married/taken camgirls

[PlayboyMegan]

Camgirls: Are you open about your relationships offline?
Members: Is it a turn-off if you find out a girl is lesbian, has a boyfriend, or a husband? Does any one of the three matter? EX: you don't care if she has a BF, there is still hope for you or hope in your "fantasy world." But if she is married, then it bothers you more. Or you really want the girl to be turned on by you but if you know she is lesbian, you know she won't be.
Or you don't care either way?

 

[PlayboyMegan]

I don't talk about it. If someone asks I just say "We all have people we care about offline. What matters, is that my attention is here with you guys." But I don't lie about it either.

 

[SophiaLocke]

Yes, i'm completely open about my relationship. i think it helps that it's an alternative lifestyle one - most of my guys dig it. i understand why girls wouldn't be, though.

 

[Rose]

as a model: I'm single but my roommate is my best friend and we have sex. I wear a ring (JUST a ring, wear it because it's pretty and was a gift) and a lot of guys make assumptions and automatically flip out on me. It's pretty annoying because my profile and everything clearly state I'm single and it's just jewelry.

as a member: Relationship status whether public or not is irrelevant as long as it doesn't affect their performance. Married/taken women can still be really hot and sexy.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

I understand that guys want to fantasize about meeting and marrying/fucking a single cam girl, but the reality of that happening are pretty slim. So it shouldn't matter either way.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I'm open about mine. It doesnt seem to run too many guys off.

One time he sneezed in the other room when i was in the middle of an intense cum show.
I think he killed a few boners LOL

 

[JerMajesty]

I understand that guys want to fantasize about meeting and marrying/fucking a single cam girl, but the reality of that happening are pretty slim. So it shouldn't matter either way.

Pretty slim but there is still that chance.. I was lucky enough to have it happened to me at least ..not married but you get the idea :mrgreen:


Anyways... yeah shouldnt matter but I generally prefer single cam girls ...only because I have a habit of falling into that dreaded friend zone with some taken cam girls who Ive known for a while ...

Somehow I always ALWAYS get talked to like im the gay best friend or something...even though I aint gay but I just like to listen a lot and give out a little advice (seeing as Im a nurse and all ) :roll:

 

[Shaun__]

My two favorite cam models are both taken. Since I am not a crazy stalker however I understand that after they log off of MFC we are just friends and outside of talking nothing would happen if they were single either.

Lesbians are no problem either because I love them even if they do not love me. Especially if they let me watch.

 

[Mirah]

Hi playboymegan! thanks for dropping by today, I totally got all blushy and embarassing!!

I don't flaunt the fact that I have a boyfriend but when people ask me I am honest. I've had a couple guys make a big deal out of it but I mean, I just don't feel like lying about it!
I do however, hate answering the question of "how long have you two been together?". My boyfriend and I have been together for four years (this month!) and the length of our relationship bothers people more than me having a boyfriend altogether.

 

[KeelyAimee]

I have a boyfriend and I end up talking about him during my shows, I don't even mean too, but my regulars are always asking about our relationship, and once I get started I get all gushy...ha. No one has ever complained.

 

[sxycherrypie]

I now let people know I am married and most are very supportive in it.They actually think it is cool that my hubbs lets me do this.They listen to me when i have a break down.when I get angry.They are basically there through my ups and downs and I am there for theirs.

 

[Neudiin]

Yeah don't care about your offline significant other as long as you don't go on and on about them. That gets boring after a while.

 

[ViruSphere]

I don't have a chance in hell of ever meeting or dating an MFC model, so why should I care if a model's single or taken?

 

[Sevrin]

I don't think it matters, but it's not exactly a "selling point" for most members, either.

 

[JickyJuly]

I'm married and open about it. Life just feels easier without trying cover my tracks. I have been told a few times that my room lacks mystery.

 

[BlueViolet]

I'm open about having a girlfriend.

But most guys don't take it seriously or think I mean "a friend that is a girl" even after they ask, "Do you have a boyfriend?"

"No, but I have a girlfriend." <--because that obviously insinuates I'm talking about my bff.

But I have no problem telling them that, no, she is actually my fiancee and we have been dating for four years now. We got engaged last year and exchanged rings just haven't exactly set a date because it isn't legal here and an out of state marriage means nothing to me. So it feels kind of weird calling her my fiancee or saying I'm engaged because they always ask for dates.

But the guys who I have told this (after they asked, of course) don't care at all. Or ask for her to get on cam with me. Or think it's totally awesome that I'm fucking a chick. Either way, no one cares.

 

[bodisha]

i've been on MFC for about 3 years now... and i never gave it much thought until now... but of the 4-5 girls i've gotten to know fairly well on mfc... most have been hooked up some how in their real lives... either with a husband or a live-in b/f... personally i don't care either way if a girl is married or has a b/f on mfc... i'm not trying to use it as match.com... but it is nice if a girl feels comfortable enough to be honest about her life... in my opinion it just helps people be themselves and drop some BS online persona.. it's nice to just be yourself now and then and have a normal-ish adult convo about life or whatever instead of having to constantly be some soulless internet perv talking about meaningless chatter

 

[SatanJonez]

in my opinion it just helps people be themselves and drop some BS online persona.. it's nice to just be yourself now and then and have a normal-ish adult convo about life or whatever instead of having to constantly be some soulless internet perv talking about meaningless chatter

This. For a good percentage of my cam career my persona has been my own personality amplified so being honest about my relationship status is part of that. Although, I will admit, I lied for the first three days or so.

 

[Bocefish]

This topic has come up at least 2 other times, please learn how to use the site's search tools before posting new threads. To answer the question... honesty is the best policy in regards to being in a committed relationship. That way people won't catch you lying and you won't have to worry about what you said to whom, etc.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

This topic has come up at least 2 other times, please learn how to use the site's search tools before posting new threads. To answer the question... honesty is the best policy in regards to being in a committed relationship. That way people won't catch you lying and you won't have to worry about what you said to whom, etc.

Oh, I didn't know I wasn't allowed to post before fully reviewing the site. I apologize. If AMBER has a problem with it, she can remove it. If YOU have a problem with it, you can choose to not post. I don't see this topic on the first 3 pages. There are new members and models signing up and instead of bumping up old threads, we can get new opinions here. Again, if AMBER has a problem with it, I will let her handle it accordingly.

 

[Bocefish]

This topic has come up at least 2 other times, please learn how to use the site's search tools before posting new threads. To answer the question... honesty is the best policy in regards to being in a committed relationship. That way people won't catch you lying and you won't have to worry about what you said to whom, etc.

Oh, I didn't know I wasn't allowed to post before fully reviewing the site. I apologize. If AMBER has a problem with it, she can remove it. If YOU have a problem with it, you can choose to not post. I don't see this topic on the first 3 pages. There are new members and models signing up and instead of bumping up old threads, we can get new opinions here. Again, if AMBER has a problem with it, I will let her handle it accordingly.

I didn't mention the topic has come up before just to be rude. For those of us that have been around for more than the last 3 pages, it gets kind of old answering the same questions over and over again. You might actually learn from all the other replies posted before as well. :handgestures-salute:

 

[PlayboyMegan]

This topic has come up at least 2 other times, please learn how to use the site's search tools before posting new threads. To answer the question... honesty is the best policy in regards to being in a committed relationship. That way people won't catch you lying and you won't have to worry about what you said to whom, etc.

Oh, I didn't know I wasn't allowed to post before fully reviewing the site. I apologize. If AMBER has a problem with it, she can remove it. If YOU have a problem with it, you can choose to not post. I don't see this topic on the first 3 pages. There are new members and models signing up and instead of bumping up old threads, we can get new opinions here. Again, if AMBER has a problem with it, I will let her handle it accordingly.

I didn't mention the topic has come up before just to be rude. For those of us that have been around for more than the last 3 pages, it gets kind of old answering the same questions over and over again. You might actually learn from all the other replies posted before as well. :handgestures-salute:

That's awesome. But the title was self explanatory. Don't read it and move on. Again, if it IS against the rules, I apologize and I assume Amber will handle it.

 

[HeidiTruelove]

On cam, I am honest about the fact that I am happily single. I do get a lot more clingers and let's be together, bbs than I did when I was fully open about having a live in boyfriend (in the past).

I enjoy coming home from a date and telling my guys about my exploits, I think they like it too. In my experience it hasn't made a noticeable difference either way.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

On cam, I am honest about the fact that I am happily single. I do get a lot more clingers and let's be together, bbs than I did when I was fully open about having a live in boyfriend (in the past).

I enjoy coming home from a date and telling my guys about my exploits, I think they like it too. In my experience it hasn't made a noticeable difference either way.

Random, but I love your heels.

 

[LadyLuna]

Just to be fair, I did a search.

Search 1 was for "married". 23 pages. I went directly to the last page and all teh way up to page 12, which landed me this past June. I did not find a single topic that directly addressed this, though it was discussed in a few topics.

Though "The biggest lie- camgirl be single" is pretty damn close.

[urlhttp://www.ambercutie.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=28&t=2305]That thread[/url]

Search 2 was for "single". 42 pages. Back to 42, up to 35... nothing

Search 3 was for "relationship". 32 pages. Back to 32, up to bah, I forgot to check... cause I realized that maybe I should specify it being part of the title.

Back to putting all three in, specifying titles.

Alright, the exact search this time was:

single, relationship, married
any terms

sort results: ascending
search within first posts
display results as topics

This time there are seven pages. I skipped over Models Only, Blog, and Advert section topics. Found two topics that might vaguely reflect.

How Do you Feel about Married Models?

[urlhttp://www.ambercutie.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=1368]How is your webcam model job affecting your relationships?[/url]

After all that work, about the only problem I have with this post is that it's asking models to come clean about lying in a place where the members can see... What sane model would do that?

Personally... if it's a regular, I tell the truth. If it's a random person, I tell them that my offline life doesn't matter, cause I'm not here to meet up.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

ummmm I pretty much love you

 

[PlayboyMegan]

answered my own question.

 

[ComicOzzie]

I really wish that models would be more honest about being in long-term relationships, just so that I don't have to constantly see the pathetic losers who constantly whine about how they want to hook up with the model and give her the time of her life. Snap out of it, dude!

 

[caireen]

haha yeah, i think you are only going to get the camgirls that are already open about being in relationships posting here. any girl that is in a relationship but doesn't tell her room probably will steer clear of answering this, since who knows which of her room members are reading!

 

[SoTxBob]

I dont see why so many guys are even concerned about the single or not thing...

Its not a dating site ....
....as long as the girl doesn't talk about him constantly
....as long as theres no guy on cam

Then so what?