First Coffee Meet...

[JessaBella]

Its been over 7months since my husband passed. I started talking to some people online, I made my first coffee meet with a potential date. I haven't done this, or date other than my late husband in almost 9 years! How do you date again? I am so nervous!

 

[MissAliss515x]

You just go with it and be yourself. It's going to be hard and I found out that I went home after dating missing my ex-husband. Let yourself live the experience and meet other guys. Find something you are looking for (or not lol!) . I found that dating different guys made me realised what I wanted. I dated 6-7 guys since I left my ex-husband and didn't feel any real chemistry with them. I made sure to be clear about my intentions also. If it doesnt work right away, tell them as soon as possible, even if you feel bad about it.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[JessaBella]

So he just talked about himself and couldn't fathom that someone doesn't like going to the bar or club, and hasn't gone in 9 yrs.

so I just told him I had no interest in going any further...

 

[MissAliss515x]

Now you know why he's single