Getting into femdom/kink content

[SecretSissyJonathan]

I am new here but I definitely see this site has some models I have bought clips from over the years, so why not ask.

I'm 20 and have always had a fascination to the whole sph/sissification type of kinks, and recently I have had this urge to be in someone's content. Is this something even in the realm of possibility? The one time I have ever had this happen was an sph custom I ordered that was posted online with my permission.

Anyways sorry for the long post but being a guy from Australia and is young, meeting models who know about this stuff or the right type of connections is very hard.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Pro dommes occasionally need film slaves but the ones I know usually pick from their established subs. I'd focus on exploring your kink and see if filming follows.

You can also always pay for a custom which includes your content with the understanding they will resell it. You'll need to sign a release and have ur ID on file.

If you're trying to make content for the purpose of making $$$ you'd need to bring a lot more to the table.

Re: the custom posted without permission...you can have this pulled down via dmca.

 

[Chiara_Montague]

You could try FetLife but as a caution: don't use it as a dating site messaging Dommes left and right begging to be in their pictures or videos. FetLife works best when you engage at the community level and get to know people in that way. Join groups, attend events. Then you could maybe get together with a Domme you've gotten to know and a kink photographer and make some content.

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

Pro dommes occasionally need film slaves but the ones I know usually pick from their established subs. I'd focus on exploring your kink and see if filming follows.

You can also always pay for a custom which includes your content with the understanding they will resell it. You'll need to sign a release and have ur ID on file.

If you're trying to make content for the purpose of making $$$ you'd need to bring a lot more to the table.

Re: the custom posted without permission...you can have this pulled down via dmca.

I never knew you had to sign a release for something like that, thanks for letting me know for future reference! But money isn't really a big factor for me, more the experience I guess? Lol

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

You could try FetLife but as a caution: don't use it as a dating site messaging Dommes left and right begging to be in their pictures or videos. FetLife works best when you engage at the community level and get to know people in that way. Join groups, attend events. Then you could maybe get together with a Domme you've gotten to know and a kink photographer and make some content.

I will definitely check out fetlife! But I get what your saying, I would prefer making meaningful connections with any dommes over begging them for anything

 

[GothHostess]

Seconding FetLife, and seconding the no begging, haha. A lot of major cities have groups on there for clip makers to connect, so you could look for that!

Pro dommes occasionally need film slaves but the ones I know usually pick from their established subs. I'd focus on exploring your kink and see if filming follows.

To add to this, shooting clips can be quite a bit less sexy than you might think. There can be a lot of starting a stopping, moving the camera around, making sure the angles are right. You would probably get a lot more out of a session with a pro domme than you would making a clip with someone!

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

Seconding FetLife, and seconding the no begging, haha. A lot of major cities have groups on there for clip makers to connect, so you could look for that!


To add to this, shooting clips can be quite a bit less sexy than you might think. There can be a lot of starting a stopping, moving the camera around, making sure the angles are right. You would probably get a lot more out of a session with a pro domme than you would making a clip with someone!

I have tried looking for a pro domme but I have no luck here in Australia. I feel like in the US the fetish scene and what not is a bit more well known and more dommes exist

 

[Chiara_Montague]

You would probably get a lot more out of a session with a pro domme than you would making a clip with someone!

Seconding this!

 

[GoddessV]

I have tried looking for a pro domme but I have no luck here in Australia. I feel like in the US the fetish scene and what not is a bit more well known and more dommes exist

Because USA is 10x bigger than Australia, yes there are more. Plenty exist in your country - look harder and learn to google better.

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

Because USA is 10x bigger than Australia, yes there are more. Plenty exist in your country - look harder and learn to google better.

It might not help that where I am in Australia is a little bit more rural in a sense like a couple of hours from Sydney which is a place where a couple of kink establishments exist

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

Thank you to everyone who has responded to this. I'm quite inexperienced with all of this as I've only started exploring my kinks the past couple of years, but everything you have all told me has helped!

P.s if you ever do want someone to work for you in any way for free, I'm more than happy due to being in lockdown for 6 weeks now

 

[MarieElise]

due to being in lockdown for 6 weeks now

When I read this I'm not sure if you mean due to Covid, or if you're one of those dudes I see in pornos, who's wearing a dog leash and in a cage somewhere (in some hot chick's room).
Hopefully, you mean Covid ... lol.
But I mean whatever floats people's boats...

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

When I read this I'm not sure if you mean due to Covid, or if you're one of those dudes I see in pornos, who's wearing a dog leash and in a cage somewhere in some hot chick's room.
Hopefully, you mean Covid ... lol.
But I mean whatever floats people's boats...

Hahahahaha no due to covid, definitely not on a dog leash, yet...

 

[GoddessV]

It might not help that where I am in Australia is a little bit more rural in a sense like a couple of hours from Sydney which is a place where a couple of kink establishments exist

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Here's a little light reading for you. In America, most submissives are many hours or even a full day's drive (or more!) from the nearest dungeon and Domme.

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

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Here's a little light reading for you. In America, most submissives are many hours or even a full day's drive (or more!) from the nearest dungeon and Domme.

Thank you! Will definitely be looking into these ☺

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I never knew you had to sign a release for something like that, thanks for letting me know for future reference! But money isn't really a big factor for me, more the experience I guess? Lol

if you want to star in adult content you need to have the front and back of your ID photographed, and typically a 2257 statement. This is a US federal law but because most sites that we upload to have to be in compliance with USA child pornography laws, even if you're outside of the US this is usually required. Also a model release - this gives the producer the rights over the content copyright to sell/distribute it. Typically you'll have your picture taken holding your ID - and in some cases also the release form next to your face. All of this is required regardless if you're being paid or not.

Regarding the content you had released without your permission - you can get this taken down because you didn't file a release. You may even have further legal recourse than just that.

You definitely do sound young, and inexperienced.. please do a TON of research about the reality of putting your image online in porn. This kind of stuff can ruin family relationships, future careers etc.. no matter how careful you think you're being.

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

if you want to star in adult content you need to have the front and back of your ID photographed, and typically a 2257 statement. This is a US federal law but because most sites that we upload to have to be in compliance with USA child pornography laws, even if you're outside of the US this is usually required. Also a model release - this gives the producer the rights over the content copyright to sell/distribute it. Typically you'll have your picture taken holding your ID - and in some cases also the release form next to your face. All of this is required regardless if you're being paid or not.

Regarding the content you had released without your permission - you can get this taken down because you didn't file a release. You may even have further legal recourse than just that.

You definitely do sound young, and inexperienced.. please do a TON of research about the reality of putting your image online in porn. This kind of stuff can ruin family relationships, future careers etc.. no matter how careful you think you're being.

I do get that, it's something I would love but I feel like this type of stuff, especially the kinks I love, would more than likely ruin any type of family connections and careers like you said.

Maybe I'm just not meant to be someone who does this type of thing

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I do get that, it's something I would love but I feel like this type of stuff, especially the kinks I love, would more than likely ruin any type of family connections and careers like you said.

Maybe I'm just not meant to be someone who does this type of thing

You know there's tons of prodommes in Australia (and NZ.. i know a few.. ) Sydney has a ton.

And I BET many would be open to filming your session for your own private enjoyment. And then its in your control. And driving a couple hours for a mind blowing kink session that's tailored just for you is well worth it IMO.

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

You know there's tons of prodommes in Australia (and NZ.. i know a few.. ) Sydney has a ton.

And I BET many would be open to filming your session for your own private enjoyment. And then its in your control. And driving a couple hours for a mind blowing kink session that's tailored just for you is well worth it IMO.

I have been definitely thinking about it, it's just some dommes are really expensive, and for someone who has never done anything like this, in real life, it's a little steep and daunting. Maybe I'm just complaining for the sake of it but some prices seem way to much for me

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I have been definitely thinking about it, it's just some dommes are really expensive, and for someone who has never done anything like this, in real life, it's a little steep and daunting. Maybe I'm just complaining for the sake of it but some prices seem way to much for me

That's fair, they're not too expensive- it's a luxury service, but it might be out of your budget for sure.

In that case I think your best bet is just to get yourself into the scene. If you're rural that might mean driving. It's one of those things... if you want something badly enough it's gonna take effort, or money.

Or you totally might decide this is all too much for u and you wanna just keep exploring online which is a totally fair option.

 

[SecretSissyJonathan]

That's fair, they're not too expensive- it's a luxury service, but it might be out of your budget for sure.

In that case I think your best bet is just to get yourself into the scene. If you're rural that might mean driving. It's one of those things... if you want something badly enough it's gonna take effort, or money.

Or you totally might decide this is all too much for u and you wanna just keep exploring online which is a totally fair option.

Yeah it's definitely something I have to save up for to truly experience I guess but I do truly want to explore it, as much fun as clips and interacting with models online is, I feel that a new experience in person would be kind of a once in a lifetime thing, and is something I have wanted ever since I started interacting more with fetish models.

 

[GothHostess]

That's fair, they're not too expensive- it's a luxury service, but it might be out of your budget for sure.

In that case I think your best bet is just to get yourself into the scene. If you're rural that might mean driving. It's one of those things... if you want something badly enough it's gonna take effort, or money.

Or you totally might decide this is all too much for u and you wanna just keep exploring online which is a totally fair option.

I think getting into the scene would be best too!! Look into "munches" on FetLife in the closest towns to you. They're basically just meet ups at a bar, very chill, no pressure. It's a really good introduction for newbies.