Not one of Em's warm and fuzzy feel good raps, but i think misinterpreted by most as having some sort of misogynistic slant, when it is obviously his apogee for sending mixed messages in the past, while he does his best to convince his female companion that he is through acting diffidently than how he really felt half the time and that from now on he is going to be straight up, no acting.
Simultaneously He is addressing all the Stan's of his fan base, and the message is much the same, though it is given as advice to try to do as he is, and be real with your ladies, (to make the song work lyrically it is obvious that he had to sub other terms in place of "ladies", or , "GF", or "significant other", but it is clear what he means.), and not to get all skichy being afraid to deal with your emotion. He's saying, "relax, and express your emotional being honestly, and openly, and everything else will work out." It is clear he wanted to make a positive impact on the less than perfect relationships of some of his flock if at all possible.
For Royce Da, we see an epiphany he has had, that he once was a stupid arrogant young man, that had no control over the different personal relationships that intersected his skewed life and perception of reality. The epiphany steps out from behind the curtain that are the years that hang between that young confused Ryan Daniel Montgomery and the mature confident, self aware rapper that stars back at him. (An indication of his self awareness, can be seen in the choice of identifiers the artist declares where 5'9 follows Royce Da, the perfect expression of the distance his body travels upward from the base of his feet to the top of his head when standing upright.) He lets us share his realization, and then with out being a bragger, makes a statement of pride that he has become the captain of his world, able to compartmentalize, and master manage the relationships of his life, and the woman who pursue them. (If you listen carefully, you can also hear what appears to be his preference of Porsche over Pintos.)
Or, maybe it is a gender specific hate song, IDK, I am still trying to work out the complexities of the message these rappers are trying to send. You know how there are some songs that seem to grab you at certain times in your life, but you don't really know why? Well for me this is not one of those.