Male models/couples advice please :)

[Lola_Lace]

My husband wants to ask a couple of questions so here goes

What do you guys to stay erect when there are so many distractions going on? Looking at screens, typing, those kind of things? He's never had a problem in his life till the screen is there in front of him.. not always but are there any tricks to make it grow or stay hard lol.

What about nights when only one of us is enthusiastic about camming and wants to try a solo show? We have tried it a couple of times but my husband struggles with his primal protective nature when I cam alone. Not so much publicly but the potential private chats/shows bother him a little.

 

[mike_aussie]

I was worried about about not getting erect at first but as my confidence grew and users praised the way I looked even when I was soft I decided it didn't matter. If I do need to get hard I watch some cams silently in the background or play some porn on my ipad out of sight of the stream. I don't often masturbate between cum shows unless I'm super horny and that helps.

I state on my bio for private shows not to rush me (because sometimes it's difficult if I'm not in the mood or relaxed enough). They pay extra for a cum show and I put in as much effort as I can (even though it's usually after 2am and I'm tired). If asked I say I can't guarantee that I will cum... but only once was I unable to the muster up the money shot and the guy said he he didn't mind.

 

[dickwow99]

What i do is i have a window open in porn of my fetish. If loose erection that helps me. But It has happened only a few times, generally being on cam excites me and helps me keep my erection

 

[ForumPoster]

His viewers may enjoy seeing him go from totally flaccid, semi to full erection. So may just work that into the show. Being genuine is very sexy.

 

[James_and_Aiden]

Sometimes you just won’t be able to get hard without a little extra time..

Most people will understand that.

Just be honest and genuine and use techniques like watching your favourite porn to regain erection, ect

 

[mike_aussie]

I've seen a few couples where the guy is on-screen but the tip menu revolves around the girl doing stuff, so it's skewed toward the male demographic. They only do M/F stuff like blowjob and sex for multi-goals & ticket show. Could try that.

 

[Lola_Lace]

His viewers may enjoy seeing him go from totally flaccid, semi to full erection. So may just work that into the show. Being genuine is very sexy.

This is bloody brilliant advise

 

[Lola_Lace]

I've seen a few couples where the guy is on-screen but the tip menu revolves around the girl doing stuff, so it's skewed toward the male demographic. They only do M/F stuff like blowjob and sex for multi-goals & ticket show. Could try that.

Yeah we don't want to be like the other couples so much though... we are a switch couple so both like to get involved. Some of it is so boring! Thanks for taking the time to answer though

 

[mika_kedi]

my husband struggles with his primal protective nature when I cam alone

Yeah, that's not so much primal protective nature as being socialised in a patriarchal society where women are considered property. What's the difference between you doing this JOB alone and with him next to you? Does he actually understand it's a job, or is it more of a fun past time to him?

I'm not trying to be sarcastic, but genuinely asking, and I would suggest you ask him similar questions if you want to help him resolve this problem of his. Why is he uncomfortable? What does he think you would feel during a solo private show? If he can answer these questions you can understand better where his anxiety is coming from and explain how you feel about it, hopefully helping him understand random men jerking off to you on the internet are not a threat to him, even if he's not next to you when you're camming.

 

[ForumPoster]

I kind of felt the same as the last post but wanted to give what advice I could specific to your question at hand, but that is definitely a larger issue.

 

[Lola_Lace]

These opinions have really helped. Thank you, sincerely

 

[ToffBuck]

Using a cock ring could help him.