Introducing my BF into the camgirl world.

[MissIndie]

Hello all! I'm fairly new here so I figured it would be useful to introduce myself a tiny bit before this post!
I used to work on MFC 2 years ago but my boyfriend wasn't too keen on it.
Since then we're talked a bit about it but he seems a little like he is unsure, nervous, etc about it all. Though he was the one that mentioned it would be okay for me to cam again since I'm living on my own and money can get tight. He knows it was really helpful the few times I paid some bills with MFC monies.
Should I take him on my perv account, and show him what it's like from that side of things? I know many of you lovely ladies are in relationships so I guess it would just be awesome to hear how you introduced your man into it, or how he reacted along the way if he was not at first very keen on the idea.

I have a perv account, I think I may take him on it tonight and show him how happy the girls get when you tip/how much fun it is. Just don't want him to get the impression that I only want to do this for tons of fun. Since it's a job, it's not always the loveliest and I'm not sure how to show him that, either.

Thanks in advance for any input, guys and gals!
Oh, and I'm really sorry if this is repeating some other post, I should have searched before making it to see if anything was similar in the forum.

 

[Mirra]

I suppose that could work. Maybe even encourage him to make his own account if you think he'd be willing to give it a try. If he's willing, it may be most effective for him go look at some of your fellow cam girls on his own... though you may need to explain that some of them have more extreme limits than you in case he ends up in some of the crazier rooms.

"No anal fisting bb."

I know who we need to weigh in on this... where's that silly Jawbs when you need him?

 

[PlayboyMegan]

It could go either way. He could see the guys comments towards the girls and freak out, or he could realize it's just all digital and feel better about it.

 

[LadyLuna]

I would suggest taking him to the new rooms if you want him to see the ugly side, and the high-placed models for the good side. Trolls really go for the newer models. And the high-placed ones will show him that guys can just tip for smiles.

Also tell him what your limits are- make sure he knows that there are things you will not do on camera (or off-camera with members).

Lastly, give him something that is his only. That no matter how much the other guys ask for it or offer for it, you will not do it for them, only for him. Between myself and my partner, I'll only ever call him Master. Any submissive play on camera I will call them Sir. Master is reserved for him during our D/s play. The other thing we do is he gets to see any toy/outfit first, unless he waives that right.

 

[MissIndie]

I would suggest taking him to the new rooms if you want him to see the ugly side, and the high-placed models for the good side. Trolls really go for the newer models. And the high-placed ones will show him that guys can just tip for smiles.

Also tell him what your limits are- make sure he knows that there are things you will not do on camera (or off-camera with members).

Lastly, give him something that is his only. That no matter how much the other guys ask for it or offer for it, you will not do it for them, only for him. Between myself and my partner, I'll only ever call him Master. Any submissive play on camera I will call them Sir. Master is reserved for him during our D/s play. The other thing we do is he gets to see any toy/outfit first, unless he waives that right.

I really like that suggestion. One thing he has mentioned in our talks about camming is that no one else will ever get to touch me or have sex with me. Real sex is his and only his, which makes him happy. He admitted that it also is a good ego boost to know other guys think I'm "hot" but they never get to have me.
Letting him know my limits is a good idea as well.

PlayboyMegan thats what I'm thinking, it could go either way in all reality. He has a soft spot in his heart so it might be good for me to hand pick the rooms I take him in. Find one with a nice mellow vibe where the regulars are very complimenting towards the model.

Mirra he doesn't actually have his own computer, so he wouldn't get much alone time as it is to check out the site. He uses his phone a lot and as I understand the functionality of mfc is poor? That's why I figured having it be kind of a sexy fun thing for us might help.

I still did not show him the site, we ended up running around doing a bunch of errands today