBb: mmm bb love dat ass
Model: Mmm, hi LuvUrCumBb, how you doin' sexy?

FYI ladies I visit: Not trying to steal and premis, please believe me. If I'm in your room, I wanna hang out with you because I think you're a fun, gorgeous lady.

 

[Kittycatpurr]

I get bugged all the time when I'm on my prem account. My pms are set to everyone at the moment as I want my regs who i consdier to be true friends who i haven't added yet to be able to find me and message me. Unfortunately this means I have to put up with a whole load of unbidden inappropriate drivel from people i have never spoken to before. My response when I'm in a model's room is always that I'm there to chill and watch the show and to please leave me alone. Doesn't stop some guys from persisting (what is it with the not being able to take no for an answer??? It dumbfounds me) and I have ended up being really sharp with a few guys as a result. I think that I'm going to be changing my pm settings next time i log on as I don't want to detract from any models room and I am so bored of having to politely explain that i don't want to chat when I'm perving (and oh gawd, the 'mmmmmmmmmm bb you look hot' approach makes me want to hit things)

 

[SweepTheLeg]

With my avatar involving two girls I do tend to get hit on because for whatever reason they think that I am one of the girls instead of the dude in the middle with the shit eating grin.

A lot of guys will hit on anything and may think they can have better luck getting attention from the female premium they won't have to tip instead of the model. I don't know, and I try not to think too much about why other dudes do what they do.

I've seen girls make a comment while the model is doing a show and instead of enjoying the show guys spent their time wanting to PM and talk to the girl premium. But the girl shouldn't be held to blame, if they want the model to know what they are doing is turning them on what should they do?

 

[AmberCutie]

But the girl shouldn't be held to blame, if they want the model to know what they are doing is turning them on what should they do?

Same way I don't really want to hear how "longjohn123" is getting hard, I don't need to hear about how some female viewer is getting wet. Something more generic like "oh that's hot!" or "you move really sexy" instead of "My 22 inch dick is rock hard for u baby" or "Im rubbing KY jelly on my pussy too, mmm that feels good." So it goes both ways. My wanting of less descriptive bodily function is not sexist.

That's just me though.

(Yes the female viewer I'm referencing in my last posts actually said something near identical to that.)

 

[Mikeythegeek]

But the girl shouldn't be held to blame, if they want the model to know what they are doing is turning them on what should they do?

Same way I don't really want to hear how "longjohn123" is getting hard, I don't need to hear about how some female viewer is getting wet. Something more generic like "oh that's hot!" or "you move really sexy" instead of "My 22 inch dick is rock hard for u baby" or "Im rubbing KY jelly on my pussy too, mmm that feels good." So it goes both ways. My wanting of less descriptive bodily function is not sexist.

That's just me though.

(Yes the female viewer I'm referencing in my last posts actually said something near identical to that.)

I was wondering if you had noticed that crap too. I thought about saying to 'her' "nobody gives a damn about your 'pussy' being wet, dude."

 

[SweepTheLeg]

fair enough and I agree talking about how hard my dick is getting for you in public chat is unnecessary just like a girl blatantly saying "my pussy is so wet that i need to find something to cram in there.". But also at the same time, if there was a female in your room and she said the most innocent of things to comment about how you move or how you look pleases her with no intentions of getting any attention from the male viewers- as soon as guys find out she's a girl are suddenly going to give her attention and she shouldn't be blamed or shunned for talking because I've seen that happen too.

 

[Jupiter551]

watching this right now, I haven't hit on her but I'll happily perv and she's not a model (though she should be) :drool:

 

[Eva_ChangeN]

I've only had one premium message me saying that they're a girl, I didn't believe him. I find it very unlikely that a girl would be on MFC except if they're a model.

I ws a perv on MFC for over a year before ever thinking about becoming a model, and I have a few friends that watch as well that are married to men, and one lesbian friend who all surf MFC at some point

I have prems try to PM me when I am watching another model, and I copy and paste my message of "I am busy watching this model...if you want to chat, you can message me later when I am on cam or at another time...thanks" Then I ignore their PMs till I change rooms then I blast thru the messages encase their is something interesting, usually not LOL

 

[lordmagellan]

In reference to this:

I'm sure we've all seen female premium members (whether they're models or not) hanging out in rooms and some guy asks them "PM me?" Hell, some of us long time Amber Addicts have seen a female prem try to hit on the male prems!

What's the problem, really? Say it works and guy asks girl to PM (or vice versa), and they do so; whether they leave the room or not, any conversation they have from that point forward is between them and not bogging down the chat. They may be commenting to each other about certain things they enjoy with the show, like people do with movies, or they might actually be getting to know each other. I'd rather that happen in PM instead of the room.

Now, if someone comes in the room and is obviously fishing for attention, then sure, they're being a douche and should be called on it. But this thread seems to suggest that there's a great faux pas in a chat getting sidelined for someone other than the model because someone wants to try and hook up. How is it any different than the chat just getting off track? I've seen two or three premies go back and forth talking about whatever and ignoring the model- hell I've been one. In my defense, she was originally involved with the conversation.

So is the problem that it's distracting from the model? Or that someone is trying to hook-up?

 

[AmberCutie]

So is the problem that it's distracting from the model? Or that someone is trying to hook-up?

That it's a distraction from the model. I say it all the time... when I'm on cam in my chat room, I should be the only girl getting that kind of attention. That's what I'm there for.

It's one of the few selfish and overly confident things I ever say, but I stick by it.

 

[GreatDane]

So is the problem that it's distracting from the model? Or that someone is trying to hook-up?

That it's a distraction from the model. I say it all the time... when I'm on cam in my chat room, I should be the only girl getting that kind of attention. That's what I'm there for.

It's one of the few selfish and overly confident things I ever say, but I stick by it.

and if someone is in your room, that's how it should be. If you are going to perv out with a Premium, do it from the home page and not in a room, show the girl of the room that much respect at least

 

[countrysquirter]

I have a few favs I visit and like to chat to under my premium account. I get pm's from members in thier rooms quite frequently and for the most part I just tell them "I am here watching so & so, shes awesome, so cant really chat right now, but nice to meet you".

 

[UKgg]

It's nice (though stressful, to be honest) having other models visit. The least you can do as a model premium is have an understated colour, and not a name like "OtherModel4U" or "ImAModelTooLookAtMe"...

It's just standard show of respect. Are you that shit of a model that you have to try and garner attention elsewhere? Look, if you can't steal my customers while you're online, what makes you think they want you now you're in my room?

Drives me crazy! That's just men, though, not entirely the models fault.

That reminds me! Also, I respect the fact that other models say when they get PM'ed, "I'm here watching this model, right now, I'm not here to talk to you." BUT, that annoys me too because WHAT THE SHIT? That's like being a celebrity at a smaller celebrities party and swanning around going, "Yeees, yesssss, I know you all love me but we're paying attention to THIS girl todaaaay, let's not focus on me.. for now. I know it's hard but, bless her soul, she's trying her best!!"

Just seems a bit big headed, too, you know?

Awwh, I'm just insecure. I resolve all issues by not visiting other models and just talking on Twitter.

 

[countrysquirter]

It's nice (though stressful, to be honest) having other models visit. The least you can do as a model premium is have an understated colour, and not a name like "OtherModel4U" or "ImAModelTooLookAtMe"...

It's just standard show of respect. Are you that shit of a model that you have to try and garner attention elsewhere? Look, if you can't steal my customers while you're online, what makes you think they want you now you're in my room?

Drives me crazy! That's just men, though, not entirely the models fault.

That reminds me! Also, I respect the fact that other models say when they get PM'ed, "I'm here watching this model, right now, I'm not here to talk to you." BUT, that annoys me too because WHAT THE SHIT? That's like being a celebrity at a smaller celebrities party and swanning around going, "Yeees, yesssss, I know you all love me but we're paying attention to THIS girl todaaaay, let's not focus on me.. for now. I know it's hard but, bless her soul, she's trying her best!!"

Just seems a bit big headed, too, you know?

Awwh, I'm just insecure. I resolve all issues by not visiting other models and just talking on Twitter.

Whoa Thats WAY off. For the record: I am a nobody on Mfc. I go and watch my favs and generally the ones that DO end up pming, are the ones that ARE NOT TIPPING and want a "girl" to watch their cam, or talk sex talk to get them off. I have one particular model I talk to when I go in under premium account, but MOSTLY I will watch under a guest account for the others. I will sign in under prem. account if I want to tip, which I do to my one most fav model. Your way off base in your statement above when it applies to me anyway. I PROMOTE my fav models. I got in shit from one of my reg's for it. He pm'ed me to say "wtf are you telling people they gotta go see so and so for when your supposed to be building yourself up".

Generally though, I do watch my favs under a guest account UNLESS I want to tip or talk - and I only have one that I really love to talk to. Personally, I think the members that do pm other premiums are just looking for a free way go get off. Your statement of "big headed" is so far off that if you knew me, it would be laughable. I do agree with your "font color" and "name" though. My prem name is close to my model name, due to just not being original, but I am going to change it to something obscure after reading above as I just never thought of that. I certainly didnt pick my premium name with any thought, I just couldnt come up with anything so stayed close to the model name.

 

[lordmagellan]

So is the problem that it's distracting from the model? Or that someone is trying to hook-up?

That it's a distraction from the model. I say it all the time... when I'm on cam in my chat room, I should be the only girl getting that kind of attention. That's what I'm there for.

It's one of the few selfish and overly confident things I ever say, but I stick by it.

I understand and agree that the model should be the only one in the room receiving that attention, but my point was that it seems everyone is making that out to be worse than any other distraction in the room. As luck would have it, my case was wonderfully illustrated the other night. I was in a models room and watched for like five or ten minutes as everyone in the chat carried on about conspiracies: Bin Laden's been dead/ isn't dead, 9-11 was an inside job; all that nonsense. NO tips. No attention paid to the model and while she tried to get in on the discussion, she clearly looked uninterested and BORED. So my thinking is, this should have been carried out elsewhere; PM, lounge, where ever- not bogging down the chat, making it so new arrivals feel less than welcome to join the room.

I just don't really see why it's necessarily a worse thing for a girl to get hit on, or asked to go PM, if it doesn't cause a major distraction to the room. If those two people go off on their own, they were probably not great additions to the room, anyway. And they most likely weren't planning to tip. :twocents-02cents:

I did end up chatting with said model, by the way, giving the room a nudge and reminding them there was beautiful girl that should be talked to. I figured it was the least I could do after watching for a while and having no tokens.

 

[MyCamgirl]

Because some people only have time to read the nickname, I've got some annoying PM's.

 

[luvsyou]

There is another premium (female) that I met in the lounge. We chatted for about a year in pm. Now we go cam to cam once in a while to perv on each other.

 

[Jupiter551]

There is another premium (female) that I met in the lounge. We chatted for about a year in pm. Now we go cam to cam once in a while to perv on each other.

lol names pls! no I don't want to hit on them I just wondered if I know em lol

There are a bunch of pervettes in the lounge, some of whom give shows from time to time, one has a very popular member room a lot of members and models hang out in. I don't see any of em taking attention from a model anyway, certainly not on purpose. I'm sure there's also a bunch of pretend female premiums lol.

The only premium I've ever had such...interaction...with was a model on her premium account who got bored and horny while perving around the site lol

 

[AmberCutie]

Oh and how can we forget one of the first girl premiums I used to have in my room? She would lure them in with flirting, eventually ask for token transfers, and once she got to know some of them better, she'd give them guilt trips for being in my room and watching/talking to me instead of skyping or AIM with her.

How is that NOT supposed to leave a bad taste in my mouth?

 

[Paulie Walnuts]

am I the only one who will admit I have other men hitting on me via pm?
I dunno what I do or say... I'm a gay magnet. I thought it was a common thing. I just dont answer em.

I get at least a few PMs a week while sitting and chatting in public in various rooms. (maybe I type gay? wtf?)

:lol:

 

[AmberCutie]

am I the only one who will admit I have other men hitting on me via pm?
I dunno what I do or say... I'm a gay magnet. I thought it was a common thing. I just dont answer em.

I get at least a few PMs a week while sitting and chatting in public in various rooms. (maybe I type gay? wtf?)

:lol:

Do you like fish sticks?