depression

[CutieAlicia]

well.. i want to tell you my "mfc" story, because i feel i`m going crazy already... and i don`t know what to do anymore..

I`ve started to work on mfc on march 2011. In the first days everything was great, my camscore was going up and i had always had a lot of members/basics/guests in my room. Was great! i`ve started to love this site...after two weeks or so my sister stayed here, in my apartment, and I couldn`t work almost 10 days... After this, i couldn`t wait to go online again and have fun... but nothing was like before... my camscore went down to 850 .. i`ve read on this forum that a lot of girls with low camscores, they could work and do their camscores bigger, and everything is great for them now.. This was a really good thing for me because i`ve started to belive again in this, and started to belive that everything will be fine!

I`ve tried again, i was dancing, smiling, teasing, making jokes with members etc.. but nothing... i was very disappointed... i`ve said i will try again and again and again, till everything will be like before, but tonight when i was online, i didn`t even had guests in my room, what can i say about members?! nope...
I am so disappointed, I don`t really know what else I can do.. I can`t even stay online if i see that after more than one hour is nobody there.. I`m starting to cry, I feel like the most ugly person in this world... I don`t know why I am like this and why all this is affecting me that much.. I`ve never been like this..
I was looking at other models with camscore like mine, and ..I don`t know.. They are something like "Hi bb, wanna play? take me pvt!" and things like that... i`ve never ever did that because i know is not a good thing.. and i`ve always been nice with everybody here.. but .. i don`t know... i`m starting to belive that nobody likes me and things like that.. I know that`s not true because i am not a "monster" lol, but i feel like i am!!

Uhh... :shock: i hope somebody could give me an advice..

PS: Sorry for my english..

 

[bawksy]

You could try becoming an hero.

PS: Sorry for my english..

Vorbeste Romana sau te omor fraiere!

 

[Mikeythegeek]

The key to success on MFC is elusive. There are many girls who look quite beautiful who have poor camscores. And there's some girls who are ugly, in my opinion, and have scores of 5000, 6000, 7000 and up. There is no single answer to the question "how can a model raise their score?" because with so many premiums, there's so many different things everyone looks for.

The best bit of advice I, as a premium, can give you is this: Be confident and be yourself. Being confident will help draw guys in. Being yourself will make life on cam much easier to handle in the long run.

Good luck.

 

[AngelNery]

MFC is a place of frustration for models lately. There are others sites where nudity is not allowed in free, and members still take you private and are respectful. MFC doesn't worth it to be depressed.

 

[SirLes]

You gotta try and keep your chin up and your beautiful smile in place, us members are fickle creatures when it comes to what we believe to be our "girls". I know of other models have risen from the gloom to shine again and am sure you can do so to. Stick to your advertised times, even try switching your times around a bit (a little earlier/later), put some more info on your profile, maybe some private galleries etc., write to the prem. members that were in your room prior to sister visiting explaining your absence and invite them back, set yourself some goals that once achieved will raise your confidence but most importantly and probably the hardest is to maintain a healthy attitude to your work.
Given time and a healthy attitude I'm sure you will see a change in your room and members will return. Just remember, Rome wasn't built in a day.
P.S. If/when I see you on I will call in for a chat, can't promise that I will have tokens though,

 

[Jupiter551]

Yeah you're very pretty (I just looked) so obviously you don't have to feel like a "monster" hahah. I agree with what Les said about writing a short mfc mail to those members (if you remember them).

I know these things are unavoidable sometimes, especially with relatives, but disappearing for stretches of over a week here and there is definitely NOT going to help build up a group of regulars...and I think nor is coming on at random times, but only for a short period then giving up (not that I'm saying you do this, I wouldn't know). Members have schedules of free time just like you do, and if you vary your logon time from day to day at best people are going to be an "occasional regular".

I know it's hard if you're depressed but staying on cam for one hour isn't going to help people find you either...maybe if you're getting bored or there's no one in the room do some chores in front of the cam or I dunno, whatever until someone starts chatting.

I would also say that some models assume there's something wrong with them when in fact...a lot of members at any given time are out of tokens and not in a position to be responsibly buying them, but that doesn't address why no one is even chatting to you etc..

You're clearly not ugly, and you seem to have a nice personality...all I can suggest is just hang in there, if you're doing everything you can then sometimes you just have to be yourself and see how things turn out.

I'm not sure what the deal is with starting new accounts but, if I were you I wouldn't worry too much about camscore, just have fun and do your best and know if it ever gets TOO low you can start a new account at 1000 right?

 

[cheeks]

I really liked being in your room last week. It's refreshing to see a non studio Romanian girl it's more real and makes you more a girl next door which is nice :-D
You were smiling, I remember not many people but there was some interaction. No tips though.
Great music also and you are really good looking so that's not the problem.

Try to interact more with people. But don't make it to easy for the guys. Being to nice leads to hours of chatting and no tips. I've seen this before.
A good idea is to talk. This will give you a personality other than all the girls who chat. It makes you more 'out going' and fun, and people will come back this way, instead of randomly going in a room with a hot girl, and never come back. You stand out from the crowd this way and there's more reason to visit you instead of any other girls that only chat. Not many low cam score girls do this.
Just start with greeting there name (let them say Hi first) and saying thank you for tips. Guys love it.

Also, I don't remember a count down. Never let them guess what will happen for tokens. Especially in the low cam score rooms nobody likes to tip and get nothing in return from, maybe if you are naked.
Don't make it to high in the beginning. Don't be shy about smaller boobs. Boobs are boobs and they end up with more people in your room and more reason to tip because from then you changed from cute to naughty. Also more reason to take you pvt of course.

But yeah it's really hard to show your beauty and personality when nobody is in your room.
I'm usually online at night (8 pm - 2 am UK time) I will definitely visit your room when I see you.

 

[CutieAlicia]

You could try becoming an hero.

PS: Sorry for my english..

Vorbeste Romana sau te omor fraiere!

bawsky ............?!?!?!

 

[CutieAlicia]

Wel... thank you guys for being so nice and "helpful" i will switch my hours and i will try to be more confident .. and edit my profile.
Somebody said earlier something about creating a new profile and starting from 1000 camscore.. i don`t want to do that, that doesnt seems fair because like this every model could delete and make a new account every 2-3 weeks (more or less) and start again from 1000 camscore.. so.. I wont do that..

Thank you so much, guys!!! :hello2: :dance:

 

[cheeks]

I'm pretty sure they can detect this.
premiums with more than 2 accounts get also banned.
But maybe one time. I don't know it's not a bad thing, but your account is still 700.
I see girls with 200 and still being online everyday.

 

[CutieAlicia]

well I will be online everyday from now... i wasn`t online everyday because when i saw that my camscore is going really down, i was afraid (kind of) .. and i said that maybe it`s better to make a short break (1-2 days) and after that maybe it will be better, but.........
Anyways.. :whistle:

 

[tightlockup]

You could try becoming an hero.

ok bawksy, that's just fucked up. save that shit for the losers on /b .

Alicia, don't give up. Hang in there. The first rule of camscore is don't be obsessed with camscore.
Talk to the other models in the models forum, a lot of them have been through what you've been through.

 

[CutieAlicia]

very nice, bawsky, very nice!! :hand:

 

[cheeks]

well I will be online everyday from now... i wasn`t online everyday because when i saw that my camscore is going really down, i was afraid (kind of) .. and i said that maybe it`s better to make a short break (1-2 days) and after that maybe it will be better, but.........
Anyways.. :whistle:

great :dance:

 

[AlexLady]

Wel... thank you guys for being so nice and "helpful" i will switch my hours and i will try to be more confident .. and edit my profile.
Somebody said earlier something about creating a new profile and starting from 1000 camscore.. i don`t want to do that, that doesnt seems fair because like this every model could delete and make a new account every 2-3 weeks (more or less) and start again from 1000 camscore.. so.. I wont do that..

Thank you so much, guys!!! :hello2: :dance:

Don't do this.

1) MFC is sick of this "new account" shit and even if you delete your old account, they might not give you a new one.
2) MFC members who do recognize you will give your new account crap because really, it's not a respectable move.

There are a lot of models who have gone from 500 scores or less, to 5k. You just have to work on it. Be yourself as much as possible, and have as much fun as possible, and you can do it.

Make a schedule and stick to it, even when it's slow. You have to balance your camscore as well as build fans. Fans are what makes your score go up, as well as make it less "work" and more play! If you don't have a schedule, you won't have fans.

To have a 1k camscore, it's been estimated that you need to make 200 tokens an hour. I'm not sure though, this is just what I've heard. It's been a long time since my score was that low (most of my MFC life it's been 2.5k'ish.) However, just because you've made 0 tokens in a half hour doesn't mean log off of your scheduled time. Change what you're doing dramatically at that moment. If you're sitting and chatting, get up and dance. Think of something unique and you.

That'll draw people into the room, and you can work on making friends with them. Sure, of course, if you've "tried" for an hour or so log off so your score doesn't drop - but your score won't -ever- go up while you're offline (unless someone sends you an offline tip, but when you're new, you don't have anyone who'll do that.)

 

[LadyLuna]

Yeah you're very pretty (I just looked) so obviously you don't have to feel like a "monster" hahah. I agree with what Les said about writing a short mfc mail to those members (if you remember them).

Two things to add to this:

1. Your logs from way back then are still there. I still have my chat logs from Nov 2009, so I guarantee that your logs are still there. Go through the token sessions and see which names kept popping up. Those are the guys you want to use the mfc mail with.

2. Keep it polite, not beggy. Not sure I need to tell you this, but it will be useful for anyone else who might read. The guys do not like when you seem desperate for them to come back. Some of them aren't going to want to come back whether you message them or not, some of them have changed their routines. BUT, if even one of your former tippers can come back and start tipping like s/he was, then it's worth it. Shit, from how it sounds from you, you might feel it worth it if they just bring the conversation back.

Other than that, the whole logging off thing... I found that for MFC, my room is dead for an hour or two, then hopping for an hour or so, then dies again and won't revive unless I log off and wait an hour and log back in. Believe me, I've done the whole be on for eight hours at a time, and done the whole log off if I don't get anything for an hour. What works for me most consistently is stay on for four hours no matter what, then log off for a couple hours, then stay on for another two. So, figure out what works for you. Some girls find that if they don't get anything after an hour, logging off for 20 mins is all they need to get the ball rolling. I suggest trying it their way before you try mine.

Good luck ^.^

 

[Adrianna_]

Hey Alicia

I was smiling a lot while reading your post, as I remembered my first 2 MFC months with my camscore between 900 and 1200 and all the questions I had in my head about it. 6 months later now it is 5300 and I ve worked super hard to get it there.
First of all, let me tell you how super cute and beautiful you look. I am sure you have great potential, just need to give it some time and build your own strategy. You should decide for yourself what kind of model you want to be and stick to it at least at the beguining (later you will need to offer different things, but it's another game, too soon for it). Will you do public shows and how hard/soft they would be? Will you be a non nude model? Will you do only pvt/grp shows? After you decide, you can give it a try, but don't rush to write rules on your profile, till you see what is working for you and what the guys like in your room.
If you decide to do public shows (this is the only case I can give advise on from my own experiance), you will have to show the guys what you are able to do. Sounds hard, but members are paying for entertainment and they want to see what you can do to make them happy. Setting a topic for 2000 tokens before you get at least 50 ppl in your room (20 of them premiums AND fans) and just sit and wait will not get you anywere. Better start something for free and say tips will keep it going, this way members will bring others from the lounge and your room will get more traffic. Once tips stop and show ends, better log off, as you know camscore is based on the ratio between tokens earned/time online.
If you decide to be a non nude model, or model not showing anything in public chat, than I have no idea how to do this, but can tell that you have a very innocent look and this can be a good strategy for you may be.
Good luck and don't give up, beautiful girl

 

[ScarlettLeigh]

I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. My score was really low at one point too but I decided instead of pouting over it and being sad I would just go on, be myself and have fun. I ignored my camscore and mainly tried to focus my time on how to be a great host to people in my room. Don't forget that Twitter can be a great way to get attention and I think the models only section might be more what you're looking for. Good luck!