If you want me naked pay my gas bill

[Vixxen81]

Mostly tongue in cheek but I am sitting here freezing my ass off because warming the house would cost me money I didn't earn. Be more generous, that's why we're all here.

 

[AudriTwo]

i will never understand why grown-ass men go to a paysite and act offended when i ask for money to show my goddamn tits.

 

[Vixxen81]

i will never understand why grown-ass men go to a paysite and act offended when i ask for money to show my goddamn tits.

This is basically where all of this came from...tipped 1 token to stand up and I said 30 and he had a fucking cow. Like just arrrrrrgh.

 

[Skaar_the_Savage]

i will never understand why grown-ass men go to a paysite and act offended when i ask for money to show my goddamn tits.

bc they not men. age simply suggests they should be a man.

 

[Skaar_the_Savage]

This is basically where all of this came from...tipped 1 token to stand up and I said 30 and he had a fucking cow. Like just arrrrrrgh.

dem trolls came out their caves today. it's unfortunate. hope all is well

 

[Vixxen81]

dem trolls came out their caves today. it's unfortunate. hope all is well

It seems to be a cycle. Like an actual cycle. Months go by and things are great and then BAM suddenly trolls everywhere all at once for days then gets quiet again. Someone should find out if men's hormone cycles sync like women's cycles can.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I remember when guys would complain “Pants tho?” when I’d be wearing pajama pants on cam during the cold winter nights when it’s like 20 fucking degrees. I’d be like you damn right I’m wearing pants. If you’d tip for an ass clap/flash, you’d be able to see more skin. But those assholes don’t wanna tip…or they’ll tip like 1 token once every several minutes, and think they deserve something for it. Lol.

(I’m absolutely miserable during the winter, and am in so much pain from the cold making my bones ache. I feel like people think I’m being dramatic or exaggerating when I say that, but I’m not…).

 

[Vixxen81]

I remember when guys would complain “Pants tho?” when I’d be wearing pajama pants on cam during the cold winter nights when it’s like 20 fucking degrees. I’d be like you damn right I’m wearing pants. If you’d tip for an ass clap/flash, you’d be able to see more skin. But those assholes don’t wanna tip…or they’ll tip like 1 token once every several minutes, and think they deserve something for it. Lol.

(I’m absolutely miserable during the winter, and am in so much pain from the cold making my bones ache. I feel like people think I’m being dramatic or exaggerating when I say that, but I’m not…).

It's like the attitude is "you're on cam, SUFFER!"

 

[BlackWizard]

I remember when guys would complain “Pants tho?” when I’d be wearing pajama pants on cam during the cold winter nights when it’s like 20 fucking degrees. I’d be like you damn right I’m wearing pants. If you’d tip for an ass clap/flash, you’d be able to see more skin. But those assholes don’t wanna tip…or they’ll tip like 1 token once every several minutes, and think they deserve something for it. Lol.

(I’m absolutely miserable during the winter, and am in so much pain from the cold making my bones ache. I feel like people think I’m being dramatic or exaggerating when I say that, but I’m not…).

I remember one shift in old good times and one man who saw i was ill and he wanted warm me up. I was naked after show and he started tipping me to wear pants, sweater, and then jacket, scarf, cap and gloves hahhhahhhha and for each piece of cloth was a lot of tokens i hope he is healthy and happy i wish him all the best !

 

[Vixxen81]

I remember one shift in old good times and one man who saw i was ill and he wanted warm me up. I was naked after show and he started tipping me to wear pants, sweater, and then jacket, scarf, cap and gloves hahhhahhhha and for each piece of cloth was a lot of tokens i hope he is healthy and happy i wish him all the best !

That's awesome and I'm glad that happened to you. I used to have a guy who would wipe out goals and be like "no show." I mean ultimately it's extremely bad for business and continued sales but it made me feel good.

 

[AmberCutie]

I mean ultimately it's extremely bad for business and continued sales but it made me feel good.

So true! But we can't tell them that, because then they feel like their spendings are not worth enough and it makes bad feels. It's a conundrum. They mean well!

 

[Vixxen81]

So true! But we can't tell them that, because then they feel like their spendings are not worth enough and it makes bad feels. It's a conundrum. They mean well!

I got into a massive fight with my husband where we both threatened to divorce each other because I was making bank off this guy but I wasn't bringing anyone new in because there was never a change in the thumbnail and I cut him loose, the tipper not my husband, because I realized that while I was a sugar baby for this dude that he wasn't going to live forever or even have that level of income any more and I need way more resources.

 

[AmberCutie]

I got into a massive fight with my husband where we both threatened to divorce each other because I was making bank off this guy but I wasn't bringing anyone new in because there was never a change in the thumbnail and I cut him loose, the tipper not my husband, because I realized that while I was a sugar baby for this dude that he wasn't going to live forever or even have that level of income any more and I need way more resources.

I feel you.

In my earliest days, I had a private goer who wanted to take me private for HOURS at a time, so my entire shift would have been in pvt with him. Aside from the fact that this would be EXHAUSTING... it isn't good for our brand to constantly be gone! (Or in previous context, to always be fully clothed, doing something super unsexy, etc.).

So he was banned. Ok I admit, he was also banned because me telling him I couldn't be in pvt with him all the time brought out a demanding mean attitude as well

At first it was a bit of a blow to be minus his daily 8k+ tokens or some such (yeah it was that big of spending I voluntarily opted out of) but overall I had a much better mental outlook on my daily cam shifts.

 

[Vixxen81]

I feel you.

In my earliest days, I had a private goer who wanted to take me private for HOURS at a time, so my entire shift would have been in pvt with him. Aside from the fact that this would be EXHAUSTING... it isn't good for our brand to constantly be gone! (Or in previous context, to always be fully clothed, doing something super unsexy, etc.).

So he was banned. Ok I admit, he was also banned because me telling him I couldn't be in pvt with him all the time brought out a demanding mean attitude as well

At first it was a bit of a blow to be minus his daily 8k+ tokens or some such (yeah it was that big of spending I voluntarily opted out of) but overall I had a much better mental outlook on my daily cam shifts.

Yes, yes. Exactly this. You're at first lured in by "oh this is nice I don't have to deal with this and that" and then dealing with this and that becomes way more attractive. I love whales but if that's all I'm allowed to do, no bueno. I would get so angry that he'd come in at 11 PM after being on cam for hours and want constant, hardcore attention for an hour or more. And it's so wild how people get mad at whales. But if you would all just participate together I wouldn't need a huge fish to swim by.

 

[AmberCutie]

But if you would all just participate together I wouldn't need a huge fish to swim by.

"Teamwork makes the dream work" and "the more the merrier" were always sayings to motivate my room.

I would honestly rather have every shift be 20 people contributing 100 tokens than 1 or 2 covering that whole amount for a show or whatnot. It just FEELS better.

 

[AmberCutie]

"Teamwork makes the dream work" and "the more the merrier" were always sayings to motivate my room.

I would honestly rather have every shift be 20 people contributing 100 tokens than 1 or 2 covering that whole amount for a show or whatnot. It just FEELS better.

I'm going to follow this up with saying that the way my room works now, since I'm not really around as much... my biggest supporters know this about me and often times wait until it's clear I won't make a goal like that and THEN contribute their big tips/ask me if they should. That is so appreciated knowing they understand how I operate.

 

[Vixxen81]

I'm going to follow this up with saying that the way my room works now, since I'm not really around as much... my biggest supporters know this about me and often times wait until it's clear I won't make a goal like that and THEN contribute their big tips/ask me if they should. That is so appreciated knowing they understand how I operate.

I hate being asked what happens at goal. I think if you're that driven on an action to happen you aren't really embracing the spirit of live cam and how to turn both you and the person on cam on....maybe I'm just naive and old school, I don't know. Aggression is such a turn off in both application and reality.

 

[AmberCutie]

I hate being asked what happens at goal. I think if you're that driven on an action to happen you aren't really embracing the spirit of live cam and how to turn both you and the person on cam on....maybe I'm just naive and old school, I don't know. Aggression is such a turn off in both application and reality.

Totally agree. (My post had nothing to do with that aspect, in case that was misunderstood.)

 

[Vixxen81]

Totally agree. (My post had nothing to do with that aspect, in case that was misunderstood.)

Not misunderstood, just tangent. We all have such unique personalities, but our experiences cross over. That's all I was trying to say.

 

[AmberCutie]

Not misunderstood, just tangent. We all have such unique personalities, but our experiences cross over. That's all I was trying to say.

 

[MarieElise]

There's a big chunk of men who come to SM with the attitude that if we want paid, that we are snobs I really do wish people would stop conflating pay to play cam sites with dating sites.

I can convert them, but the amount of energy it takes to convert these types with patient honest logic, and the money they end up spending, is usually very disproportionate (and not in my favor). All they do is clog up the servers, looking for a girlfriend. So I get why they get preyed upon, even though I don't agree with it. I mainly, just turn them away, kick or block them. But it really is a stupid, thoughtless move, on their part.

I'm jealous of people who have that much spare time to squander like that, in life. I can't imagine throwing away my time like that. Such a Fuckalope move .