Lady Boners

[Bocefish]

I've often heard this term used by women, yet was never really sure exactly what they were talking about. For example... I've heard women say they just lost their "lady boner" after seeing something unsettling or a total turn-off. Is this just a term used for being excited or is there some actual visual evidence of precisely what a "lady boner" is?

 

[TacoBelle]

A "lady boner" is just an expression to mean that something excites her sexually. It could be meant in the literal sense, like drooling over an actor in a new film that got her sex-drive amped up, or it could be in a more playful sense, like seeing a picture of something cute like curtains with lights behind them.

It's almost always said BY THE WOMEN. I think we would all cringe inwardly if we saw a man say the term, even if he was trying to be fun and cutesy (e.g., "I bet that new Brad Pitt movie gave you a lady-boner!").

 

[LilyOhRiley]

I've used lady boner both in a colloquial fashion (I'm aroused by this) and to specifically describe the clitoral engorgement that comes from being turned on (ie: My lady boner definitely got in the way of that watersports scene).

But yeah, like @I_Am_Iris said...dudes definitely shouldn't use it - there's too much of a chance that it'll sound creepy, regardless of delivery.

 

[AmethystLynnn]

Agreed with what's said above this. It's basically just a funny way of saying "yo this is turning me on". Easy peasy! But like, please, guys do NOT use this. It'll just be awkward. Very, very awkward.. haha

 

[Bocefish]

Thanks for all the replies. I pretty much assumed it was more of a figure of speech than anything quite so literal like an engorged vulva.

 

[Sevrin]

"Lady boner" sounds better than "man moistness". Way better.

 

[Booty_4U]

Thanks for all the replies. I pretty much assumed it was more of a figure of speech than anything quite so literal like an engorged vulva.

Clits literally get erect just like pensies; I assume that's where the term "lady boner" came from!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoral_erection