New Model ... Blackmail

[NikkiLeighDDD]

Hi My ame is Nikki. I have been a model for 2 weeks now on MFC. My first week was Amazing... Over 70 Admirers and nothing but 5 stars rating. I also have a good following of regulars. My second week is going great but now I have a problem... On the first day within a second a guy sent me a message with lots of helpful tips... So I thanked him. Next couple of days I noticed him watching me and he would send me messages asking me to be his boyfriend(never tipped me anything). I didnt reply.. Just laughed it off (Guys . Within a week I got a message saying if I didnt give him free Skype he would go into the members lounge and tell everyone how horrible of a person I was and not to tip me.... So I Ingored/Banned him. After I noticed he was still watching me (thought with ignore he couldnt watch anymore) Next day I contacted MFC they told me to ban the state so he couldnt watch me.. I did (small state). Next day I was talking to a guy then out of nowhere he said (guys name)told him to not tip bitches with pms. WTF. I got so much crap on my site within 10 minutes calling me every name imaginable. Then I got a message from a regular telling me in the PM lounge this guy was telling everyone I was a horrible person, not to ever tip me. WTF again. I have noticed a sharp decrease in traffic and more name calling.. Im afraid to ban now. I have been nothing but sweet and funny Im so lucky to have my regulars that know this and support me(getting more every day). If anyone has any thought of what I should do... and how I should go about dealing with this let me know.Has this happened to anyone else? Thanks -Nikki

I will not give up.. This will only make me stronger :thumbleft:

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Hi My ame is Nikki. I have been a model for 2 weeks now on MFC. My first week was Amazing... Over 70 Admirers and nothing but 5 stars rating. I also have a good following of regulars. My second week is going great but now I have a problem... On the first day within a second a guy sent me a message with lots of helpful tips... So I thanked him. Next couple of days I noticed him watching me and he would send me messages asking me to be his boyfriend(never tipped me anything). I didnt reply.. Just laughed it off (Guys . Within a week I got a message saying if I didnt give him free Skype he would go into the members lounge and tell everyone how horrible of a person I was and not to tip me.... So I Ingored/Banned him. After I noticed he was still watching me (thought with ignore he couldnt watch anymore) Next day I contacted MFC they told me to ban the state so he couldnt watch me.. I did (small state). Next day I was talking to a guy then out of nowhere he said (guys name)told him to not tip bitches with pms. WTF. I got so much crap on my site within 10 minutes calling me every name imaginable. Then I got a message from a regular telling me in the PM lounge this guy was telling everyone I was a horrible person, not to ever tip me. WTF again. I have noticed a sharp decrease in traffic and more name calling.. Im afraid to ban now. I have been nothing but sweet and funny Im so lucky to have my regulars that know this and support me(getting more every day). If anyone has any thought of what I should do... and how I should go about dealing with this let me know.Has this happened to anyone else? Thanks -Nikki

I will not give up.. This will only make me stronger :thumbleft:

Ok so #1 - rating and admiring does absolutely *nothing*
in fact MFC removed it a while ago because of all the confusion this feature was causing. They put it back because people got grumpy but IT DOESNT DO or MEAN anything other than ppl clicked a thing on your profile. It won't govern traffic or anything else.

#2 - The lounge does not determine your traffic. It's a place where the dregs of mfc go to congregate and bitch and moan. being bad mouthed in the lounge is NOT going to drastically affect your traffic for good or bad. THE MOST that being talked about in the lounge will do, is bring in a few trolls.


#3 This guy is a dickwad. Report him again to MFC for harassment. You should not have to ban his state. The ban expires after 6 hours unless you go in and make it a 60 day ban. on Ignore he can still watch you he just can't talk to you. Make it a 60 day ban an then refresh it every 60 days.

he will still be able to post on your profile wall. You can stop that in your 'manage posts' settings - you can delete any he leaves.


Please don't stress over this. This kind of thing happens all the time. He's a dick wad preying on a new models naivety. You have NOTHING to fear from him.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

he will still be able to post on your profile wall. You can stop that in your 'manage posts' settings - you can delete any he leaves.

If you feel like leaving your message wall visible for people but you want to block him specifically from posting anything, you can do so here.

 

[NikkiLeighDDD]

Hi My ame is Nikki. I have been a model for 2 weeks now on MFC. My first week was Amazing... Over 70 Admirers and nothing but 5 stars rating. I also have a good following of regulars. My second week is going great but now I have a problem... On the first day within a second a guy sent me a message with lots of helpful tips... So I thanked him. Next couple of days I noticed him watching me and he would send me messages asking me to be his boyfriend(never tipped me anything). I didnt reply.. Just laughed it off (Guys . Within a week I got a message saying if I didnt give him free Skype he would go into the members lounge and tell everyone how horrible of a person I was and not to tip me.... So I Ingored/Banned him. After I noticed he was still watching me (thought with ignore he couldnt watch anymore) Next day I contacted MFC they told me to ban the state so he couldnt watch me.. I did (small state). Next day I was talking to a guy then out of nowhere he said (guys name)told him to not tip bitches with pms. WTF. I got so much crap on my site within 10 minutes calling me every name imaginable. Then I got a message from a regular telling me in the PM lounge this guy was telling everyone I was a horrible person, not to ever tip me. WTF again. I have noticed a sharp decrease in traffic and more name calling.. Im afraid to ban now. I have been nothing but sweet and funny Im so lucky to have my regulars that know this and support me(getting more every day). If anyone has any thought of what I should do... and how I should go about dealing with this let me know.Has this happened to anyone else? Thanks -Nikki

I will not give up.. This will only make me stronger :thumbleft:

Ok so #1 - rating and admiring does absolutely *nothing*
in fact MFC removed it a while ago because of all the confusion this feature was causing. They put it back because people got grumpy but IT DOESNT DO or MEAN anything other than ppl clicked a thing on your profile. It won't govern traffic or anything else.

#2 - The lounge does not determine your traffic. It's a place where the dregs of mfc go to congregate and bitch and moan. being bad mouthed in the lounge is NOT going to drastically affect your traffic for good or bad. THE MOST that being talked about in the lounge will do, is bring in a few trolls.


#3 This guy is a dickwad. Report him again to MFC for harassment. You should not have to ban his state. The ban expires after 6 hours unless you go in and make it a 60 day ban. on Ignore he can still watch you he just can't talk to you. Make it a 60 day ban an then refresh it every 60 days.

he will still be able to post on your profile wall. You can stop that in your 'manage posts' settings - you can delete any he leaves.


Please don't stress over this. This kind of thing happens all the time. He's a dick wad preying on a new models naivety. You have NOTHING to fear from him.

Thank You Last couple of weeks has been such a learning process... Thank you to Amber for creating this forum. Now I dont feel so alone.

 

[Ambers Troll]

#3 This guy is a dickwad. Report him again to MFC for harassment. You should not have to ban his state. The ban expires after 6 hours unless you go in and make it a 60 day ban. on Ignore he can still watch you he just can't talk to you. Make it a 60 day ban an then refresh it every 60 days.

he will still be able to post on your profile wall. You can stop that in your 'manage posts' settings - you can delete any he leaves.

Just a few additions to miss lollipop's reply...
1. There is a setting to stop any future posts in profile too/ an ignore list for profile posts (as JBoBerry suggested).
Your profile members will notice.
2. Don't let this guy throw you off, it is important that you take advantage of your new status.
3. I would recommend that you try to take advantage of any drama coming to your room. This is an opportunity to show some strength and humour. Feel free to ban troublemakers any time your instinct tells you to (24 hour is ok, but this guy deserves 60 days plus).
4. Do not worry too much about the lounges, the preview feature has for the most part made them obsolete. Searches for new models are easier through the home page.

 

[curvyredhead]

I swear half the time I go to a thread and read the OP and decide my opinions...i scroll down to see that MissLollipop has already said everything I think and has said it all so perfectly.