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New Year's Resolutions for 2017!

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I have three!

Number one: amp up my work ethics! Focus harder on work and expand my brand.
Number two: go 100% vegetarian. I am mostly there but I have cheated or accidentally ate meat without thinking a few times.
Number three: write down the things I am most grateful at the end of every day and review at the end of the year! :)
 
Typical NYR - hit the gym more often LOL
Work smarter not harder
Quit smoking (tobacco) and cut back on herb, like once a week
Spend responsibly and save more!
Oh and I just put Australia on my bucket list because I want to go to the Sexpo next year (fingers crossed)
 
*2017 will be the year I clear 100k *I've come close the last 2-3 years*

*Keep exercising/eating right

*Plan My Wedding and don't freak out to much (wedding is 2018)

*Keep hiring models and working towards building an empire

*Keep working hard

*Manage anxiety better
 
Get outdoors more.

Drink less.

Meet or beat this years token goal.
 
I don't ever believe in New Years Resolutions, its a platitude we tell ourselves and then laugh about it when we have fucked it up in Feb
Yeh I wanna be fitter? what am I gonna do to be that?
There is nothing wrong with goals but lets break it into steps. this is why people fail and I know cos ive been there for many a year
The only one I wanna share is read "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" by Mark Manson, its what I need to do, cos I give my fucks away far too freely and end up being hurt
 
2015 was the most insane year of my life, and 2016 was spent recovering and rebuilding from it. Next year is going to be a big launch year for me! My resolutions are standard -- more money, better health -- but I've made ambitious concrete goals to aspire toward.

100 lbs. lost: I lost 25 lbs. this year, and I managed to keep it off even through the holidays. But I'm still dangerously heavy, and if I don't want my health to backslide, I need to continue this positive progress. The change in diet I've made has been a huge contributor, but to get where I'm going, I'm also aiming for:

1,000 miles on foot. And I'm hoping to do most of it running. There have been recent years that I have put in a lot of miles jogging and biking, and I loved it. When I got really sick about five years back, I stopped. Now that I'm healthier than I've been in a long time, I'm excited to pick it up again!

Most of all, I want to generate a livable income with my artwork. I've been part-timing as a freelance artist for pretty much my entire adult life, but it's always been supplementary work for me. This year, I take up the mantle of Full-time Working Artist. I have the luxury of knowing how to live very very poor, and I'm aiming for a modest amount this year and a lot of groundwork laid. $30k is what I'm aiming at, but even grossing five figures would be a very nice benchmark for me to hit. I've been working on this for a few months already, but January is when I flip the switch to start monetizing my efforts and gaining a daily income.

Each big goal has a lot of little thresholds, and I think each goal is doable, if I keep focus and discipline. I guess I'll let us all know how it went in a year's time!
 
2017?

-Get my rescue horse actually broke under saddle (I know that sounds silly but I have been procrastinating starting her for like six months and she is a VERY expensive lawnmower.) I am undertaking this in January, hopefully I don't die. I am a tad rusty after so much time off. I need to put at least 15 rides on her next month.... It's something I love but something I never make time for since I started camming full-time.

-Save enough money to put a down-payment on a small house this July

-Be kinder to myself, my darling boyfriend, and my family

-No drinking at home/keeping booze at home

-Actually PROMOTE my member's site
 
I need to learn to love myself more and not be too hard on myself. My negativity holds me back. I need to give myself more credit and feel proud of even the little things I accomplish.

Keep being a vegetarian and continue treating my body well. I want to exercise more and spend more time outdoors.

Make friends. (Preferably more IRL cam girl friends!) I'm tired of being a loner.

Beat my highest rank (#609) at some point in 2017
 
-Start streaming regularly again
-Remember how to write music
-Practice piano more
-Take better care of my health
-Keep up with ballet classes
-Keep up with college classes
 
  • Beat previous years amounts earned per day & month
  • Get my clip stores better organized (I tend to get overwhelmed with them)
  • Work on my health and anxiety levels
I did a descent job this year considering I only had one truly BAD month due to wiring issues messing with my upload speed. I lost the amount of weight I wanted (went from 180ish to now 135ish lbs). Now I'm happy as long as I don't go below 130 or over 140. I figure toning will be my main focus now.

I discovered recently a good chunk of my problem with my anxiety was attributed to low magnesium levels, so gotta keep that in check, but gonna still work on not having panic attacks due to my overly OCD need to finish a lengthy to-do list each and every day.

Like the weight loss I've gotten better each year, and camming helps me with it. I used to have horrid social anxiety (mostly based on a speech & hearing issue I used to have...central auditory processing disorder due to low serotonin levels/great looking body held together with duct tape) to the point where I would have to essentially pretend members were simply 1's and 0's. After years of starting my cam career aka my version group talk therapy I've gotten to the point where I've done real damn close to a 180. It's gotten to the point where I have a tendency to get overly chatty, and rather addicted to confronting people (in comparison to how I used to be it feels like a goddamn superpower)...still often need alone time for a while after being very social, but I think that's like most folks.

Tl;dr mine's more like keep going with what I started.
 
I know the whole "new year, new me" wave can seem generic or pointless, but personally, I have to force myself to be
organized & productive. It doesn't come natural because for most of my life I have not been in that type of structure. So that
being said I jump at any excuse to become a better, more productive me. The New Year hype is kinda corny but for a person l
like me it gives me just the boost I need, especially after a year like 2016 :giggle:
MyGoals
*Get killer with pole dance
*Eat healthier
*Procrastinate less
*Cam more often & longer & harder
*Be less awkward
*Lose my g/g virginity:p
*Produce more content
*Learn as much as possible

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  • More consistency in my life regarding work ethics, eating behaviours, taking care of household things, i've been working toward this already and i'm going to keep doing that.
  • Learn to sew better with my sewing machine.
  • Start looking for a new apartment/ save up for moving/ move in 2017 preferably before or during summer
  • Come up with a plan to deal with the dogs flaws and stick to working on them.
 
1) Get top 250 twice.
2) Keep losing weight and working out.
3) Refrain from getting another cat. T_T
4) Go fishing more.
5) Go to Finland.
6) Finish upgrading my studio.
7) Pay off at least half my debt.
8) Write more music.
9) Make more porn.
10) Try and be moar goodly all around.

BONUS RESOLUTION:
11) Bring baggy shirts back in style.
 
Actually go to the gym more than two days a week. I need to get off my big ass and work on less cellulite, if that's even possible lol
Stretch more so that I can get back to being as bendy as I was in ballet.
Play the games I buy for more than two hours total before turning Skyrim or Dragon Age: Inquisition on.
Cam more.
Try not to strangle the customers that keep reporting bugs that don't actually exist in the database. (Customers should never be given access to the db, I swear, one guy managed to actually crash the website by deleting a single thing, NO MORE)
Maaaybe become vegetarian?
 
So excited for 2017! I'm going to work my ass off to be like my fav cam girls, spend more time working out and focusing on my health and anxiety. But most importantly I'm going to live my life my way for the first time ever.
 
Keep a somewhat normal sleep schedule

Spend less than an hour a day on the internet

Try some new foods and be a less picky eater

Participate in a few charity runs

Spend at least a month outside of the U.S.

Tone down the drinking a tad on weekdays

Golf as much as possible

Snowboard as much as possible
 
I think the only thing on my list is to try and have a more regular sleep schedule. I've been a can't go to bed early person all my life and the lack of consistent sleep is wearing on me. So the goal for 2017 is to get a full night's rest.
 
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*In general...to do what makes me happy, and what I feel is best for me (especially job/career-wise), even if it's something I'll probably be criticized for. And to make more money. Someone online recently posted this cool meme:

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*To move out by early-February!

*To enjoy a night out at least once a month. I used to go to karaoke nights, but I stopped. I wanna get back into that again, and hopefully meet new people.
 
All I wanted for this year was to make ok money and just calm down.I woke up w fever,power was off,when it turned on i didn`t had internet and when i went to make coffee,the coffee machine broke...WHY?!i`m going to wash away the bad start of the day at gym today
 
My biggest goals in 2017 are:

Continue to pay off my student loan debt.
Pay my taxes to the IRS and state of California
Start looking for a nice condo in San Francisco ( Finally, I saved enough to look for condos)
Get two real-time findom slaves.
Finally start my career as champion Angel sugar baby.
Get more email slaves. (You can never have enough)
Update my camming, phone sex, panty selling, and texting careers
Update my virtual escorting career and upgrading my avatars in all virtual worlds.
Develop 5 different phone sex characters for my direct-dial and texting business.
Develop my third and final cam persona.
 
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