It's wonderful because sexually, I'm the most submissive thing on the planet and while I can be the queen of improv comedy, talking sexy is something I just can't figure out. I deliver those lines in an unintended comedic fashion. They'll ask if I do privates, I'll say "yeah, I'd love to discuss it with you". Then, I ask then what they are looking for, time limits (if any). If it all works out, all systems are on, we are go for launch; during the private I just talk with eyes and body language, lots of smiles and giggling.
Shy guys rock for privates, I feel I have more freedom to enjoy my orgasm and at the end I tell them how much fun I had.