not on a token site. i dont mind people chilling after privates or gold shows. i quite enjoy it. its like pillow talk which happens to be my favorite part of sex because i love to talk. i do expect them to tip if they want to keep the conversation sexual or more attention. that engagement costs money even if their private show is over.
my biggest issue is when members who just purchased privates are attempting to bogart my attention directly after. when the show ends, i'm trying to hustle for other privates or trying to build up a group show directly afterward. on streamate, we get 35%. sure the member trying to get attention may have just spent $150 but i get $52.50. i have to keep going. if their attention-hogging behavior is chasing members out of my room, they get a verbal warning, then kick, then ban. thanks for the show, but no one is going to sabotage me from earning more.
it's like talking to your bartender after they served you. they are still working and they are attending to other people's needs but will chitchat during downtime.
Why would you expect a good user (who has paid for your services) to give you money if he only passively enjoys the public show (or participates in the chat without any specific requests) to wind down or get in the mood?
i expect a good user to respect that camming is my job. if that good user wants the same amount of attention, then he needs to tip accordingly. if he isn't interested in tipping anymore, he is welcome to leave, or go into lurk mode. i would expect my good user to set an example of how i expect my audience to behave. if others view a regular not participating in chat and they are getting attention, why should they tip?
Would you prefer him to log in as an anonymous user or activate an invisible mode if the platform allows it, every time he doesn't want to buy services from you?
yes. leave me alone.
im here to work, this is my job. if you aren't interested in a show or tip me a little bit, dont waste my time and energy. there is nothing more disappointing when a reg pops in to say hello, chats with you for a while and tells you they have to leave. at least fucking throw me 5 gold.
I don't get it why some models have such problems with users who show themselves visibly in the public chat of a token platform. Everything that happens in public can be viewed or even recorded by any user completely anonymously. Not watching your show secretly, but using the username, which he also uses to interact with you, is actually more polite than hiding in anonymity in my opinion.
I've even read here that some models block such users (and potential customers). Why? Because he did not hide? This has also happened to me myself that I once had a room open because the model was in PVT or on a break and I then forgot about the browser tab. In the PM chat I then read insinuations that I probably had no hand free to write something and was banned. That's one way to scare away your customers...
because the models are working. they don't want members in their room who dont show that they respect that. they also don't want to waste their time with members who won't engage with them. it's their room.
i don't think you understand that 95% of cammodels are trying to earn a living. our time is valuable, and we can't waste it on people who seem to want to waste our time and take advantage of our attention.
