Got myself and the model I was talking to banned

[Youneedlemons]

Hello,

So I was in a pvt with said model and we are friends and we talk about a lot of things.
I was telling her that one of my young cousins asked me for inappropriate things.
We were talking why it happened and how my cousin got confused there were no sexual description or any sexual context to the conversation.
It was just a conversation about a girl that got a crush and got confused emotions because of her life situation.
Now the system probably automatically flagd the conversation but this is a false positive.
I don't actually care to much about my account but that model is my friend and this is her livelihood and I want to fix this.
The bigger problem is that from what I'm reading chaturbate won't ever overtrun this ban.
I really want to at least help her.
My user name on chaturbate: youneedlemons

 

[Youneedlemons]

geeze louise.. what is up with dudes who engage in questionable behavior towards minors and context?




only the models can message support to see about getting their accounts restored. quite frankly they are equally at fault as much as you because they tolerated and more than likely engaged in conversation about a minor. chaturbate is within it's rights because they broke TOS.

they deserved their ban.

You decide to brand me a pedophile because of my ban, I have no access to the chat logs because of the ban and therefore can't prove anything to you.

You have no idea what actually happened with my cousin and you assume things on your own.

The model in question is a good friend of mine for a long time and I was looking for advice we are used to talking on chat.

I was trying to reply in a polite way and actually answer everything you write but your mind is so stuck on the thought that I'm a big evil pedophile.

I have no idea why you are stuck with that and cannot imagine any other scenario.

 

[AudriTwo]

You seem like a really perverted mind, do you often think about child pornography and minors? have you ever talked with some specialist about that? those thoughts can be dangerous when you cant hold them inside you and they might turn to real actions.

 

[MarieElise]

You decide to brand me a pedophile because of my ban

You have spent all day arguing on a forum a case for being allowed to talk about minors, on a site where people go to specifically talk about their sexual fantasies and masturbate.

You branded yourself that way, and you're wasting everyone's time. It's beyond asinine and inane.

Watch guys he's gonna respond with some partial cherry picked quote, where he says something else, and then he's going to claim he's a victim of misinterpretation. Meanwhile all his posts are here for every jack ass on the planet to see and read in full, for themselves. He started out by arguing exactly what he's been accused of arguing.

Well, anyways, good night everyone else.
I'm over this.

 

[Youneedlemons]

You have spent all day arguing on a forum a case for being allowed to talk about minors, on a site where people go to specifically talk about their sexual fantasies and masturbate.

You branded yourself that way, and you're wasting everyone's time. It's beyond asinine and inane.

Watch guys he's gonna respond with some partial cherry picked quote, where he says something else, and then he's going to claim he's a victim of misinterpretation. Meanwhile all his posts are here for every jack ass on the planet to see and read in full, for themselves. He started out by arguing exactly what he's been accused of arguing.

Well, anyways, good night everyone else.
I'm over this.

I have not argued that at all not even once.

I have argued that the system is to harsh and has big flaws that need fixing.

I'll say it again

When a ban hits it bans every account your id is verified in!
That means if you even once collaborated with someone that someone is now also banned.

And we verified that at least 4 other people she was working with got banned because of this!

does this seem right to you? they were never a part of our conversation.

We violated the TOS I get it I never asked to lift my ban I was looking to fix her ban and that of the others.

My post have been consistent the system has problem and need fixing and I just want to help her fix her ban that's it it's right there for everyone to read.

 

[Vixxen81]

You seem like a really perverted mind, do you often think about child pornography and minors? have you ever talked with some specialist about that? those thoughts can be dangerous when you cant hold them inside you and they might turn to real actions.

What the fuck? Step off.

 

[tokensarentforkids]

I have not argued that at all not even once.

I have argued that the system is to harsh and has big flaws that need fixing.

I'll say it again

When a ban hits it bans every account your id is verified in!
That means if you even once collaborated with someone that someone is now also banned.

And we verified that at least 4 other people she was working with got banned because of this!

does this seem right to you? they were never a part of our conversation.

We violated the TOS I get it I never asked to lift my ban I was looking to fix her ban and that of the others.

My post have been consistent the system has problem and need fixing and I just want to help her fix her ban that's it it's right there for everyone to read.

Sounds like accounts belonging to a studio, so let the boss take care of his own property.

 

[goddes_love]

What the fuck? Step off.

is it not nice when shit is answered with shit? it was not me who started calling people child abusers without any real evidence, i thought this forum is for camgirls to find support and advices, but seems like all that can be found here is bitchy attitude and judging. i already know i made a mistake and i admit it, i was dumb girl, i didnt need to hear it from others anymore, i came here in hope to find some fair justice and forgivnes but seems like everyone else here are saints and never violated any chaturbate rules, tho i wonder why those saints had come in this kind of forum at first place.

 

[goddes_love]

You're the one who's clearly Pedo baiting. You are disgusting. You are putting your child at risk, like an idiot, of the hugest dimensions! Bitch you got your head up your ass.

At least my head is not in your ass like some other ones head seems to be, you could watch your language btw, i dont think this forum is meant to be a place where camgirls throw dirt on other ones.

 

[RainForest]

geeze louise.. what is up with dudes who engage in questionable behavior towards minors and context?




only the models can message support to see about getting their accounts restored. quite frankly they are equally at fault as much as you because they tolerated and more than likely engaged in conversation about a minor. chaturbate is within it's rights because they broke TOS.

they deserved their ban.

This model may also be chatting up a storm with others that the OP isn't aware of.

 

[cbhours]

When a ban hits it bans every account your id is verified in!
That means if you even once collaborated with someone that someone is now also banned.

You forgot the guest performer feature which is highly recommended instead of submitting the ID on the individual account. As far as I know those other accounts they were verified on should be able to appeal the ban.

 

[misterical]

Can you please not take what I said out of context!

In context or out of context, it seems crazy to have thought you could get away with that topic in a cam model's room. I mean, she's now been banned completely. Too many people on these pages start these conversations deliberately and you're expecting a CB admin to determine that you did it innocently. Tough call for them.

 

[Youneedlemons]

This model may also be chatting up a storm with others that the OP isn't aware of.

I actuality don't know if i understood what you are saying correctly but If I did then I came here out of my own volition to find a way to help her.

You forgot the guest performer feature which is highly recommended instead of submitting the ID on the individual account. As far as I know those other accounts they were verified on should be able to appeal the ban.

She and the people she worked with didn't use it I don't know why.
Right now the situations is what it is and I'm trying to minimize the damages that I caused.
They did send support a request but I'm the only one that got a reply.

In context or out of context, it seems crazy to have thought you could get away with that topic in a cam model's room. I mean, she's now been banned completely. Too many people on these pages start these conversations deliberately and you're expecting a CB admin to determine that you did it innocently. Tough call for them.

The truth is it seems crazy to you but there was no thinking most of my time on CB is spent talking like normal I don't think about every word I say because why would I if I have no ill intent our not doing something illegal.
You keep thinking about it like it was an interaction between a model and a client when to us we were just talking like normal the conversation didn't start there we have been talking for over 40 min about both her life and mine.
We are friends we talk like normal people to us it was just chat we didn't think about it.
I get that to all of you it's seems crazy and you keep reminding yourself it's porn site every time but we don't do it we just talk about everything.
And I expect that any ban for any reason on any platform would be reviewed in context by an actual human especially if it can hurt someone income.

I admitted that it was a mistake.
I admitted that I didn't know about it being in the TOS because I didn't read the appendix.
I never asked for my ban to be removed.
I understand that it's a big issue.
And I completely understand why you don't believe my word for what happened.
You can see I try and answer in a polite way and not be like this other person responding here.
My goal is not to escape punishment or to say I didn't violate the site rules.
My goal is not to fight with anyone here.
I came here looking for help.
My goal is to get CB to look at the chat log and at least get her account back that's it.

 

[cbhours]

She and the people she worked with didn't use it I don't know why.
Right now the situations is what it is and I'm trying to minimize the damages that I caused.
They did send support a request but I'm the only one that got a reply.

Just curious about the time line, you both were banned on what date? That same day you both wrote to support, you receive a response when? And the model hasn't received a reply at all?

Last week a similar situation had a turn around time of 5 days if that helps you at all (for response to model). She was permanently banned but she made a huge mistake when replying to an underage comment.

 

[Vixxen81]

I came here looking for help.
My goal is to get CB to look at the chat log and at least get her account back that's it.

Support will only respond to the person who "owns" the account. I appreciate you understanding it is a big deal and if you choose to join other cam sites that you'll keep in mind that you are in a virtual strip club and no minors are allowed, verbally or physically.

 

[Youneedlemons]

Just curious about the time line, you both were banned on what date? That same day you both wrote to support, you receive a response when? And the model hasn't received a reply at all?

Last week a similar situation had a turn around time of 5 days if that helps you at all (for response to model). She was permanently banned but she made a huge mistake when replying to an underage comment.

The ban was August 1 I wrote to support immediately and they sent me the auto response mail about me being permanently banned 8 hours later and they didn't respond to me anymore.
She wrote to them the same day but still no response at all.

Support will only respond to the person who "owns" the account. I appreciate you understanding it is a big deal and if you choose to join other cam sites that you'll keep in mind that you are in a virtual strip club and no minors are allowed, verbally or physically.

I know I don't expect them to tell me about her account but if I'm able to get them to look at the chat logs then they will look at the whole case.
Also I just tried to explain what happened and why in an honest way the discussion got very heated here and goddes_love responses and attitude didn't help the situation.
I understand why people are very suspicious and why they find it weird.

 

[misterical]

The truth is it seems crazy to you but there was no thinking most of my time on CB is spent talking like normal I don't think about every word I say because why would I if I have no ill intent our not doing something illegal.
You keep thinking about it like it was an interaction between a model and a client when to us we were just talking like normal the conversation didn't start there we have been talking for over 40 min about both her life and mine.
We are friends we talk like normal people to us it was just chat we didn't think about it.
I get that to all of you it's seems crazy and you keep reminding yourself it's porn site every time but we don't do it we just talk about everything.

You act like you are the only person who has a "normal" conversation on Chaturbate. Lots of people do. I do it every day in life. Like you, I don't think about every word. Once I got pulled out of the room and chastised for telling her "brb, going to the toilet". However, that's not the same a talking about that time your cousin wanted to bang you when you were kids. It should be embedded in your mind that you just can't talk about stuff like that.

 

[Youneedlemons]

You act like you are the only person who has a "normal" conversation on Chaturbate. Lots of people do. I do it every day in life. Like you, I don't think about every word. Once I got pulled out of the room and chastised for telling her "brb, going to the toilet". However, that's not the same a talking about that time your cousin wanted to bang you when you were kids. It should be embedded in your mind that you just can't talk about stuff like that.

You seem to don't understand that my cousin asked me this now not when we were kids it's just happened last week we have a huge age difference my immediate answer was no.
I don't need to detail here her entire life situation and why she even asked that.
I was in shock and had no idea how to deal with this so I was asking for advice from a friend that what the conversation was about how to deal with it.

 

[Vixxen81]

You seem to don't understand that my cousin asked me this now not when we were kids it's just happened last week we have a huge age difference my immediate answer was no.
I don't need to detail here her entire life situation and why she even asked that.
I was in shock and had no idea how to deal with this so I was asking for advice from a friend that what the conversation was about how to deal with it.

But you should know which friends to ask and not the ones on porn sites who have strict rules to adhere to in regards to this stuff. I understand you feeling overwhelmed by whatever your cousin was trying to do but that just wasn't the place for it.

 

[misterical]

You seem to don't understand that my cousin asked me this now not when we were kids it's just happened last week we have a huge age difference my immediate answer was no.
I don't need to detail here her entire life situation and why she even asked that.
I was in shock and had no idea how to deal with this so I was asking for advice from a friend that what the conversation was about how to deal with it.

Even the cousin part should have been enough for you to stop and think.

 

[Youneedlemons]

But you should know which friends to ask and not the ones on porn sites who have strict rules to adhere to in regards to this stuff. I understand you feeling overwhelmed by whatever your cousin was trying to do but that just wasn't the place for it.

I don't have friends that I can talk to or ask advice from, that's my situation.

Even the cousin part should have been enough for you to stop and think.

I wasn't because like I said I was there just to talk to her nothing else most of the time when I login is only when I get an alert she is or 1 other model is working that's it I follow just 2 and when I log in is 99% of time to talk.
Why we don't talk in another way because we live in completely different time zones and most of the time when I'm free she works and the opposite so yeah we talk on CB.

Like I said to me and to her it was just a normal way to talk about anything in the chat.
Again I understand that to you it is seems natural to stop and think because it's a porn site but the fact is we didn't see any difference between talking on CB chat to talking on any other massaging app.

Not disputing that it's against the rules like I said in the post above.

 

[Vixxen81]

I don't have friends that I can talk to or ask advice from, that's my situation.

I wasn't because like I said I was there just to talk to her nothing else most of the time when I login is only when I get an alert she is or 1 other model is working that's it I follow just 2 and when I log in is 99% of time to talk.
Why we don't talk in another way because we live in completely different time zones and most of the time when I'm free she works and the opposite so yeah we talk on CB.

Like I said to me and to her it was just a normal way to talk about anything in the chat.
Again I understand that to you it is seems natural to stop and think because it's a porn site but the fact is we didn't see any difference between talking on CB chat to talking on any other massaging app.

Not disputing that it's against the rules like I said in the post above.

Email exists. It has no time restraints.

 

[rockin_rod]

Why we don't talk in another way because we live in completely different time zones and most of the time when I'm free she works and the opposite so yeah we talk on CB.

How have you both been communicating since the bans?

 

[Youneedlemons]

Email exists. It has no time restraints.

How have you both been communicating since the bans?

Telegram.
Email is not the same as instant messaging and like I said we didn't stop to think.
I never said we don't have other ways to talk I said that because our times are completely opposite when I have free time she is working and she can't be on the phone while working.
So we got used to spending time on CB talking

I understand that it was against the rules I understand that it was not the place but it already happened I can't go back and change it.

I'm just trying to get support to look at the chat logs and maybe get her account back that's it.

 

[AmberCutie]

So we got used to spending time on CB talking

I understand that it was against the rules I understand that it was not the place but it already happened I can't go back and change it.

I'm just trying to get support to look at the chat logs and maybe get her account back that's it.

Ok this is understandable, let's all stop beating this subject to a pulp.

 

[AmberCutie]

I repeatedly stated that I don't care about my own account and only wish to restore the model account do to this being my own mistake.

So @punker barbie can you please just see that support gets this person's model friend's mail looked at about the ban? We know you can't report to us what the situation is.

Locking this since it's gotten wild.