he wants my clothes to stay on

[Jupiter551]

As a non-nude model, a lot of my privates just want to talk. I'd say beware of the ones who constantly come back and want to "Get to Know You" because I've had more than one "Stalker" case. Some guy actually found out my home phone number and address through an army/cop friend who knew how to hack. He ended up calling me and I heard my address on his GPS in the CAR!!! "Turn right on Blank Street to arrive at ###" I freaked out. Seriously, watch out for people who fall for you, or want to "be your friend." Name: HamishMacbeth= BEWARE!!!!!! He also has other nicknames as well, like "SleezyTartz" but I don't know the other ones. I know he has a bunch though because he'd always try and fool me and then come out and be like "you know who this is?" and go on his cam and show me. Seriously-SCARY STUFF!!!

Since then I cut off people like that, and just do my teasing/dance shows (still nonnude) and just really don't talk much anymore. If I do talk, its mostly giggling, nodding, and just faking whatever. I don't do true privates either because it gives them that sense of really being alone and getting to know you better.

That's really creepy, I guess aside from banning the IP and credit card (relatively easy to get around) MFC can't really do much to get rid of guys like that

 

[deadelvis]

As a non-nude model, a lot of my privates just want to talk. I'd say beware of the ones who constantly come back and want to "Get to Know You" because I've had more than one "Stalker" case. Some guy actually found out my home phone number and address through an army/cop friend who knew

Ladies ,as an older male let me explain our male mindset.
If a girl is nice and pleasant to us we start to feel affectionate towards them,
not in an lusting way but as you would when you enjoy talking to an atractive girl.
Obviously we are never going to meet or even want to meet the girl in real life so
we feel that protective urge to be nice and generous towards the girl.
I suppose it is a kind of love,perhaps what you might have for a sibling or such like.
Now no man would want to see their relation unclothed so quite often and i for one will leave the room when the sex show starts.The men who tip 1,000`s of tokens to a model do not do so to see a tit and pussy show,its because they have feelings towards the model which they show by their actions.Now a clever model like Agent_99 on MFC does exploit this to the hilt.She is no beauty facewise although her top is large and is older at 45 but she has a loyal following of several 100 who look out for her and fill her room as soon as she logs on.I am one of these.
her personality is like a daily fix for me and many others which we seek out.
I can never fathom out why anyone would pay a lot of money(tokens) to see a girl
play with herself in a show when the internet is awash with free porn where most of the sex is more natural and not the boring single effort of masturbation.
I await your wrath with some trepidation.I`m DreamloverUK on MFC and 68 years age age but i still like to talk to the models of all ages and looks,after all beauty is only skindeep and the personality matters far more.
Agreed some men are of the stalker type and some women murder their children
but fortunatley they are all in the minority.(sorry bit of a hard comparison)
Regards/Chris

 

[Dolicky]

He ended up calling me and I heard my address on his GPS in the CAR!!!

That's waaaay scary Suzy. I hope you managed to get rid of him. It's also unfortunate that it now causes you to not talk much more with your fans. Perfectly understandable though - stay safe.

Deadelvis (Chris) makes an interesting point. There is nothing sexier to me than a gorgeous intelligent girl who can actually hold a conversation. Flirting is also good for the soul. :thumbleft: It can make the girl feel great about herself and that in turn makes us blokes feel good too.

The most enjoyable rooms for me are those where people have some fun, a good chat and perhaps some nakedness (but that's not always a requirement). :shhh: Personally I enjoy getting to know people. I've made some really good friends through MFC (with models and members). There are a some who I regularly chat with offline, write to (yes, real letter writing does still exist!) and even met a few IRL too.

It takes all types in this world. Just keep the "teeeep me" types away from me and I'll stay happy. :lol:

Cheers,
Dolicky

 

[Elvine]

I tip Amber to keep her clothes on all the time! :lol:

 

[waogo]

I've tipped a girl to put more clothes on. But it was hilarious, too, cause she'd choose silly things to put on.

I've also asked for a pic set of nothing but random going out outfits, after I won a raffle with that and a vid. The vid was the normal sexy things, but the pics I wanted different, for some reason.

 

[Kittycatpurr]

I love members who actually want to chat and a massive part of my enjoyment of my job when I'm on MFC is being able to log on and catch up with all my regulars and be able to talk about anything and everything. I do get some of them joking that i talk too much (oddly enough they still keep coming back so I must be entertaining them on some level for all their leg-pulling). Many of the guys i talk to all the time don't seem to be that fussed whether I'm naked or not although none of them complain when i am (as I grew up a in a pretty much naturist household I do genuinely prefer being naked most of the time unless I'm feeling cold).

I think the beauty of this job/career/way of life (delete as appilcable) is the sheer variety of people you meet along the way. I keep telling my IRL friends that they should never stereotype anyone who hangs out on camsites as you really do get to meet a cross section of all of society. It's endlessly fascinating to me and I think I'd find it hard to give up camming completely as a result, even if the business idea I am working on with my friend could be a real winner and would mean that i wouldn't have to if we get it off the ground properly (that is a bit of a way off but thinking ahead...)

Both the 'proper' pervs and the guys who want to know you with your clothes on - variety is the spice of life as they say. If this job only focused on the sexual I'd have been bored ages ago. It's all about mixing it up IMO.

Embrace the variety!

 

[GreatDane]

I love members who actually want to chat and a massive part of my enjoyment of my job when I'm on MFC is being able to log on and catch up with all my regulars and be able to talk about anything and everything. I do get some of them joking that i talk too much (oddly enough they still keep coming back so I must be entertaining them on some level for all their leg-pulling). Many of the guys i talk to all the time don't seem to be that fussed whether I'm naked or not although none of them complain when i am (as I grew up a in a pretty much naturist household I do genuinely prefer being naked most of the time unless I'm feeling cold).

I think the beauty of this job/career/way of life (delete as appilcable) is the sheer variety of people you meet along the way. I keep telling my IRL friends that they should never stereotype anyone who hangs out on camsites as you really do get to meet a cross section of all of society. It's endlessly fascinating to me and I think I'd find it hard to give up camming completely as a result, even if the business idea I am working on with my friend could be a real winner and would mean that i wouldn't have to if we get it off the ground properly (that is a bit of a way off but thinking ahead...)

Both the 'proper' pervs and the guys who want to know you with your clothes on - variety is the spice of life as they say. If this job only focused on the sexual I'd have been bored ages ago. It's all about mixing it up IMO.

Embrace the variety!

Doesn't hurt the fact that you are fun to be around anyway, and it's not always about what you do or don't have on that keeps people coming back. It's more the fact that you are always doing something different and not afraid to talk to everyone that comes in.