This is horribly written and all over the place, but i've had a long day, so please go easy, thanks TLR are the bottom.
I know this all new territory in the world of Webcams, AFAIK only one site lets males cam, Chaturbate, and I dont know how long CB has been letting males cam. The first 5 days I was back I was doing great, mainly cuz of the "NEW" banner on my page and my old viewers welcoming me back, but in the last couple of days its stagnated, big time. Freeloaders abound. I watched a top female cammer for a while SOLEY (if you can believe it for the purpose of seeing how and what I could incorporate into my show to make it more successful. The tips were raining and while beautiful and engaging, she wasn't really doing anything different from me. Shirt off goal/brah off goal, panties off goal/underwear off goal. Cumshow goal/Cumshow goal. I am also engaging (Handsome or not, well that's another story lol)
!!DISCLAIMER!! This is meant to be a civil discussion related soley on the different hardships each gender faces and how female cammers can help male cammers up their game. This is NOT meant to be a rude/sexist/misogynistic/feministic fight about "Who has it harder" "who has it easier".
Camming IS hard, and it takes a certain personality, show style and more importantly patience and hard work to gain a following that is willing to tip you what you genuinely are worth. ie, you might think you are worth more tips than you really are.
Now, as I stated above, I dont want to make this into a girls have it easier than men, but as a viewers as well as a cammer, I think it's generally known that women on average have more men in their rooms then a male cammer has (whether HE be straight or gay)
There are obvious reasons for this imo. There are some thirsty gay guys out there but straight males in general I believe are just thirstier. My experience is going on 1 year 4 months of camming in total.
Gay men, CAN also sometimes be total queens. Drama queens. Sabotage your show, thumbs you down into oblivion, try and find out who you are and out you if you dont give them what they want for free/or mod them. AGAIN I want to reiterate this is not a generalization but a discussion and many of the female cammers have undoubtedly faced the same thing from their straight viewers.
That being said in my opinion where a popular woman cammer can get away with nicely telling a viewers, "dont demand please" or "No PMs", "spoil me with my amazon wish list if you'd like to", in my experience, camming as a guy, they will always either get upset, leave (untill your cumshow of course) then all the freeloaders are back, say "hmm, what do I get for sending you an amazon gift card?" Or say hey i'd rather tip you "Some other way" Paypal/Cashapp, whatever.
Now sex work, I think everyone can agree is a womans arena. You look at some of the highest followed female cammers and compare them to the highest followed stud male cammer and I can guarantee the numbers will speak for themselves. Thats fine, it's to be expected.
TLR = Camming for females and males while challenging for both can be a tough hussle, what are some tips that females (who I think have a naturally easier time camming because, well, vagina, and as a straight male, I am projecting here) can give to us males, especially in the realm of, not giving free shows, dealing with demanders without coming off as rude/only careing about tokens, and ESPECIALLY, what if ANYTHING do you give to viewers who send you amazon gift cards.
I hope this is a civil discourse and forgive me if I sound salty and on a rant, I just had a 6 hour day of camming with virtually nothing but flies coming out of my pockets after having a real good run at the start.
I know this all new territory in the world of Webcams, AFAIK only one site lets males cam, Chaturbate, and I dont know how long CB has been letting males cam. The first 5 days I was back I was doing great, mainly cuz of the "NEW" banner on my page and my old viewers welcoming me back, but in the last couple of days its stagnated, big time. Freeloaders abound. I watched a top female cammer for a while SOLEY (if you can believe it for the purpose of seeing how and what I could incorporate into my show to make it more successful. The tips were raining and while beautiful and engaging, she wasn't really doing anything different from me. Shirt off goal/brah off goal, panties off goal/underwear off goal. Cumshow goal/Cumshow goal. I am also engaging (Handsome or not, well that's another story lol)
!!DISCLAIMER!! This is meant to be a civil discussion related soley on the different hardships each gender faces and how female cammers can help male cammers up their game. This is NOT meant to be a rude/sexist/misogynistic/feministic fight about "Who has it harder" "who has it easier".
Camming IS hard, and it takes a certain personality, show style and more importantly patience and hard work to gain a following that is willing to tip you what you genuinely are worth. ie, you might think you are worth more tips than you really are.
Now, as I stated above, I dont want to make this into a girls have it easier than men, but as a viewers as well as a cammer, I think it's generally known that women on average have more men in their rooms then a male cammer has (whether HE be straight or gay)
There are obvious reasons for this imo. There are some thirsty gay guys out there but straight males in general I believe are just thirstier. My experience is going on 1 year 4 months of camming in total.
Gay men, CAN also sometimes be total queens. Drama queens. Sabotage your show, thumbs you down into oblivion, try and find out who you are and out you if you dont give them what they want for free/or mod them. AGAIN I want to reiterate this is not a generalization but a discussion and many of the female cammers have undoubtedly faced the same thing from their straight viewers.
That being said in my opinion where a popular woman cammer can get away with nicely telling a viewers, "dont demand please" or "No PMs", "spoil me with my amazon wish list if you'd like to", in my experience, camming as a guy, they will always either get upset, leave (untill your cumshow of course) then all the freeloaders are back, say "hmm, what do I get for sending you an amazon gift card?" Or say hey i'd rather tip you "Some other way" Paypal/Cashapp, whatever.
Now sex work, I think everyone can agree is a womans arena. You look at some of the highest followed female cammers and compare them to the highest followed stud male cammer and I can guarantee the numbers will speak for themselves. Thats fine, it's to be expected.
TLR = Camming for females and males while challenging for both can be a tough hussle, what are some tips that females (who I think have a naturally easier time camming because, well, vagina, and as a straight male, I am projecting here) can give to us males, especially in the realm of, not giving free shows, dealing with demanders without coming off as rude/only careing about tokens, and ESPECIALLY, what if ANYTHING do you give to viewers who send you amazon gift cards.
I hope this is a civil discourse and forgive me if I sound salty and on a rant, I just had a 6 hour day of camming with virtually nothing but flies coming out of my pockets after having a real good run at the start.