Do you believe their are kinks/fetishes worth shaming?

[Guy]

Did some digging. Apparently, there's not a law about eating live fish in the US (there are in some other countries), but state/local law enforcement can charge someone with animal cruelty as they deem worthy. Porn girls eating live pet fish in red states should probs watch themselves. All they need is someone trying to get the sheriff position looking for a headline. Boom. You're the gross MF who eats live animals for money all over your small town and not just on the internet.

A conservative federal prosecutor could charge a model with obscenity for it if he believes it meets the standards of the miller test. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miller_test

 

[BiancaBaker]

Did some digging. Apparently, there's not a law about eating live fish in the US (there are in some other countries), but state/local law enforcement can charge someone with animal cruelty as they deem worthy. Porn girls eating live pet fish in red states should probs watch themselves. All they need is someone trying to get the sheriff position looking for a headline. Boom. You're the gross MF who eats live animals for money all over your small town and not just on the internet.

Thank you for putting the time on finding out, I was to mad to even think to find out why- I just was so furious when they told me goldfish weren't animals I saw red lol.

This honestly should be illegal because you are torturing an animal.. Whether it's a freaking goldfish or NOT. Period.

I'm obviously a huge animal activist.. but come on.

 

[CharlieCharma]

ALSO c4s told me goldfish were not animals (FML I KNOW) and that since they are not considered animals girls are allowed to swallow them. - Now I do NOT kink shame but I am a huge animal activist and this is torture Imo - AND yes gold fish are fucking animals. They breath, they swim, the procreate-- they ARE an animal.
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Ehhh.. if you're swallowing live animals(even goldfish), I'm going to kink shame. It kinda goes with the whole "I won't kink shame as long as the kinks you are acting out are between consenting adults and not involving anyone who isn't consenting." Poor little guy can't consent to being swallowed alive.

Edit: I'm not saying imagining is bad, but the action. I guess, I'm shaming kinks if they're implemented and involve those who cannot consent, not just having that kink.

 

[vexirain]

Do the lines get blurry when we start talking about stories, art, animation, etc etc? I don't watch porn with live people but I watch like....a lot of hentai and SFM stuff, and there's lots of weird things that are hot but I wouldn't necessarily want IRL. How real women get treated in porn makes me uncomfortable, but I regularly get off while watching rapey and bestiality stuff. But maybe I'm just desensitized from 4chan :I

TL;DR I'm in no position to throw stones

 

[SaffronBurke]

Do the lines get blurry when we start talking about stories, art, animation, etc etc? I don't watch porn with live people but I watch like....a lot of hentai and SFM stuff, and there's lots of weird things that are hot but I wouldn't necessarily want IRL. How real women get treated in porn makes me uncomfortable, but I regularly get off while watching rapey and bestiality stuff. But maybe I'm just desensitized from 4chan :I

TL;DR I'm in no position to throw stones

The thing with hentai is that it's clearly make-believe and nobody is actually being raped by a tentacle monster. The artist chose to draw it, and the voice actress agreed to voice the scene, so what participants there are, have consented to the scene.

 

[CharlieCharma]

Do the lines get blurry when we start talking about stories, art, animation, etc etc? I don't watch porn with live people but I watch like....a lot of hentai and SFM stuff, and there's lots of weird things that are hot but I wouldn't necessarily want IRL. How real women get treated in porn makes me uncomfortable, but I regularly get off while watching rapey and bestiality stuff. But maybe I'm just desensitized from 4chan :I

TL;DR I'm in no position to throw stones

Ehhh. I'm a little shaky on that.

So I understand that pedophilia is a mental disorder that most people who have never act on. The thing is, I read a study somewhere that the act of watching age play hentai, having little girl dolls, etc actually encourage that behavior. Like a stepping stone. Kind of like murders and killing innocent animals long before a human. So, while I'm not quite shaming, I don't think I believe that should be allowed. I'm fine with the tentacle shit and rape play with adults, but when it starts crossing into the ageplay that is too realistically portrayed I start getting rather uncomfortable.

I wish I had the study on me, but I don't. If I'm wrong or just remembering things incorrectly, feel free to correct me.

 

[alexa_voltage]

I was browsing through c4s twitter updates last night and found a video of someone smashing live cradads and crabs. It was sad and of course that was one of her highest sellers made me really sad. They were trying really hard to get her to stop and trying to protect themselves with their little pinchers. It made me cry and not many things make me cry. This kink is definitely worth shaming. I would rather watch scat than live animals being smashed.

 

[vexirain]

Ehhh. I'm a little shaky on that.

So I understand that pedophilia is a mental disorder that most people who have never act on. The thing is, I read a study somewhere that the act of watching age play hentai, having little girl dolls, etc actually encourage that behavior. Like a stepping stone. Kind of like murders and killing innocent animals long before a human. So, while I'm not quite shaming, I don't think I believe that should be allowed. I'm fine with the tentacle shit and rape play with adults, but when it starts crossing into the ageplay that is too realistically portrayed I start getting rather uncomfortable.

I wish I had the study on me, but I don't. If I'm wrong or just remembering things incorrectly, feel free to correct me.

Oh yeah, the loli stuff is iffy and I don't watch it. I imagine it's better for someone with pedophilia to be in therapy to because they have potential to harm someone.

 

[Omne35]

The only thing that really pisses me off is crushing living things. I don't know if it can be called kink shaming but if someone was stomping on a gerbil or kitten while I was present I'd bounce them off a wall.

 

[JickyJuly]

Just a heads up. Using pedophile stats to estimate a threat to children doesn't really work. My aunt was a special investigator for sexual crimes against children. Somewhere around 20% of child sex crimes involve pedophiles. The rest are just crimes of opportunity. Most molesters aren't actually pedophiles.

 

[zippypinhead]

Just a heads up. Using pedophile stats to estimate a threat to children doesn't really work. My aunt was a special investigator for sexual crimes against children. Somewhere around 20% of child sex crimes involve pedophiles. The rest are just crimes of opportunity. Most molesters aren't actually pedophiles.

This is the problem I have with our culture's apparent need to create boogeymen out of sexual abnormality. This sort of othering seems to slake our need for salacious fantasy, while still having an amorphous shadowy subculture of evildoers to pin all our fears on. Meanwhile, all it really seems to do is whip people into a frenzy, draw attention away from the real issues behind victimization, and divert conversations away from constructive solutions.

It wasn't too long ago that the word that described monsters lurking in the shadows, preying upon children was "homosexual". The scenarios haven't changed, either. Only the word to describe opportunistic predators in a way that demonizes sexual abnormalities has changed.

 

[Neorulez]

I never shame anyone with their fetishes. I mean if it is your thing go ahead and do you. If I am ucomfortable with whatever fetishes that person may have I will politely tell them I am not interested and go my own way. If i am comfortable i will do it for them.