I have very good evidence that a model's boyfriend poses as a member and and is her room helper----and has contacted me about how i can help this model ,etc. I am not sure if he is actively solitciting tips or wish list gifts from other like he has me, but I suspect he has. They talk back and forth and pretend to be just model and member. Is this something that should be reported or is it just the nature of the risk of this site?
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It's probably fairly common. I wouldn't report it because there's nothing to report. If him trying to convince you to tip/gift the model bothers you (I know it would me), just send the model a quick MFC mail asking her to have a word with the member/boyfriend in question because his solicitation is hampering your enjoyment of her room and is much more likely to lead to members leaving her room than it is to convince them to dig in to their pockets for her.
If you don't want someone to contact you, put them on ignore. If you don't like a model's room, go find another, with or without telling the model that her pimp is annoying.
I'm not sure what "evidence" you have, but the fact that you've been poking around a model's private life is creepy.
I'm not sure what "evidence" you have, but the fact that you've been poking around a model's private life is creepy.
I am reminded of Sophia Locke and M.
Correct me if I am wrong.
M is Sophia's husband and business manager. He is actively engaged in Sophia's camming.
Correct me if I am wrong.
M is Sophia's husband and business manager. He is actively engaged in Sophia's camming.
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They are no longer a couple but are still business partners. No-one ever minds the role he plays in her room, but they did always do it so well.
As the others have said no point in reporting, if you feel you want to say something do but don't be surprised if it falls on deaf ears.
If you don't like something that's happening in a model's room vote with your feet and go elsewhere, I'm sure another model will appreciate someone who actively speaks in their room and tips.
If you don't like something that's happening in a model's room vote with your feet and go elsewhere, I'm sure another model will appreciate someone who actively speaks in their room and tips.
This is common. I know several on MFC and CB. Studio pimps used to be notorious for this as well trying to buddy up and get me to match tips with them. Simply said, iggy them if you don't like the interaction. BTW, I hope you don't actually believe they're all single just because the check box in the profile says so.
Bob is wrong in that it is not so common, but does happen from time to time. It is not so different to a member regular doing a similar thing. In my experience too much interference from well meaning others often throws the interested member out of the fantasy. This is what you are experiencing. You choose the model to be with, not someone else to be with. When a model gives over herself to someone else, it is the someone else you are with.
Usually you must move on sadly, no matter how much you like the model. For myself I have tried to ignore someone directing (not in chat but in an actual pvt), chasing only the physical part, but the director kept getting it wrong, assuming my taste for his own. I suspect it never works, significant others should offer other kinds of support. The involved models usually have partners who trust them to know what is best for their members.
No need reporting it, even though it is a bit of a scam (you are not interacting with the model)... it was not vindictive and only hurts the model in the end. What you experienced is pretty rare.
A warning, some models help each other with chat too, especially when their English is not so good. They tend to know the one they speak for better and don't try to read the member's fantasy, I guess because they are models.They usually make a model seem better than she actually is though.
Usually you must move on sadly, no matter how much you like the model. For myself I have tried to ignore someone directing (not in chat but in an actual pvt), chasing only the physical part, but the director kept getting it wrong, assuming my taste for his own. I suspect it never works, significant others should offer other kinds of support. The involved models usually have partners who trust them to know what is best for their members.
No need reporting it, even though it is a bit of a scam (you are not interacting with the model)... it was not vindictive and only hurts the model in the end. What you experienced is pretty rare.
A warning, some models help each other with chat too, especially when their English is not so good. They tend to know the one they speak for better and don't try to read the member's fantasy, I guess because they are models.They usually make a model seem better than she actually is though.
Did you tell him you weren't interested?
I don't think it's anything worthy of reporting but if it bothers you, you could contact the model just to let her know that you weren't comfortable with her helper's sales pitch. She might not be aware of it and he could just be an aggressive supporter of her.
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I'd do that using the most diplomatic language possible. Perhaps take a university course in diplomacy before sending the message as I now realize your statement about having "evidence" the he's her boyfriend means you might already be down the path of conspiracy and have convinced yourself he's just trying to get you to buy him some sweet rims for his pickup truck and the rage might be bubbling up somewhere in your subconscious.
You have to be honest if it was the sales pitch that bothered you or the fact that she might have a boyfriend. Because you seemed to mix those two points together as if it was a perceived violation. If it's the sales pitch that should be fairly easy to straighten out either by ignoring, as some have suggested, or just sending a non-accusatorial message saying you would rather not get the hard sell. If it's the idea that she has a boyfriend then move on, friend.
On a side note about room helpers, I'm not really active on MFC anymore but I'm not that comfortable with them. I get the concept but for me it creates an odd hierarchy. I like the idea that the women are in charge and no matter how innocuous, the room helper seems like some kind of traffic cop.
I don't think it's anything worthy of reporting but if it bothers you, you could contact the model just to let her know that you weren't comfortable with her helper's sales pitch. She might not be aware of it and he could just be an aggressive supporter of her.
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I'd do that using the most diplomatic language possible. Perhaps take a university course in diplomacy before sending the message as I now realize your statement about having "evidence" the he's her boyfriend means you might already be down the path of conspiracy and have convinced yourself he's just trying to get you to buy him some sweet rims for his pickup truck and the rage might be bubbling up somewhere in your subconscious.
You have to be honest if it was the sales pitch that bothered you or the fact that she might have a boyfriend. Because you seemed to mix those two points together as if it was a perceived violation. If it's the sales pitch that should be fairly easy to straighten out either by ignoring, as some have suggested, or just sending a non-accusatorial message saying you would rather not get the hard sell. If it's the idea that she has a boyfriend then move on, friend.
On a side note about room helpers, I'm not really active on MFC anymore but I'm not that comfortable with them. I get the concept but for me it creates an odd hierarchy. I like the idea that the women are in charge and no matter how innocuous, the room helper seems like some kind of traffic cop.
I fail to see how you pose as a member. If you have an account then you are a real member. Anyways just set your PMs to friends only and do not worry about random people bothering you.
Sounds like the displeasure comes from dishonesty in the interactions. A spouse interacting in the chat room in deceitful way to entice people to tip isn't exactly your normal member. They have motives behind their interactions, and I can see how that may put people off. And it would be especially off-putting if a model pretends to have no spouse/partner, then her members come to find out that not only was untrue, but that he was posing as a member all along right under their noses.
Not really a wise move.
It's dishonest, sucky and annoying but probably not breaking any rules so there isn't really anything you can do about it. If you have been a regular in her room long enough and tipped enough then maybe, and its a big maybe, she'll do something about the BF/other member and tell him to tone it down. Most likely outcome though is that its been working for her so far and she'll just keep carrying on doing what she's doing. So you can either ignore the annoying BF if you like this model enough or move on.
Personally I couldnt carry on tipping someone who I knew was just outright lying to my face and I'd go and tip someone nicer instead.
Personally I couldnt carry on tipping someone who I knew was just outright lying to my face and I'd go and tip someone nicer instead.
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Well, first of all what real evidence do you have of him being her bf? How do you know that he's not just a really good member and friend?
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