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Something I've been pondering. Do you ladies feel awkward knowing that some of your viewers are old enough to be fathers and grandfathers? On the flipside, is it weird that 18-20 year olds are watching you?
 
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It's weird when some guest comes in and is like, "hi im 12"

Other than that, nope. Dgaf.

Does it bother those 50+ men that the models they are watching could be young enough to be their daughters?
 
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Not at all.

I really don't care who watches me at all. Personally, I've always had a thing for older guys anyway and I honestly expect the majority of guys in my room to be at least 10 years older than me, but I've had plenty of regulars who are 50+ and it's never even crossed my mind to think anything of it.

Also, I find that members my own age are more inclined to think that I will actually date them whether because they feel like because they are my age, that we have more in common or maybe they haven't realized yet that it isn't how it works. Granted, a lot of older men also seem to think that there can be "something" one day, I find that the guys who are like, "Hey, bb, I'm 20." are more forward about trying to get my number, meet me, or even get free stuff because if I see a picture of their dick, that automatically means I find them sexy and am going to want to meet them IRL.

I don't know if other girls feel the same way as me, but I don't really care to hear guys are my own age. Members ages are irrelevant to me, so it's not going to impress me that they are my age.
 
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BluexDakota said:
Not at all.

I really don't care who watches me at all. Personally, I've always had a thing for older guys anyway and I honestly expect the majority of guys in my room to be at least 10 years older than me, but I've had plenty of regulars who are 50+ and it's never even crossed my mind to think anything of it.

Also, I find that members my own age are more inclined to think that I will actually date them whether because they feel like because they are my age, that we have more in common or maybe they haven't realized yet that it isn't how it works. Granted, a lot of older men also seem to think that there can be "something" one day, I find that the guys who are like, "Hey, bb, I'm 20." are more forward about trying to get my number, meet me, or even get free stuff because if I see a picture of their dick, that automatically means I find them sexy and am going to want to meet them IRL.

I don't know if other girls feel the same way as me, but I don't really care to hear guys are my own age. Members ages are irrelevant to me, so it's not going to impress me that they are my age.

I feel the same way. I'm not excited when guys are my age because more often than not, those are the guys who think they are such hot shit that they can use dick pics as currency. I'm not looking for a date on MFC so I have no reason to take age into account! I have some regulars who are 50+ and I've never given their age any thought. Being nice and respectful goes a lot further with me than any other characteristics.

I do think it's weird and rude when someone younger than me comes in and calls me a cougar or a milf. I'm 23, I'm not that old yet and I def don't have kids!
 
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Evvie said:
It's weird when some guest comes in and is like, "hi im 12"

Other than that, nope. Dgaf.

Does it bother those 50+ men that the models they are watching could be young enough to be their daughters?
Pretty much this. Age only bothers me when it's 1) someone underage or 2) someone blatantly trying to roleplay as a child. Otherwise, I couldn't give a rat's ass most of the time. :twocents-02cents:
 
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blackxrose said:
Evvie said:
It's weird when some guest comes in and is like, "hi im 12"

Other than that, nope. Dgaf.

Does it bother those 50+ men that the models they are watching could be young enough to be their daughters?
Pretty much this. Age only bothers me when it's 1) someone underage or 2) someone blatantly trying to roleplay as a child. Otherwise, I couldn't give a rat's ass most of the time. :twocents-02cents:

You mean... you will withhold ass of rat? Where shall we get ingredients for our unguents now? :shock:
 
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Evvie said:
blackxrose said:
Evvie said:
It's weird when some guest comes in and is like, "hi im 12"

Other than that, nope. Dgaf.

Does it bother those 50+ men that the models they are watching could be young enough to be their daughters?
Pretty much this. Age only bothers me when it's 1) someone underage or 2) someone blatantly trying to roleplay as a child. Otherwise, I couldn't give a rat's ass most of the time. :twocents-02cents:

You mean... you will withhold ass of rat? Where shall we get ingredients for our unguents now? :shock:
Don't tell anyone! My secret is out :shock:
 
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Jupiter551 said:
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No guarantees here actually. Once you tip I keep it all bb! :lol: Bad rat, no rat or dead rat, no refunds!
 
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No bother. As long as everyone is contenting adults I do see why it would be weird. Since when does turning 50 mean you no longer find a naked beautiful woman attractive or interesting? That seems like a sign of a healthy man to me.
 
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I love older men!

I prefer them. The younger ones can often be the ones that think they are hot shit, that I should give them more because they are younger.. and often they are less likely to be big spenders cos well..they're young. Working. saving. in school. Doing young people things.

Obviously not all older men = loads of tokens or smarter etc. Nor all younger men dumbasses or poor.. but generally speaking ...

and of course my personal attraction to men over 40 might have something to do with it.
 
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Its honestly never even crossed my mind about the age of members on MFC, I mean you can clearly see how old the models are but, Unless I am speaking out of turn I can't see how it matters for most models
 
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sweetiebatman said:
Its honestly never even crossed my mind about the age of members on MFC, I mean you can clearly see how old the models are but, Unless I am speaking out of turn I can't see how it matters for most models

You trust us too much, young padawan. Models lie about their age all the time. When you join some sites, it says, "What is the age that best represents you? (Note: Does not have to be your actual age)"
 
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:lol:

I mean you can see "roughly" the age of a model, although using the model explorer and putting them in age order leads me to believe some streach thr truth further than others :whistle:
 
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I don't mind.
Often, the older members are a) much more respectful, b) much less demanding, and c) more generous than the average college kid. Or the average 30 year old, for that matter. And I really appreciate that! They don't use weird abbreviations that I don't understand, they know how to form a sentence. I'm not talking about all of them of course, but most ;)
I just can't imagine a man that's over 50 sitting in front of his PC and typing "tits bb mmm" into his keyboard...

In real life, it's a completely different thing. It gives me the creeps when someone that's 60+ looks me up and down on the street. Especially when he's walking with his wife. Or grandkids. This has happened before. >_<

But on MFC, I usually appreciate men that are a little older. They could be my father, but they aren't ;) So yeah, as long as they behave in my room and are over 18, I'm fine with every age.
 
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I am only 32, but when models keep going on about being 18 or 19 and having a young twat or whatever, I get uncomfortable and go to another room. Maturity is a beautiful and sexy thing to me.
 
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Shaun__ said:
I am only 32, but when models keep going on about being 18 or 19 and having a young twat or whatever, I get uncomfortable and go to another room. Maturity is a beautiful and sexy thing to me.

Yeah, for most older folks we really are just kids. A few years ago I really didn't understand why a guy would be interested in a 40 year old woman over a 20 year old woman, but really... being 20 is so close to being 15 that it freaks me out sometimes. An 18, 19, 20, or even 22 or 23 year old woman is still extremely young and very close to their childhood and teenage years.

I'm not the one who has issues with older men, but I am often surprised older men feel comfortable watching girls so young.

(Yes, I know that's totally a thing, let us not let this devolve in to a yuckier conversation)
 
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Evvie said:
Shaun__ said:
I am only 32, but when models keep going on about being 18 or 19 and having a young twat or whatever, I get uncomfortable and go to another room. Maturity is a beautiful and sexy thing to me.

Yeah, for most older folks we really are just kids. A few years ago I really didn't understand why a guy would be interested in a 40 year old woman over a 20 year old woman, but really... being 20 is so close to being 15 that it freaks me out sometimes. An 18, 19, 20, or even 22 or 23 year old woman is still extremely young and very close to their childhood and teenage years.

I'm not the one who has issues with older men, but I am often surprised older men feel comfortable watching girls so young.

(Yes, I know that's totally a thing, let us not let this devolve in to a yuckier conversation)
Well, as someone who's 37 I've found personally I don't feel "inside" much different than when I was 20, so it's not as though we turn into some different species - or that our sexual desires move along with us so that we constantly want someone our own age for that matter.

My ex, who is only barely 30 herself, used to give me shit all the time about liking "younger women" because I'd previously dated 20-22 year olds mostly before I met her but fuck - adult is adult, no one accuses middle aged women who like looking at the twilight actors of being pedos lol.
 
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It seems to be the same twisted logic in which folks actually believe that unattractive people should not, or have no right to be attracted to attractive people. lol I plan to continue being attracted to beauty when I'm 100...if I make it that long. lol
 
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This is the type of question/assumption that often follows my refusal to watch somebody's webcam in public chat for free. 'It's ok, bb, I'm young and very attractive!' :roll:

Or, 'I'm not like all the other guys on here! I'm young and gorgeous and can get laid irl!' :think:

These thoughts usually come from the fingers of insecure, needy and arrogant babies.

Having a passion for life, a Fluffy sense of humour, a splash of common sense and a heap of respect for your fellow man is a lot more appealing to me than if you are a 6ft blonde, blue eyed love god. Yaaawn.

It really does not matter to me how old you are or what you look like to get off on the internet together. If you have a missing leg, right testicle, left eye or merely possess two inches of screaming terror...If you like my style, and enjoy me enjoy myself, then you are my kind of guy. :thumbleft:

In my real life, conventional 'handsomeness' has never been a prerequisite of me finding a person attractive and wanting to have sex with them. I have had sex with men and women of various ages, sizes, colours and looks. Oh, and LARGE PENIS does not automatically equal GOOD SEX either! Not one of my past sexual partners have been the same in looks, personality, career, hobbies or annual income. I thrive on instinctive, chemistry driven sexual attraction. It's just there, whether or not he/she is 25 or 55. The most fun and enjoyable sex I have had has been with men 35 and beyond. The oldest man I have been with was in his late forties; and I haven't been with a guy in his twenties since I was a teenager, not that I never would again...I do operate on an equal opportunities basis :lol:

Oh, and this post does not mean everyone can have a shot, either!
:twocents-02cents:
 
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Miss_Lollipop said:
I love older men!

I prefer them. The younger ones can often be the ones that think they are hot shit, that I should give them more because they are younger.. and often they are less likely to be big spenders cos well..they're young. Working. saving. in school. Doing young people things.

Obviously not all older men = loads of tokens or smarter etc. Nor all younger men dumbasses or poor.. but generally speaking ...

and of course my personal attraction to men over 40 might have something to do with it.
Sooooooo totally feel the same as u on EVERYTHING u just said.
Yeah, and what is up with those younger guys who say, "turn on my cam, I'm young & hot bb"??? Like just because they are younger, with a little bit of muscle, they are entitled to something for free??? Excuse me, but just like that doesn't impress the lady's at the strip clubs, it's not going to impress me either.
Beauty is all in the eye of the beholder anyhow. My definition of what I find attractive is usually waaaay different then what most people consider attractive.
And I'm with ya on the attraction to men over 40 Lolli. My man is 44 himself.
 
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I feel pretty much how all the other girls feel on this. I think the way a member handles themselves in your room is what makes us comfortable or uncomfortable not so much age, race, or gender. One of my long time regs is 78, he is always nice and respectful, I have turned his webcam on and had a few drinks with him before and even joked about meeting up with his granddaughter who is around my age. I can only hope Im still perving and rubbing one out at 78.
 
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KarmelKiss said:
Oh, and this post does not mean everyone can have a shot, either!
:twocents-02cents:
Sounds like that's exactly what it means Fluffy
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Jupiter551 said:
KarmelKiss said:
Oh, and this post does not mean everyone can have a shot, either!
:twocents-02cents:
Sounds like that's exactly what it means Fluffy
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Oh Em Gee Jup! I seriously was going to add this to that sentence..', Jupiter'

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ElaySmith said:
I feel pretty much how all the other girls feel on this. I think the way a member handles themselves in your room is what makes us comfortable or uncomfortable not so much age, race, or gender. One of my long time regs is 78, he is always nice and respectful, I have turned his webcam on and had a few drinks with him before and even joked about meeting up with his granddaughter who is around my age. I can only hope Im still perving and rubbing one out at 78.

I feel the same way as this. Sometimes I do get uncomfortable when someone in my room says their just 18, or even 19. but that's just b/c I am super paranoid that their lying & really a minor. But honestly- anyone in my room could be a minor. Even that person claiming to be 50 or whatever. I'm definitely working on not getting so paranoid about the younger crowd & just making decisions about them based on their actions. :)
 
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The last three guys I dated were all 30+, so at least about 10 years older than me. My sisters are much older than me, so I got used to there being an age gap with the people I spend time with. It doesn't bother me one bit, and I've noticed that the men in my dating history tend to get more concerned about it than I do.

My first day on cam, though, someone came into my room and was talking about being 16. >.< Not cool. It can weird me out a little when they're barely legal, but I mostly don't think about it and just focus on what's going on. Whatever (legal) age they are, they can be a perfectly good person to have in my room.
 
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What's amusing for me is that I am sort of in that 50+ group myself but the men my age are too busy with the nice young stuff, and I get stuck with the 19 year olds who want to blurt out "MUMMY!!!" at the end of their show ;)
 
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Scott237 said:
Do you ladies feel awkward knowing that some of your viewers are old enough to be fathers and grandfathers? On the flipside, is it weird that 18-20 year olds are watching you?



Nope, I think it's cool to have a variety of ages, as long as they're 18 or older. :)

I feel like the older guys often have better taste in music and won't complain when I put on some Earth, Wind, & Fire or Stevie Wonder. :cool:
 
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The only time it bothers me, is when their sense of humor doesn't jive with mine. I've run into some oldies who just don't get my sarcasm and young-ish language that I use. This is also moreso a problem when English isn't their first language, though.
 
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I've never thought it was odd that older men whether in their 30's or well over 50+ find young girls (18 - early 20's) attractive.

I know when I'm 50, I'm not going to suddenly stop thinking that attractive 25-year-old guys I see are hot. I'm sure I'll still fantasize about them (or even girls for that matter!). With guys, I may or may not still find them attractive at 18 depending on their body type since a lot of guys haven't filled out completely yet, but girls... I probably will still be attracted to 18-year-old girls very much.

Just sayin'.
 
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