Fan club on CB: At which point do free PMs get annoying for models?

[Vixxen81]

Yes, tbh the times I've gotten excited and thought I've achieved that understanding and maybe gained a true, new friend. They inevitably end up sending me an unpaid dick pic, in the middle of a serious conversation, about nothing whatsoever related to sex or masturbation It never seems to last. You're right, they generally are the worst.

Indeed. Everything is fine and dandy until they decide to go rogue and try to slip something like that in.

I do recommend not opening any images or video right now. There seems to be something wrong with the AI and it's throwing bans left and right on people and that seems to be the origin. Silence or ban anyone who immediately PM you. They are paying for a supporter account, they will not pay you.

 

[MarieElise]

Silence or ban anyone who immediately PM you. They are paying for a supporter account, they will not pay you.

Appreciate, and will do. Thanks. That was rampant on SC too, it was insane!

 

[Vixxen81]

Quick update to this:

So there was this guy that came in with a really silly user name about a month ago, we chatted a bit. He tipped a bit. Then he changed his user name and gave me some sob story about why or whatever. Cool, people change their names all the time, or have multiple paid accounts. He just came back tonight. So we're chatting, he's tipping and I bring up what's going before SCOTUS this summer and here's how this went...

HIM: Oops, didn't mean to activate the vibe. Just here for chat.
ME: Chat tax is [x] tokens. [he tips x tokens]
ME: And if you ever want to spoil me, there's a range of tips that don't trigger the vibe.
HIM: OH I am not going to spoil you, you'll take advantage of me.
HIM: I'm not here for smut, I'm just lonely and want attention
ME: Cool, the thing about the smut is it gets eyes on the room and tippers come in. Token sites have that weird dynamic, everyone wants something just a bit different.

POOF that motherfucker disappeared like Puff the Magic Dragon. And he bought more tokens before doing so. This is not uncommon, it's not something you can have FOMO about. My boundaries are what they are, he didn't want to play, he can go take advantage of someone else.

 

[MarieElise]

, he didn't want to play, he can go take advantage of someone else.

Exactly. I'm so wary of these guys that "aren't here for anything sexual".
Maybe it's just my perception, but I always feel like they say it with disdain too (?) Like wtf?

You're better than everyone else cuz you got mothballs up your prostate, cool, ok then ...

Often they just want to bleed you dry of attention and emotional energy, while tipping minimally, before slowly stopping tipping altogether.
Often very cheap, fairly thoughtless MCS men.

There was a member who used to post here, who did that in my room a lot on MFC. We'd have a room full of people who were all on the same page sexually, and we're all kind of having fun. Then that person would arrive and start talking about stuff completely unrelated to anything anyone was talking about, or anything sexual at all. Tipping sure, but their tips were nowhere near the level of tips I was making before they came in cock blocked everyone. It's kinda like; "cool, but timing is everything, and hopefully you have it". Because eventually a lot of us are going to lose patience with that. I know I did. Whether it's an intentional sabotage or not, it's still a sabotage.

Other members got pissed, and told them off before I had a chance to, and then I ended up just blocking them.

 

[Vixxen81]

Exactly. I'm so wary of these guys that "aren't here for anything sexual".
Maybe it's just my perception, but I always feel like they say it with disdain too (?) Like wtf?

You're better than everyone else cuz you got mothballs up your prostate, cool, ok then ...

Often they just want to bleed you dry of attention and emotional energy, while tipping minimally, before slowly stopping tipping altogether.
Often very cheap, fairly thoughtless MCS men.

There was a member who used to post here, who did that in my room a lot on MFC. We'd have a room full of people who were all on the same page sexually, and we're all kind of having fun. Then that person would arrive and start talking about stuff completely unrelated to anything anyone was talking about, or anything sexual at all. Tipping sure, but their tips were nowhere near the level of tips I was making before they came in cock blocked everyone. It's kinda like; "cool, but timing is everything, and hopefully you have it". Because eventually a lot of us are going to lose patience with that. I know I did. Whether it's an intentional sabotage or not, it's still a sabotage.

Other members got pissed, and told them off before I had a chance to, and then I ended up just blocking them.

1000% agree. Sitting on a tuffet doesn't make Ms. Muffet any money for her curds and whey.

 

[Jameswebbscope]

Exactly. I'm so wary of these guys that "aren't here for anything sexual".
Maybe it's just my perception, but I always feel like they say it with disdain too (?) Like wtf?

You're better than everyone else cuz you got mothballs up your prostate, cool, ok then ...

Often they just want to bleed you dry of attention and emotional energy, while tipping minimally, before slowly stopping tipping altogether.
Often very cheap, fairly thoughtless MCS men.

There was a member who used to post here, who did that in my room a lot on MFC. We'd have a room full of people who were all on the same page sexually, and we're all kind of having fun. Then that person would arrive and start talking about stuff completely unrelated to anything anyone was talking about, or anything sexual at all. Tipping sure, but their tips were nowhere near the level of tips I was making before they came in cock blocked everyone. It's kinda like; "cool, but timing is everything, and hopefully you have it". Because eventually a lot of us are going to lose patience with that. I know I did. Whether it's an intentional sabotage or not, it's still a sabotage.

Other members got pissed, and told them off before I had a chance to, and then I ended up just blocking them.

Wow i read this and immediately thought of two of my viewers that "aren't here for anything sexual" that totally do the thing where they have bad timing and taste with what they wanna talk about and end up killing the vibe. I have snapped at them both at least once because its so fucking annoying how they do that. Thank you for opening my eyes with your post you are a smart person i can tell

 

[LilyLaughing]

Couple of thoughts here . . .

they want paid interactions only, because they are taking a deep dive within their psyche

1. I always want paid interactions only, but will chat with regular pvt buyers a little / big tippers or spenders quite a bit, enjoy a bit of free chat but never so much that it makes me cranky. (For example, telling me you orgasmed to our chat but didn't go private or tip me is a quick way to be kicked out of My room after I say my feelings are hurt for the lack of exchange. That is OBNOXIOUS viewer behavior.)

2. As an artist and writer, I often take 'deep dives into my psyche' but find that incompatible with camming, so I try to take a break if I'm feeling deep-divey. It's an introspective vs. extraverted mindset idk?

3. Love your new profile pic/big fan of red and totally jealous of your perfect brows.