But why? Even those who doesn't say it, think so. Well, at least the sucking-fucking part."I love you." "I wish I met you in real life." "I wish I could be your boyfriend." "I wish I was there to touch/suck/fuck you." "I wish we lived in the same town."
All of those make things super awkward.
Because you don't love me. You don't even know me.
Try to keep in mind that not all members are really interested in any real life interactions just because they enjoy spending time together online. Getting a private show doesn't mean they'd be willing or necessarily want to sleep with the person.
I don't think that's necessarily true at all. It's not like all members are so Neanderthalish that they have that desire about anything with tits.
I'm pretty sure most that have been unfortunate enough to read your posts here are aware. No offense, but you come off as very obnoxious and immature(not that I don't) in your posts so it's pretty obvious that you don't think highly of members. Which is fine ya know. You do you. I'm sure plenty of men are as grossed out/embarrassed by girls like you as you are of members. Just saying, pretty obvious to anyone that reads your posts that you don't like members much. You aren't really good at hiding it here. And yeah haha, I bet you are balling. Can't even mockingly call you a baby baller because that would be insulting to the few camgirls that deserve to be called baby ballers.@PunkInDrublic I'm grossed out by the majority of men, but I'm sure as hell not going to stop being a cam model anytime soon. I'm sure as hell not doing it poorly either.
I'm grossed out by members all day long, but they don't know it. I'm a damn good cam model. You don't have to be into a fantasy to project it. Just a committed actress.
Fake it, till you make it!
Just because I'm creeped out by something, doesn't mean Poison Ivy is.
I don't think it's any different from someone developing feelings for a friend that aren't reciprocated. If you have a friend in a relationship that you get a crush on, it's selfish to tell them and force that onto them. You either get over your feelings and continue to be friends with them or you put distance between you so you can get over them. A real friend is respectful if someone identifies as "non available", regardless of where that friendship originated.
There are many cam girls who like to throw around the L word, either publicly or privately. With but one exception, if any cam girl tried to tell me that she “loved” me or even hinted that she had affectionate feelings for me I’d consider it dishonest and manipulative. With regards to that one exception, we do sometimes use terms of affection with one another, but that’s only because we trust one another not to take things out of context.
I'm pretty sure the vast majority of members visit camsites looking for assistance in satisfying their libido. Sure we eventually find that we pop on to chat or listen to music or watch live theater, but most of us, much of the time, come to cum. For many of us, that means enjoying the fantasy of some sucking/fucking (I mean what else is the ever-popular simulated POV BJ show?). That said, I do hope that most members can separate their desire to participate in the fantasy play from real life. If I see an a performer/model/entertainer at a convention or whatever, I let them know how much I appreciate them as an artist. I sure as hell don't expect so much as the chance to buy them a drink. In other words, "I love your work", not "I love you".
Exactly the bolded part. If a member tells me he loves our sessions, loves my outfit, my look, my laugh, or whatever that's fine. That's nice. But when they start emailing/messaging/tweeting me telling me they love me, and send photos of them kissing the camera on every major holiday for 3+ years all talking about how much they love me.... Well those messages get kept in a special folder in case they ever show up at my house and I need to call the cops.
Just how a few here act, don't let the behavior of some girls here affect how you do things or give you a negative impression of camgirls in general. And yo, you should post some links to where you work/sell stuff because got damn at those pics you posted today.
