Good Lookingness of the Guy in Your Show

[pennybabyblue]

Hi guys,

I don't want to sound shallow and don't mean to, but I'm looking to do a couple show soon with a friend and I'm wondering how much people care what the guy in the show looks like. It isn't like the guy is not good looking trust me, but his body isn't that of a body builder (he's got a belly but all good, I'm into it) and I'm wondering how much that matters. Do people simply care most about a good dick that can fuck? He definitely has that

Looking for thoughts and also any other tips on a couple show. I will have it be a couple show turned into a ticket show.

Please don't @ me! Just looking for some advice

Thanks!

 

[Gia_Xo]

I have done some shows with my boyfriend, who is not a buff guy, and I don't think it matters. I almost think people like seeing 'the couple next door' over a supermodel-looking couple.

 

[NotYou]

When it comes to couples, I think it matters of the atmosphere and how much fun and what's going on in the whole, as opposed to what he (and she) looks like.
You will definitely get some guys coming in and just trolling, saying stupid shit to try get a reaction but with these just ignore or silence - problem solved.

I recently viewed one couple who's body's were both amazing in terms of they are fit, muscular and they work/train hard... but they were so so soooo vain on cam too, they couldn't witch it off, and that is very unattractive (to most I think?). So it's really a case of just be real, have fun and be happy/confident (not "too" arrogant) and then the people won't give a flying rats ass about what he looks like - so long as he knows where your holes are, it'll be fine lol.

 

[AmberCutie]

I think so long as he (well both of you) look clean and put together it doesn't matter body shape or attractiveness. And by clean/put together I just mean they don't appear as they haven't showered or neglected to maintain themselves. This goes for all cam models, not just couples on cam. Ya should be fine.

also:

Please don't @ me!

what does this mean in the context of this thread or a forum post in general?

 

[SaffronBurke]

Think about the types of guys you see in mainstream porn. A lot are a little chubby, or balding, or hairy, or just generally regular dudes. While some people do like the buff type, I feel like male audiences like the regular guy look because it's easier to self-insert into the fantasy.

 

[NotYou]

Think about the types of guys you see in mainstream porn. A lot are a little chubby, or balding, or hairy, or just generally regular dudes. While some people do like the buff type, I feel like male audiences like the regular guy look because it's easier to self-insert into the fantasy.

Exactly this. We guys are trying to imagine that guy who is with you, is ourselves... it's much easier to think "wow that hot amazing model who's a dream woman, is fucking this guy who looks exactly like me [in terms of being a regular joe]".

 

[pennybabyblue]

Thanks, all! Chaturbate can be so vain sometimes so I wanted to check but you girls reassured me that its about attitude and less shallow things.

 

[pennybabyblue]

I think so long as he (well both of you) look clean and put together it doesn't matter body shape or attractiveness. And by clean/put together I just mean they don't appear as they haven't showered or neglected to maintain themselves. This goes for all cam models, not just couples on cam. Ya should be fine.

also:

what does this mean in the context of this thread or a forum post in general?

Hey Amber!

Thanks so much for the advice.

Here is what "don't @ me" means from Urban Dictionary:

"An exclamatory phrase which typically follows the statement of a controversial of unpopular opinion. Used almost exclusively online. Effect is similar to ‘dropping the mic’."

I've seen it and used it when I say something online that many people may be angry at me for and tag my name with an upset post... (example of @ing me: @pennybabyblue that is so shallow! everyone is beautiful the way they are) So I put it here to avoid the comments that tell me how ridiculous of a question it is

 

[AmberCutie]

Hey Amber!

Thanks so much for the advice.

Here is what "don't @ me" means from Urban Dictionary:

"An exclamatory phrase which typically follows the statement of a controversial of unpopular opinion. Used almost exclusively online. Effect is similar to ‘dropping the mic’."

I've seen it and used it when I say something online that many people may be angry at me for and tag my name with an upset post... (example of @ing me: @pennybabyblue that is so shallow! everyone is beautiful the way they are) So I put it here to avoid the comments that tell me how ridiculous of a question it is

I've seen it used on Twitter in that context where people talk shit then don't want replies, just seems silly to use it on a thread where you're actually ASKING for input lol. Guess I hope that doesn't become a habit on here as discussion is the whole point of a forum.

 

[AudriTwo]

Thanks, all! Chaturbate can be so vain sometimes so I wanted to check but you girls reassured me that its about attitude and less shallow things.

people are assholes. you two have fun and have a fantastic night on cam $$$

 

[pennybabyblue]

I've seen it used on Twitter in that context where people talk shit then don't want replies, just seems silly to use it on a thread where you're actually ASKING for input lol. Guess I hope that doesn't become a habit on here as discussion is the whole point of a forum.

Lol good point, actually.. I'm sure it won't! And I hear you, I do welcome the comments, so... YES @ me lol.