New section idea?

[IsabellaSnow]

One thing I find kind of interesting is that the girls have all said they think it's a good idea and seemed for it, and the guys have all seemed against it. Is this because of another reason than just not thinking it's a good idea? Can you not see how this might benefit some girls relationships? Or would you just like it all in public where you can see or not spoken of at all?

I do not really care one way or the other. The thought of needing support to deal with your wife or girlfriends job is just strange to me. Kind of passive aggressive "if you loved me you would stop this kind of thing" stuff. I am afraid this will put extra stress in the lives of models.

Well that's what I meant by my earlier post. If it were a section where the models weren't welcome, as in they'd basically just be bitching about it/treating it as a problem, then it wouldn't be a good thing. Actually I don't like the idea of a partner treating it as a problem one bit. But I wouldn't mind a section with a few threads where a models partner can introduce themselves/say hello, maybe ask some questions, have a few silly/chatty threads. Nothing major, just a place where every now and then a models partner could join in on the chat/ask questions/advice.
Personally I don't think it'd be something I'd end up using, I don't tend to go out with people who spend much time online and chances of me having a relationship that serious is slim. But if I did get into a relationship serious enough I wouldn't ever introduce him to my room/the public part of acf, but I wouldn't mind/would quite like him to have a place to meet my other model friends/to see how awesome and wonderful they are! Not saying you aren't awesome and wonderful Shaun, but you're not such a big part of my life as the girls are .

Normal members wouldn't be third class citizens, you'd just be the same, as other girls have said, there probably wouldn't be that many partner's who'd use this part of the forum, I would reckon it'd just be a few threads, probably a bit more personal than the public section, but not nearly as personal as the models only section. I also reckon it'd be no more interesting to you than the models only section is. Quite a few partners who are with camgirls are actually quite a bit part of life/support, I don't see why they shouldn't have a bit where they can have a little chat without having to worry that everyone in the world could see it if they wanted to.

 

[NoelleBright]

One thing I find kind of interesting is that the girls have all said they think it's a good idea and seemed for it, and the guys have all seemed against it. Is this because of another reason than just not thinking it's a good idea? Can you not see how this might benefit some girls relationships? Or would you just like it all in public where you can see or not spoken of at all?

I do not really care one way or the other. The thought of needing support to deal with your wife or girlfriends job is just strange to me. Kind of passive aggressive "if you loved me you would stop this kind of thing" stuff. I am afraid this will put extra stress in the lives of models.

Well that's what I meant by my earlier post. If it were a section where the models weren't welcome, as in they'd basically just be bitching about it/treating it as a problem, then it wouldn't be a good thing. Actually I don't like the idea of a partner treating it as a problem one bit. But I wouldn't mind a section with a few threads where a models partner can introduce themselves/say hello, maybe ask some questions, have a few silly/chatty threads. Nothing major, just a place where every now and then a models partner could join in on the chat/ask questions/advice.
Personally I don't think it'd be something I'd end up using, I don't tend to go out with people who spend much time online and chances of me having a relationship that serious is slim. But if I did get into a relationship serious enough I wouldn't ever introduce him to my room/the public part of acf, but I wouldn't mind/would quite like him to have a place to meet my other model friends/to see how awesome and wonderful they are! Not saying you aren't awesome and wonderful Shaun, but you're not such a big part of my life as the girls are .

Normal members wouldn't be third class citizens, you'd just be the same, as other girls have said, there probably wouldn't be that many partner's who'd use this part of the forum, I would reckon it'd just be a few threads, probably a bit more personal than the public section, but not nearly as personal as the models only section. I also reckon it'd be no more interesting to you than the models only section is. Quite a few partners who are with camgirls are actually quite a bit part of life/support, I don't see why they shouldn't have a bit where they can have a little chat without having to worry that everyone in the world could see it if they wanted to.

It just seems like more work and policing for Amber for not much of a payoff, you know?
She already gave us this, why give her more work for a section that's only going to have a few threads?
I just don't see it as something that will have a ton of participation.

 

[Anonymous]

I have to agree that while this sounds nice and I definitely could understand guys needing to relate to one another on being with cam girls, it's sketchy territory. Mainly because with the girls on the site, maybe everyone has different levels of openness and what they will or won't share but everyone is ultimately in similar boats and that's what seals the camaraderie. If a girl say starts getting extra blabbidy about personal issues..and five minutes later thinks "maybe I shouldn't have said that?" she can still feel some safety that 99% of other girls wouldn't use that information against her, because they can relate, and are all in the cam boat. Because the girls are the one's putting themselves out there, they're the one's in the position to lose if anything negative arose(anything from tippers to or personal safety or whatever). With the men in relationships with these girls, they might share info with one another that makes THEM feel better... but if they ever over shared in whatever way applicable... and something negative arose... again the GIRLS are still the one's with something to lose. So.. it doesn't seem to me like the best idea...
Plus for every human who's in fact with a good partner... there's probably two or three who THINK they're with a good partner...and tell them everything...but may actually on the verge of breaking up... and say hey join up here... and...well...how would you test for something like that? you couldn't. :twocents-02cents:

Best post on here so far. :thumbleft:

 

[Todd1029]

Needing support for her job couldn't be further off. I have no issue with her job I just think it would fun to interact with couples with the scenario going on. So many of these replies are treating this proposal as something its not

 

[Jupiter551]

Needing support for her job couldn't be further off. I have no issue with her job I just think it would fun to interact with couples with the scenario going on. So many of these replies are treating this proposal as something its not

Then just start a thread, without giving away too many details and such and I'm sure others will chime in. Most of the other members aren't going to be interested enough in your relationship to even read it. Unless you've got super secret squirrel business, this is already a camgirl-related forum.

 

[LadyLuna]

I think maybe you could start a thread with the title "any other s/o's of models looking to chat?" and go from there. If there's a bunch of them that like the idea, maybe you could then try to figure out how to make it happen. If not, then you understand why there's no such section already.

 

[CallMeWilliam]

New to the forums, I'm Chelle's other half. I'm wondering about he ability to have a boyfriends/ husbands only section? just like the models only section and the verified models could verify their counterparts. Just an idea.

I can only imagine what a models partner would do if they felt offended by a member, another models partner or even a model on the site and how much more drama that would bring.

But then how bad could it get? I mean regular members are pretty civil about it in public...

 

[IsabellaSnow]

To be fair, I wouldn't mind a verified member area, as in those members who have proved not to be complete dickheads and where we can talk to each other without absolutely anyone being able to see/trolls being able to attack. But it's not something I'm that fussed about, and it'd probably not be worth the extra work for Amber. I still think it's interesting discussing the possibilities though.

 

[Todd1029]

Yea i/m not expecting anything. Just tossing around an idea that I had and figured I'd throw it out there.

 

[Swirl]

Good idea! I wonder if such a forum was created, if those weirdos that actually think some camgirl is their girlfriend would participate in it?

I can see it already!

I haven't tipped in 3 days and my girl won't speak with me! What should I do????

 

[Kunra9]

While I don't see it as necessarily a terrible idea, it does seem like a TON of work for Amber.

The SO would have to be verified by a model ofcourse. So he/she gets access to the sub-forum.

As we all know, relationships are difficult. So if anybody happens to go through a breakup, now his/her status needs to be revoked. Then a couple weeks later they reconcile and are true lovebirds again. Now he needs his/her status re-approved. Few months later they are done again. etc etc etc.

Something like that is not as simple as logging into Facebook and changing your relationship status to "it's complicated" (wtf does that even mean?).

Seems like it would just be much easier for everyone if the SO's made a thread to share stories. You don't have to give away WHO your partner is.

 

[curvyredhead]

I think this a GREAT IDEA ...IF Amber and Jawbs have the time/energy/care

I think a lot the potential problems are of course valid, but are the same problems that one might come across in a model's only section.

Selfish Question Time: What about wives/girlfriends?

 

[sweetiebatman]

If you look at "amount forum would be used vs time taken" ie verification of "partners", keeping it up to date when people split up, the potential for abuse

Then I don't think it would be worth it, I might be really wrong but I just can't see it being used, speaking as a man (allegedly) if I have a problem the last thing I do is go talk to a load of strangers on the internetz about it.

 

[Shaun__]

I see models offering boyfriend status for tokens on a regular basis. If I tipped for that would I get access?