UncleThursday said:
I only know one model who says she never watches cams, ever. Even models Who don't know me that well, if I take them private are saying things like 'I'm going to turn your cam on' or 'do you have a cam?' if it is not on. One was like 'Can I turn your cam on? Never mind, I'm going to do it anyway.'
I think during sexy time, the models who watch cams want to know they're giving the member what they want. Does every model want to watch cams or hear the members? Obviously not. But, I've found, personally, that it seems to be a minority with the models I know. Some even turn certain member cams on in free just to have someone else to watch.
I hear this a lot from members. From hearing what girls on here have to say, I think out of the girls who act like they love watching cams, there's a percentage who truly do love watching cams, a percentage who don't care but know the guys like it, and a percentage who really don't particularly like it but are willing to do it for the tokens. Thing is, because all of those groups say they love watching cams, it does tend to give a lot of members the wrong impression.
I personally HATE watching cams. I don't like hearing sound either. Freaks me out. When I say this to some members they seem to get really annoyed/upset that I say this, because of all the girls who've told them they love looking at their cock. Now this to a point is me being skeptical, but I do think sometimes members shouldn't read too much into things models say. I'm pretty dam blunt as a cam model, but still, I sugar coat things all the time, and amazingly I still don't offer my completely honest opinions about people. Cam models are paid to be sexy, lovely fantasies, and for many guys the fantasy is them being very attracted and being very wanted. Having their penis being something sought after by many girls. Some girls cater to these fantasies, like i cater to other fantasies.
Essentially cam girls may enjoy aspects of their job, but except for a few exceptions we are doing it for money, part of making money in camming is acting like that's not what we're out for.
It's not a big problem enjoying the fantasies, but sometimes it makes me think "do men actually think this is real/how real life women would feel about seeing a random penis?" The amounts of times I get men acting like they think seeing their penis would be doing me some kind of favour because other girls have said it's nice/turns them on.
If I were to ever offer advice to members joing mfc, I would say "take most things with a pinch of salt. Enjoy, but remember, it's just a bit of fun and NOT serious"
And that was a totally off topic rant... soo.... yeah.... moving on.