Yeah that last part you talked about is something I've been going baxk n forth on. .
Since I'm new, i wonder if talking to them is what I need to do to gain a following.. but another part of me knows that this seems pushy and scares some people off.
What I am doing now instead is not talking to new people, but once I see them come time n time again then I talk to them.
Thanks for replying.
No problem. There's a thread around here somewhere about how to engage with and get viewers to talk. Lots of great advice over there. When you have a decent number of people in your room - even just 20 - say hello to
everyone and ask how everyone is doing. Chances are, someone will respond and engage in discussion. You can take it from there - tell a story, talk about your weekend, whatever. Maybe add a sexy edge to it...
BTW, some unsolicited advice but I'd be remiss if I didn't share: Especially as a beginner, don't automatically rule out "grays"! Some grays have been my most loyal followers, encouraging people to tip, follow, telling them about my social media and content sites, telling newcomers how great my shows are, etc. Also, you never know when a gray will like you and go buy 1k tokens to drop on you (it's happened to all of us at some point in time). Perpetual grays might be freeloaders but - at the risk of sounding callous - you can 'use them' in return by getting them to keep your room fun and interesting, as a lot of them will chat a lot (in a relevant, helpful way, that is).
Side note: the kinds of grays to avoid - If you have regular grays who
never tip but constantly request something or expect you to engage in direct conversation with them, then yes, go ahead and silence them. It'll annoy your tippers and eventually piss you off, too. E.g. I had a gray who would come into my room every day for two weeks (until I banned him). At first he was cool, offering a compliment here and there and occasionally encouraging people to follow. That's fine.
THEN...Slowly, he started calling me "Daddy" and asking me to talk about being his "Daddy"...then, the giant teddy bear GIFs started. It drove me insane. Other viewers found it obnoxious. This is what people should pay you for in a private show (which I told him; he responded that he could not afford it...too bad). Be careful not to fall for Chatur
baiting!! The second he started that crap, I knew he was trying to get a "fantasy for free" and banned him.
Best of luck! You'll do great if you interact with and follow the advice from the knowledgeable models that hang out here at ACF (and the stickied posts)!