Need opinions on interaction

[AmberCutie]

Sending her gifts and so on is fine, but you should do it because you WANT to do it, not because you expect a return in it [...] you spend what you can on these kind of things, but what is most important is that it brings you enjoyment, not distress.. and at the same time it should not bring someone else distress..

these are valuable words. well said, Wuggie

 

[Lover31660]

Here you go guys, here's a model right here that doesn't want any money. All of you all complaining about spending money on pay to play sites, and not getting a real long term monogamous relationship out of it; go hang out with this guy.
He'll keep you busy while the rest of us interact w the normal people, that visit masturbation sites to God forbid; pay, masturbate, then leave.
Win, win.
All cam world problems solved
No more need for any more whining, yay! Moving on.

That was nice. Not sure where you got all that from my post, but whatever.
I encourage people to tip me. I like being paid. Got a whole 25 tks today. But pay is pay, right?

All I said was as a VIEWER all I've ever paid any cammer was tips and private shows. A cammer asking me for money outside tips and privates would be a deal breaker.
If the dude's paying cool paying rhe woman, fine.

 

[Lover31660]

Alrite Damm. Tell me how you really feel about me

Oh believe me, they WILL tell you how they feel about you. I just shrug it off.

 

[Vixxen81]

Oh believe me, they WILL tell you how they feel about you. I just shrug it off.

No, no, no.

See this is a huge misconception. We don't know you as a person and we aren't judging you as a person. We're judging you as a customer. We will however absolutely detail why we dislike one behavior or another or an outlook or perspective.

 

[MarieElise]

Honestly,I'm done on this topic. However here's my stance, just in case it wasn't made abundantly clear prior.

This is a business space. I talk to and acknowledge other people, who I find helpful to my business, (or possibly desirable to do future business with/ trade info/ provide support etc with) in business spaces. I feel that is respectful of the space itself, but those are purely my feelings on the matter

ETA; I'm just not the kind of person that's gonna drive by an anti-abortion rally, and then invite these mindless twats over to my house for tea later. Sorry. Not sorry

 

[Lover31660]

No, no, no.

See this is a huge misconception. We don't know you as a person and we aren't judging you as a person. We're judging you as a customer. We will however absolutely detail why we dislike one behavior or another or an outlook or perspective.

I thought I made it clear as a viewer/customer, I TIP. I buy private shows. Yeah, the majority had gone to one person, but that's my choice.

 

[Vixxen81]

I thought I made it clear as a viewer/customer, I TIP. I buy private shows. Yeah, the majority had gone to one person, but that's my choice.

Of course it's your choice. A large majority of viewers on Chaturbate have one or five models they like overall and stick to those rooms depending on who is on when they are.

In the last two months or so, it feels like every thread started by a man/viewer on here has been to complain or say that the woman is scamming them. The models with "Cam Model" under their usernames that have commented in these threads have a combined 100+ years of camming experience if you tally each of our decade+ long careers into one column. Across multiple platforms and shifts in the trends in the industry on top of that.

I can't think of or even remember the last time a guy started a thread on here that was like "I really love cam sites but I'm not sure how I can be a better customer, do you have any advice?" It's always "I keep getting banned from rooms or this bitch banned me after I spent X or I really love this girl and she seems sketchy as fuck...it's...a bit much when we're also dealing with that in real time in our chat rooms or in content conversations.

Here's a good example. A model feels like the room is a little stale, so she changes up her look a bit. Curls her hair, puts on heavy makeup, does a sweet lingerie outfit with heels and all of a sudden 20 people come out of the woodwork that have tipped in the past but been absent for a long time are like "OMG I so love it when you're rocking the natural look, this is so slutty, I don't like it." Or when a model who normally does heavy makeup and sexy outfits shows up in a t-shirt and barely there make up and no one shows up at all.

When site admins post suggestion threads on here every single post except for a small handful are "I want this because no one should be able to 'X'" It's all very selfish, self-centered behavior and you wonder why we snap at you. [King's You] We're damned if we do and damned if we don't and all we're trying to do is make money. Real.money. Not $1.25.

 

[CastizoMerican]

It's a business,yall ain't doing it for free. I would be disrespectful to waste their time.

 

[Lover31660]

Of course it's your choice. A large majority of viewers on Chaturbate have one or five models they like overall and stick to those rooms depending on who is on when they are.

In the last two months or so, it feels like every thread started by a man/viewer on here has been to complain or say that the woman is scamming them. The models with "Cam Model" under their usernames that have commented in these threads have a combined 100+ years of camming experience if you tally each of our decade+ long careers into one column. Across multiple platforms and shifts in the trends in the industry on top of that.

I can't think of or even remember the last time a guy started a thread on here that was like "I really love cam sites but I'm not sure how I can be a better customer, do you have any advice?" It's always "I keep getting banned from rooms or this bitch banned me after I spent X or I really love this girl and she seems sketchy as fuck...it's...a bit much when we're also dealing with that in real time in our chat rooms or in content conversations.

Here's a good example. A model feels like the room is a little stale, so she changes up her look a bit. Curls her hair, puts on heavy makeup, does a sweet lingerie outfit with heels and all of a sudden 20 people come out of the woodwork that have tipped in the past but been absent for a long time are like "OMG I so love it when you're rocking the natural look, this is so slutty, I don't like it." Or when a model who normally does heavy makeup and sexy outfits shows up in a t-shirt and barely there make up and no one shows up at all.

When site admins post suggestion threads on here every single post except for a small handful are "I want this because no one should be able to 'X'" It's all very selfish, self-centered behavior and you wonder why we snap at you. [King's You] We're damned if we do and damned if we don't and all we're trying to do is make money. Real.money. Not $1.25.

I don't remember starting one of those posts. I did ask about people lingering in PMs and ignoring public chat. That was then, but now I don't give a fuck what they do.
And yeah, I only watch a handful of people.

 

[Vixxen81]

I don't remember starting one of those posts. I did ask about people lingering in PMs and ignoring public chat. That was then, but now I don't give a fuck what they do.
And yeah, I only watch a handful of people.

And the reason you don't give a fuck any more is because we told you why it shouldn't matter to begin with.

 

[Lover31660]

And the reason you don't give a fuck any more is because we told you why it shouldn't matter to begin with.

Half and half, Vix. I figured a lot of it out in cammers' rooms and in my own and in my room through more and more interaction.

As a viewer I find itinteresting to see just how far someone will go.

And you should be happy that you set me straight before I ended up in the "Fell in Love With a Cam Model" threads.

 

[RainForest]

I wonder if these customers who "fall in love" with cam girls understand that cammers interact with hundreds or thousands of people a month? Their imaginary camgirl/future wife's first reaction to their advances is probably "fuck shit here we go again".

 

[Vixxen81]

Half and half, Vix. I figured a lot of it out in cammers' rooms and in my own and in my room through more and more interaction.

As a viewer I find itinteresting to see just how far someone will go.

And you should be happy that you set me straight before I ended up in the "Fell in Love With a Cam Model" threads.

I'm very happy you were willing to take in what we were saying and that you didn't go that route.

Me, specifically, when I post comments I am rarely ever talking about any one person unless I say I'm talking about one person. Here's where we are as cam models on these sites where guys like to ask us what we need and what we want and can I be that guy to get it for you, well shit no. Here's where I'm at as a cam model on CB for over 11 years and had guys try to get me to marry them and guys who never tipped me again because they were terrified they'd fall in love...

I have had several office jobs where in many respects I was the face of the Company, the first person a client/customer would encounter. Along with employees entering the building. I'm doing my job, "yes this conference hall is free, yes this time is available, please hold your customer rep will be with you in one moment" kind of stuff.

I'm sitting at my desk and the phone rings. "Hello Vixxen, this is Human Resources, please be in my office by 11:!5 AM." Scared shitless I showed up at 11:12 and a male coworker was also outside the office. I had seen him in passing and thought he was there for insurance or leave purposes. HR opens the door and escorts both of us inside. "So Vixxen, I hear you smile at this man in a flirtatious way every day when he comes into the office. He's married you know, please do not smile at him any more. It's too tempting."

FUCKING FLOORED. I was the receptionist. It was my job to greet people and smile. I just have a really great smile. [People have tipped me thousands of tokens to see it.]

So I stopped smiling. "Hello." No friendliness or welcome attitude at all because in America that's done with a smile. A week later my phone rings. "Hey V it's HR, meet at 12." Show up. "You don't smile and you seem angry all of the time." I think my head exploded in my mind like 3000 times in a second.

A single smile is enough to damn a woman to accusations from a man when she was just being a fucking person. Damned if we do, damned if we don't.

 

[Vixxen81]

I wonder if these customers who "fall in love" with cam girls understand that cammers interact with hundreds or thousands of people a month? Their imaginary camgirl/future wife's first reaction to their advances is probably "fuck shit here we go again".

Jesus Christ woman you nailed it.

 

[Lover31660]

I'm very happy you were willing to take in what we were saying and that you didn't go that route.

Me, specifically, when I post comments I am rarely ever talking about any one person unless I say I'm talking about one person. Here's where we are as cam models on these sites where guys like to ask us what we need and what we want and can I be that guy to get it for you, well shit no. Here's where I'm at as a cam model on CB for over 11 years and had guys try to get me to marry them and guys who never tipped me again because they were terrified they'd fall in love...

I have had several office jobs where in many respects I was the face of the Company, the first person a client/customer would encounter. Along with employees entering the building. I'm doing my job, "yes this conference hall is free, yes this time is available, please hold your customer rep will be with you in one moment" kind of stuff.

I'm sitting at my desk and the phone rings. "Hello Vixxen, this is Human Resources, please be in my office by 11:!5 AM." Scared shitless I showed up at 11:12 and a male coworker was also outside the office. I had seen him in passing and thought he was there for insurance or leave purposes. HR opens the door and escorts both of us inside. "So Vixxen, I hear you smile at this man in a flirtatious way every day when he comes into the office. He's married you know, please do not smile at him any more. It's too tempting."

FUCKING FLOORED. I was the receptionist. It was my job to greet people and smile. I just have a really great smile. [People have tipped me thousands of tokens to see it.]

So I stopped smiling. "Hello." No friendliness or welcome attitude at all because in America that's done with a smile. A week later my phone rings. "Hey V it's HR, meet at 12." Show up. "You don't smile and you seem angry all of the time." I think my head exploded in my mind like 3000 times in a second.

A single smile is enough to damn a woman to accusations from a man when she was just being a fucking person. Damned if we do, damned if we don't.

Thats ridiculous. I've received so much "training" that I never said anything to anyone that could be perceived as ssxual harassment. A manager did something once and he was canned. And he deserved it.

 

[Vixxen81]

Thats ridiculous. I've received so much "training" that I never said anything to anyone that could be perceived as ssxual harassment. A manager did something once and he was canned. And he deserved it.

It is ridiculous, so ridiculous I decided to get paid for their misogyny instead of being constantly fired for it and standing in the unemployment line.

 

[RainForest]

It is ridiculous, so ridiculous I decided to get paid for their misogyny instead of being constantly fired for it and standing in the unemployment line.

Turning lemons into lemonade - love it !

 

[Vixxen81]

 

[Lover31660]

It is ridiculous, so ridiculous I decided to get paid for their misogyny instead of being constantly fired for it and standing in the unemployment line.

Glad it's worked out for you

 

[Vixxen81]

Glad it's worked out for you

I would rather you be extremely sad I got pushed out of a receptionist job that was a guaranteed rate per hour with benefits and I'm dividing my tips between taxes and expenses and who needs what on this date...It's not ignorance and it's not stupidity, you're all just so obtuse, miss the forest for the trees.

 

[yummybrownfox]

MartinUpon further review, yes, I am capable of self reflection after calming down and criticaly thinking, no, i do not want a wife, look, im we are both human, I didn't want to treat her like a piece of steak, maybe be a little more genteel, gentle about it. And so am I, I'm a person, I would like to think even if I pay for it,they like the conversation a little

Okay, but now you’ve got me wanting steak. I eat it with ketchup though…not steak sauce.

 

[CastizoMerican]

Okay, but now you’ve got me wanting steak. I eat it with ketchup though…not steak sauce.

You're a woman with refined taste

 

[CastizoMerican]

Jesus Christ woman you nailed it.

I know this gal is talking all day to everyone and their mother, she did say she tried to give me a place, look ,I kno she's allllll over the internet, all I was asking is,she would tell me personal stuff about family and her health, I wondered if that was typical,. Honeychildboothing, I'm not in love. I don't believe spit until it's in my lap, I thought it was love along time ago, im a grown man, I was just curious if i might not be the most boring man in the world and people,maybe this gal, liked my conversation

 

[CastizoMerican]

I wonder if these customers who "fall in love" with cam girls understand that cammers interact with hundreds or thousands of people a month? Their imaginary camgirl/future wife's first reaction to their advances is probably "fuck shit here we go again"

Meant to reply to this gem here, I know for a fact she's talking to people all day everyday, duh,that's her hussle. Look,in the end, I like talking to her, we can kick it on the phone and chill

 

[yummybrownfox]

I know this gal is talking all day to everyone and their mother, she did say she tried to give me a place, look ,I kno she's allllll over the internet, all I was asking is,she would tell me personal stuff about family and her health, I wondered if that was typical,.

I told you several hours ago (in post #34 of this thread) that no, it’s not typical for cam models to call up members on the phone to talk about their personal life.

 

[RainForest]

You're a woman with refined taste

Don Juan here is trying to act like he's superior now lol

 

[RainForest]

Meant to reply to this gem here, I know for a fact she's talking to people all day everyday, duh,that's her hussle. Look,in the end, I like talking to her, we can kick it on the phone and chill

You reminded me of that Twilight zone episode where the kid imagined that he was talking to his dead grandmother on his toy phone ... for some reason.

 

[CastizoMerican]

Don Juan here is trying to act like he's superior now lol

Hey I like ketchup

 

[CastizoMerican]

You reminded me of that Twilight zone episode where the kid imagined that he was talking to his dead grandmother on his toy phone ... for some reason.

Thank you, I needed that. The only twilight zone epi I kno Is the one w the gremlin on the wing of the plane. I do look like the gremlin tbh

 

[CastizoMerican]

Yall are mean bruh, I was tripping a lil, im just a fella in this world with sentiments and emotions. I'm not really tripping buggin out, it's all chill bro,tbh I've been bullied and whupped by all yall Webcam models, feels great.