How to deal with beggars / cheapskates

[Carmen_Monroe]

Hello !

I really want to know how you all dealing with cheapskates/ beggars.

My room is really slow these days and I have the feeling it brings more of the worst type of costumers, they always ask why my prices are so „high“ ( I charge 60 tokens for private 5 mins minimum, 90 for exclusive private /cam2cam also 5 minutes minimum on Stripchat)

example: „your cam2cam price is high, is there a specific reason?“

I've heard this question so often in the last few days (about 20 times,also per pm)that I got really angry and told him that I wouldn't complain to porsche that the cars are so expensive. That it is the price with which I feel comfortable with. After that I also have my room empty.

Recently I even had a guy who wanted my Snapchat for free and and annoyed me in Pm, because he is also a „cammodel“and he seriously meant that as a „colleague“ he was entitled to it.

On chaturbate they then started to discuss about that bargaining is okay and you never pay for a car what is on the price tag. Guess they didn’t get what i meant and I think they forgot that I’m a human. I then tried to change the subject and talked about vacation and whether my bikinis still fit me. someone then tipped me 20 tokens just to ask if I was too fat for my bikinis. I'm not as sensitive as at the beginning of my career, but I had to swallow and control myself not to switch off the stream and start crying.


I mean, isn't it enough to sit naked there and do very explicit things for free? it makes me really sad how I have been treated by customers lately, I really doubt my selfworth and at the same time I see models (pornstars) demanding 200 tokens a minute for a private chat and nobody complains and if someone does complain, then other members will immediately protect them. The german area is difficult, as germans don't like to tip anywhere anyway and it is also normal that many models offer private chat there for 24 tokens.

How do you react to this and how do you deal with the bad feeling? I mean it's hurting anyway when you do so much in the free chat and nobody gives tips or talks, then people still complain.

I have the feeling that the worse things go, the more mean things you have to endure or the worse you are treated. camsites are not a flea market or have I missed something? I recently invested in very expensive equipment, have a fucking machine for which I don't ask for anything extra in private chat, isn't that good enough?

I'm sorry to be so upset, but it really pisses me off and it hurts

 

[AudriTwo]

I'm sorry asshats are haggling you. It sucks.

I charge high rates, and I'm will get the occasional grief over them. Occasionally it will come in waves. Sometimes it will be months until I get a peep about my rates. I believe it's from specific affiliates that attracts garbage cheap traffic.

When I get questioned why I have my rates set to what they are at, I remind them it's my body and attention, and I can charge whatever I want and they don't have to tip or pay. When people start comparing me to an inanimate object or farm animals, I ban.

Don't let people discourage you because they can't afford a luxury service. Cammodels watching you masturbate isn't a life or death need.

Keep sticking to your boundaries. You'll come out on top. Have you tired other sites? If it's slow on one site, good to get more eggs in your basket.

 

[Carmen_Monroe]

I'm sorry asshats are haggling you. It sucks.

I charge high rates, and I'm will get the occasional grief over them. Occasionally it will come in waves. Sometimes it will be months until I get a peep about my rates. I believe it's from specific affiliates that attracts garbage cheap traffic.

When I get questioned why I have my rates set to what they are at, I remind them it's my body and attention, and I can charge whatever I want and they don't have to tip or pay. When people start comparing me to an inanimate object or farm animals, I ban.

Don't let people discourage you because they can't afford a luxury service. Cammodels watching you masturbate isn't a life or death need.

Keep sticking to your boundaries. You'll come out on top. Have you tired other sites? If it's slow on one site, good to get more eggs in your basket.

Thank you for your response!

I tryed to get approved on MFC, but no answer yet. I’m working on chaturbate (usually very slow, people hop in and out ) and Stripchat as my main site. I think the other sites are not really good for european models in terms of traffic

 

[AudriTwo]

Thank you for your response!

I tryed to get approved on MFC, but no answer yet. I’m working on chaturbate (usually very slow, people hop in and out ) and Stripchat as my main site. I think the other sites are not really good for european models in terms of traffic

Give streamate a try if you are still having problems with token sites. It's private based, and has a total different atmosphere.

 

[Nigerian Prince]

Tell them camming is a luxury service that isn't meant for everyone.

 

[MallorieReese]

I have high prices, so that brings a lot of dudes in my chatroom who blame me for having such high rates... or cheapskates who beg for a lower price when it comes to privates.
Just ignore them, or have a sassy comeback. Say that you are worth the high prices, and that he will never know what you are capable of if he asks for a lower price... do a fab hair flip and move on to the next user that is going to actually pay what you are worth of.

 

[NotYou]

I think in some circumstances you can just be honest.
Take your example with cam2cam, just tell them if it was cheap, everyone can then afford it and you will get tired of seeing cocks all day so you have it higher so you can also enjoy when you watch someone's cam.
Even if you still hate it, it can still be a good excuse or reason.

Or just simply say "my prices are my prices, if they are too expensive go elsewhere". I think keep everything simple really,

 

[Jenna K]

How do you react to this and how do you deal with the bad feeling? I mean it's hurting anyway when you do so much in the free chat and nobody gives tips or talks, then people still complain.

It makes me feel a little angry when guys told me my "prices are high", but I have the lowest prices because I'm not a top model and I'm trans/tv, yet and still triying to get more followers and tippers on CB. The goal is set for 100 tip, every goal I cum (yes I can cum many times in 1-2 hour), some guys want me to cum for 50, 30 tokens, and guys with purple and pink user name.

I have pvt on 6 tokens per minute, and there is guys they want me to cum in 5, I set a minimun of 15 min to cum, they want a quicky, for god sake, I'm no your girlfriend or lover you use for that, you paying me for a service. (There was guys who really cum in 2 min, I'm still getting turning on at that time)

someone then tipped me 20 tokens just to ask if I was too fat for my bikinis.

You getting paid for that?

They have said me things like... "you need a different size" (it's not my fault chinesse sizes are too small than regular ones) or, "purple doesn't fit you", but those words are decent.

In worst cases they said horrible things like "you're not a real woman", "you f@$god" and things like that.

Fortunately I can kick off from my room that kind of people.

I grew up in a hostil environment like that, so does not affect me at all.

 

[GoddessKaeli]

I just tell them to go find another model and quit being a whiny little bitch. Complaining about what someone charges for their services is such a bitch thing to do. Just move on and keep your broke mouth shut. It's not going to make me change my rate, it's just going to make me laugh at you. They need their lunch money more than you do lol.

 

[MarieElise]

I go; "Here, well since you obviously can't afford me, and I'm out of your league - I'll do you a favor and block you. That way you won't be tempted to worry about it anymore, and waste either of our time commenting upon it." Then I smile sweetly, yawn, and block them. They rarely to never come to my room anymore. I raised prices and it has not attracted more. Quite the opposite, less. Ha ha those Fuckers!

 

[KenzieCams]

I'm sorry people suck. I think we can alllll relate as models. I think it could be the cam site you are on. On MFC, I get occasional cheapskates and beggars but not often. Easy enough to ignore them or laugh them out of the room. But I've tried two other sites and got it so often that it solidified my decision to continue to be loyal and exclusive to MFC. I think each site has its own culture and etiquette. You have to find your cam home.

 

[Lelo1]

lots of models ban for free requests and haggling. It's in their posted rules. Maybe they give one warning if they're feeling generous.

Some models will offer a deal, but it's usually put up for shut up kind of thing. Like a free minute at the end of a 1000 token private.

 

[Taxistheft]

I've seen many responses to this. Lol. I love smart ass ones personally. A few model friends have asked me for funny responses. My go to response to people being cheap is "Go be poor somewhere else " .

Honestly I've never understood people giving models shit for the prices they charge. It's not like they're forcing you to pay. If you can't afford it then look for another model. Or maybe you shouldn't be on caming sites if you're that tight on funds.

 

[AmazingAlexaNY]

60/min is only 3$ per min for the model i think most people don't get this. 60/min is a good deal when you think about it.

 

[schruti]

„your cam2cam price is high, is there a specific reason?“ … I got really angry and told him that I wouldn't complain to porsche that the cars are so expensive. That it is the price with which I feel comfortable with. After that I also have my room empty.

The easiest way not to offend people is talking about yourself, not about them.

Not: „If it's too high for you, maybe you find another model which suits you.“
But: „I tried different prices, and these usually work best for me.“

Ceterum censeo: Smart apps allow you to silently mute a user. That makes everybody happy: He keeps blabbing and feels quite proud because nobody dares to disagree, and everybody else enjoys the peace of not reading him. It's safest to mute him before you answer.

 

[RuthStrawberryblonde]

If someone says I'm expensive I just carry on smiling, some have still gone into private. It doesn't have to be an insult, take it as fact or a compliment.

By the way I know there are models charging twice as much as I do.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Hello !

I really want to know how you all dealing with cheapskates/ beggars.

My room is really slow these days and I have the feeling it brings more of the worst type of costumers, they always ask why my prices are so „high“ ( I charge 60 tokens for private 5 mins minimum, 90 for exclusive private /cam2cam also 5 minutes minimum on Stripchat)

example: „your cam2cam price is high, is there a specific reason?“

I've heard this question so often in the last few days (about 20 times,also per pm)that I got really angry and told him that I wouldn't complain to porsche that the cars are so expensive. That it is the price with which I feel comfortable with. After that I also have my room empty.

Recently I even had a guy who wanted my Snapchat for free and and annoyed me in Pm, because he is also a „cammodel“and he seriously meant that as a „colleague“ he was entitled to it.

On chaturbate they then started to discuss about that bargaining is okay and you never pay for a car what is on the price tag. Guess they didn’t get what i meant and I think they forgot that I’m a human. I then tried to change the subject and talked about vacation and whether my bikinis still fit me. someone then tipped me 20 tokens just to ask if I was too fat for my bikinis. I'm not as sensitive as at the beginning of my career, but I had to swallow and control myself not to switch off the stream and start crying.


I mean, isn't it enough to sit naked there and do very explicit things for free? it makes me really sad how I have been treated by customers lately, I really doubt my selfworth and at the same time I see models (pornstars) demanding 200 tokens a minute for a private chat and nobody complains and if someone does complain, then other members will immediately protect them. The german area is difficult, as germans don't like to tip anywhere anyway and it is also normal that many models offer private chat there for 24 tokens.

How do you react to this and how do you deal with the bad feeling? I mean it's hurting anyway when you do so much in the free chat and nobody gives tips or talks, then people still complain.

I have the feeling that the worse things go, the more mean things you have to endure or the worse you are treated. camsites are not a flea market or have I missed something? I recently invested in very expensive equipment, have a fucking machine for which I don't ask for anything extra in private chat, isn't that good enough?

I'm sorry to be so upset, but it really pisses me off and it hurts

No need to apologize for feeling upset. Ban these losers who have nothing better to do than hide behind a computer, trying to get a cam model to feel like shit. Some of these idiots probably can't get laid in real life, and probably ain't been near pussy since their moms gave birth to them. Some of them hate women. Some think that when they tell a woman to do something, she's supposed to "obey" and do whatever they want. Screw those guys.

If you are in free chat doing explicit things that you haven't even been tipped for yet, you should stop that. Make these people tip you or go private. Don't listen to sob stories of "But I'm a college student!" or "But I'm a schoolteacher! Cut me some slaaaack!" Well...their beggin' asses better go get themselves a gig with Uber or DoorDash then, if they're trying to see some ass. This isn't a charity, and it's not our duty to be giving out free this and that just because NiceGuy4U came into your room with a tale of woe.

This bargaining stuff on cam sites is ridiculous. If I walked into Red Lobster and told them they need to lower the "Steak and Lobster Wednesday" $19.99 price for me, they'd look at me like I'm out of my damn mind. If I don't want to spend that, I could just walk my ass on over to Taco Bell and get a Crunchy Taco Supreme with Fire sauce. Lol. If I was too cheap to even do that, I could go to Dollar Tree and buy a Slim Jim.

I don't wanna see some dude in a chatroom bragging about spending $300 at GameStop...but then acting all outraged that he'd have to tip 50 tokens to watch a cam model show that luscious, round ass on cam. Lol. Oh? So when it comes to Super Mario and Zelda, you'll pull that debit card out of your wallet real quick! But when it's that sexy cam model whose room you've been lurking since 2013, she's a "greedy, gold-digging whore" for expecting tips for flash requests. Lol.

 

[Jenna K]

These last days I had more beggars and cheapskates than tippers . The worst its they are pink, and blue users :/. I only answers with a gif of "no directing" or "tip guys" and they go.

 

[Carmen_Monroe]

These last days I had more beggars and cheapskates than tippers . The worst its they are pink, and blue users :/. I only answers with a gif of "no directing" or "tip guys" and they go.

I know how you feel sending you love and good vibes, we can go thru this hard times :*

 

[Carmen_Monroe]

No need to apologize for feeling upset. Ban these losers who have nothing better to do than hide behind a computer, trying to get a cam model to feel like shit. Some of these idiots probably can't get laid in real life, and probably ain't been near pussy since their moms gave birth to them. Some of them hate women. Some think that when they tell a woman to do something, she's supposed to "obey" and do whatever they want. Screw those guys.

If you are in free chat doing explicit things that you haven't even been tipped for yet, you should stop that. Make these people tip you or go private. Don't listen to sob stories of "But I'm a college student!" or "But I'm a schoolteacher! Cut me some slaaaack!" Well...their beggin' asses better go get themselves a gig with Uber or DoorDash then, if they're trying to see some ass. This isn't a charity, and it's not our duty to be giving out free this and that just because NiceGuy4U came into your room with a tale of woe.

This bargaining stuff on cam sites is ridiculous. If I walked into Red Lobster and told them they need to lower the "Steak and Lobster Wednesday" $19.99 price for me, they'd look at me like I'm out of my damn mind. If I don't want to spend that, I could just walk my ass on over to Taco Bell and get a Crunchy Taco Supreme with Fire sauce. Lol. If I was too cheap to even do that, I could go to Dollar Tree and buy a Slim Jim.

I don't wanna see some dude in a chatroom bragging about spending $300 at GameStop...but then acting all outraged that he'd have to tip 50 tokens to watch a cam model show that luscious, round ass on cam. Lol. Oh? So when it comes to Super Mario and Zelda, you'll pull that debit card out of your wallet real quick! But when it's that sexy cam model whose room you've been lurking since 2013, she's a "greedy, gold-digging whore" for expecting tips for flash requests. Lol.

I love your response very cool and your so right! We don’t need this rude and cheap fuckers

 

[thinkinboutit]

"go somewhere you can afford then"

if they continue being rude, I block them. They already disrespected you by devaluing your worth, and won't be converted to $$$.
Save that energy for people who value your time.

 

[schruti]

This isn't a charity, and it's not our duty to be giving out free this and that just because NiceGuy4U came into your room with a tale of woe.

Save that energy for people who value your time.

Indeed, and It's even worse than wasting time.

Conversation and mood in the chat is important for many models. It can make people either stay or leave.

If a channel is dominated by negotiations about what is free and what costs how much, that destroys the mood, which is the base for business.

Thus it's important to stop begging quickly and quietly.

 

[Jenna K]

I know how you feel sending you love and good vibes, we can go thru this hard times :*

I'm seeing there is a couple of models who are in the same, and they are top, for example, a model who always have more than 1 k viewers, I barely see she have 500 users in this week.

All this week has been the worst. Hope things goes better this weekend.

 

[Aboveavg571]

Thank you for your response!

I tryed to get approved on MFC, but no answer yet. I’m working on chaturbate (usually very slow, people hop in and out ) and Stripchat as my main site. I think the other sites are not really good for european models in terms of traffic

The C2C thing is tough. I think more models should consider it a judgement call. If you have regulars in the room that tip, waiving the cam to cam option in my opinion isn't a bad idea as long as his cam is the top half of his body. In the long run it could lead to more money. if you got approved for MFC...mute the guests and basics.

 

[GraysonDrake]

The C2C thing is tough. I think more models should consider it a judgement call. If you have regulars in the room that tip, waiving the cam to cam option in my opinion isn't a bad idea as long as his cam is the top half of his body. In the long run it could lead to more money. if you got approved for MFC...mute the guests and basics.

C2C as an option is just the privilege of getting your feed looked at by the model, it doesn't matter what you're doing or how not in frame your dick is.

I'm on CB and used to have watching C2C for a few minutes on my tip menu as an option. This was to help deal with the dudes who were just popping into my room and whipping their cams out without even talking to me and then asking if I can see or like it. I thought if I had it on my menu they would at least try to respect my time by tipping or stop doing it entirely.

It didn't work because the type of person who does this is also self absorbed, entitled, and cheap, so I only allow C2C in private now.

Trying what you're suggesting will be like herding cats on PCP.

 

[KingMarti]

Hello !

I really want to know how you all dealing with cheapskates/ beggars.

My room is really slow these days and I have the feeling it brings more of the worst type of costumers, they always ask why my prices are so „high“ ( I charge 60 tokens for private 5 mins minimum, 90 for exclusive private /cam2cam also 5 minutes minimum on Stripchat)

example: „your cam2cam price is high, is there a specific reason?“

I've heard this question so often in the last few days (about 20 times,also per pm)that I got really angry and told him that I wouldn't complain to porsche that the cars are so expensive. That it is the price with which I feel comfortable with. After that I also have my room empty.

Recently I even had a guy who wanted my Snapchat for free and and annoyed me in Pm, because he is also a „cammodel“and he seriously meant that as a „colleague“ he was entitled to it.

On chaturbate they then started to discuss about that bargaining is okay and you never pay for a car what is on the price tag. Guess they didn’t get what i meant and I think they forgot that I’m a human. I then tried to change the subject and talked about vacation and whether my bikinis still fit me. someone then tipped me 20 tokens just to ask if I was too fat for my bikinis. I'm not as sensitive as at the beginning of my career, but I had to swallow and control myself not to switch off the stream and start crying.


I mean, isn't it enough to sit naked there and do very explicit things for free? it makes me really sad how I have been treated by customers lately, I really doubt my selfworth and at the same time I see models (pornstars) demanding 200 tokens a minute for a private chat and nobody complains and if someone does complain, then other members will immediately protect them. The german area is difficult, as germans don't like to tip anywhere anyway and it is also normal that many models offer private chat there for 24 tokens.

How do you react to this and how do you deal with the bad feeling? I mean it's hurting anyway when you do so much in the free chat and nobody gives tips or talks, then people still complain.

I have the feeling that the worse things go, the more mean things you have to endure or the worse you are treated. camsites are not a flea market or have I missed something? I recently invested in very expensive equipment, have a fucking machine for which I don't ask for anything extra in private chat, isn't that good enough?

I'm sorry to be so upset, but it really pisses me off and it hurts

if someone complains about pricing in my room it's instant ban. In general people that complain about pricing are never good customers and always more trouble than they are worth.

 

[Aboveavg571]

C2C as an option is just the privilege of getting your feed looked at by the model, it doesn't matter what you're doing or how not in frame your dick is.

I'm on CB and used to have watching C2C for a few minutes on my tip menu as an option. This was to help deal with the dudes who were just popping into my room and whipping their cams out without even talking to me and then asking if I can see or like it. I thought if I had it on my menu they would at least try to respect my time by tipping or stop doing it entirely.

It didn't work because the type of person who does this is also self absorbed, entitled, and cheap, so I only allow C2C in private now.

Trying what you're suggesting will be like herding cats on PCP.

I just joined CB a few days ago. I'm actually not a fan because it doesn't have a lot of filter options like MFC. I actually meant a C2c option in private. I didn't realize that models allow it in free chat.

 

[GraysonDrake]

I just joined CB a few days ago. I'm actually not a fan because it doesn't have a lot of filter options like MFC. I actually meant a C2c option in private. I didn't realize that models allow it in free chat.

We don't allow it, we just can't turn it off. Broadcasters get a notification in chat when members start sharing their cams and have the option to click on them and see it. There are no options that I'm aware of to disable it.

 

[darcyduke]

I hate cheapskates and freebie hunters. I actually have a tendency to call them out in the public chat, which tends to send them running away, or gets me a torrent of abuse, but whatever. They do come with the territory though, which is annoying. Sometimes I'll have a tonne of them in my room, and I just ban them. It depends how much patience I have on the day.

 

[GraysonDrake]

I hate cheapskates and freebie hunters. I actually have a tendency to call them out in the public chat, which tends to send them running away, or gets me a torrent of abuse, but whatever. They do come with the territory though, which is annoying. Sometimes I'll have a tonne of them in my room, and I just ban them. It depends how much patience I have on the day.

I just straight up make fun of them most of the time, my level of snark in a response is directly inverse to how much I'm being tipped. I find that this is effective at both getting them to shut up and to prevent alienating the rest of chat.

Had a gray with "dominant" in his username ask me what my favorite punishment was yesterday and I told him I like taking away TV privileges.