Did I overreact?

[goddesskaterina]

Hello, everyone!

To be honest, I don't even know why I'm writing these lines because I find the whole situation absurd and embarrassing, but I'll do it anyway.

For the context I'm a camgirl for 10 years and I've been working on CB for 5, mainly as a Dominatrix (sometimes as a vanilla model, it depends on my mood) and today I had the displeasure of meeting a guy who tried to violate my boundaries somewhat.

So long story short, he came up with a kind of "hidden request" like he is a slave who really likes my teasing but he feels "safe" that there is no chance my nipples will be seen (this being his weakness I guess) and he made me understand that if he would accidentally saw a nipple in my teasing, he would instantly go into private.

I then told him "nice try but I won't show you any nipple based on a promise of a private chat later", then I redirected him to my tip menu where he could pay for a boobs flash. At which point he felt somewhat offended and he started telling me in notes of 10 tokens each how he thinks it's too basic to pay for a request and receiving it and that he wanted to test my mind and my playfulness somewhat.

At which point I replied him that he can't fool me and I asked him to stop insisting, making nasty jokes about how he thinks I've been on this site since yesterday and I don't realize a scam attempt.

Then he started telling me that he has a famous saying where he is from, namely that a thief calls thieves and that it's pathetic that I don't believe him, so he has no reason to stay in my room because I don't stand up to his level of intellect or something.

And now I want to ask you: what would you have done in this situation? Do you think I made a mistake and missed an opportunity to be private with this member? Do you think I overreacted on my part to refuse him and make jokes about him tricking me and not wanting to pay? I'm asking this because sometimes I feel that I exaggerate with this attitude of always being on guard, of not being fooled, of always asking for money for everything according to my tip menu or willingnesses for privates and not being able to make an exception? How do you treat situations like this? Do you, sometimes, make this kind of exception? I have to mention that he was a purple member and that all of the "fight" that we had he argued with me in tip notes of 10 tokens each.

Thank you for your help in advance! xx

 

[SuperPookie]

You had a lot more patience than I would have had with that nonsense. All you missed was a opportunity to do a free boob flash lol.

 

[BrookeRidess]

I agree he was just trying to get free stuff

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I would have asked him to send a big tribute to play this game - and then I will decide IF I want to tease him and never show him my nipples OR or if I will show them and maybe allow him to go private.

Most likely just a time waster - if he didn’t want to tribute to play the game … then too bad

 

[AudriTwo]

what an asshole. he doesn't have money and you hurt his feelings because his little scam for free boob flash didn't work.

 

[Vixxen81]

Guys who refuse to tip for nudity when it's on a menu are driving business away and holding your thumbnail hostage. Instaban the second he started alluding to having any control over me or my content.

 

[Sequential]

I then told him "nice try but I won't show you any nipple based on a promise of a private chat later", then I redirected him to my tip menu where he could pay for a boobs flash. At which point he felt somewhat offended and he started telling me in notes of 10 tokens each how he thinks it's too basic to pay for a request and receiving it and that he wanted to test my mind and my playfulness somewhat.

He knew what he was doing and got butt hurt when called out on it. There are 1000's of these types out there, don't burn mental energy on them.

Seq.

 

[MarieElise]

Hello, everyone!

To be honest, I don't even know why I'm writing these lines because I find the whole situation absurd and embarrassing, but I'll do it anyway.

For the context I'm a camgirl for 10 years and I've been working on CB for 5, mainly as a Dominatrix (sometimes as a vanilla model, it depends on my mood) and today I had the displeasure of meeting a guy who tried to violate my boundaries somewhat.

So long story short, he came up with a kind of "hidden request" like he is a slave who really likes my teasing but he feels "safe" that there is no chance my nipples will be seen (this being his weakness I guess) and he made me understand that if he would accidentally saw a nipple in my teasing, he would instantly go into private.

I then told him "nice try but I won't show you any nipple based on a promise of a private chat later", then I redirected him to my tip menu where he could pay for a boobs flash. At which point he felt somewhat offended and he started telling me in notes of 10 tokens each how he thinks it's too basic to pay for a request and receiving it and that he wanted to test my mind and my playfulness somewhat.

At which point I replied him that he can't fool me and I asked him to stop insisting, making nasty jokes about how he thinks I've been on this site since yesterday and I don't realize a scam attempt.

Then he started telling me that he has a famous saying where he is from, namely that a thief calls thieves and that it's pathetic that I don't believe him, so he has no reason to stay in my room because I don't stand up to his level of intellect or something.

And now I want to ask you: what would you have done in this situation? Do you think I made a mistake and missed an opportunity to be private with this member? Do you think I overreacted on my part to refuse him and make jokes about him tricking me and not wanting to pay? I'm asking this because sometimes I feel that I exaggerate with this attitude of always being on guard, of not being fooled, of always asking for money for everything according to my tip menu or willingnesses for privates and not being able to make an exception? How do you treat situations like this? Do you, sometimes, make this kind of exception? I have to mention that he was a purple member and that all of the "fight" that we had he argued with me in tip notes of 10 tokens each.

Thank you for your help in advance! xx

I would have blocked before you did, so IMO you were very patient with this idiot. However, I think sometimes it's also good just to cut them off, before they get the air time they want, too. This is a more personal profession, where we are doing more intimate things with people. You don't have to deal with or serve anyone you don't want to, and you are allowed to decide if you don't like the vibe, as soon as you want, without having to justify that to anyone.

Too many people think they are entitled to and deserve more attention and time, than they actually do. And I think that assumption is primarily routed in sexism. My 5 cents. They likely wouldn't put a dude through all that shit, and make them jump all those hoops while carrot dangling like a waffling cheese-brained Fuckwad I've honestly, never had one of those carrot dangling Fuckwads, pay off in any kind of real or big way. IMHO they are never worth the time.

 

[sidangelus]

No, I would have blocked him the second he insisted on something I already told him no to. I ban people constantly for being demanding, annoying, boundary pushing, talking too much about their dicks when they haven't tipped me once, etc.

If he wanted take you private he would have.