Considering going to an escort

[sahi]

For a long time now I've struck out when it comes down to the ladies. And so for a while I've been considering going to see an escort. But some things have made me unsure in the past & some make me unsure now. And so I wanted to get the opinion of the forum. Maybe some have used escorts & wouldn't mind sharing their experince. Or maybe some might just have good knowledge of the business & could offer some good advice.

Anyway in the past my main concern was if I did this it might be like taking the easy way out, instead of continuing to plug away & trying to hook up with the opposite sex or finding someone to start a relationship with. I'm by no means trying to insult people of that profession by saying 'taking the easy way out'. I just meant I felt like if I did that it might mean like I was giving in, sorta like if you're stuck in a video game & decide to use cheats. But more recentley I've been thinking about it from a different angle. I've been thinking it might be a positive thing to do, in the sense that because I haven't had much experince with women it might give me some confidence & I might gain some much needed experience in the sack. So when it comes down to hooking up with a woman I've met online, at a bar or whatever I don't mess things up in the bedroom. And so if I decide I'm definately going for it the other stuff I'm unsure of are what site do I use? What are the red flags that I should look out for when booking someone? For e.g. is using a classifieds site a good place? For anyone on this forum from the UK I saw some advertised on a UK classifieds site called vivastreet. FYI I'm also looking on adultwork. And if the escort lists more than one location is that a sign they might not be independant? Because I'm thinking if they aren't then they might be taken advantage of by an agency or pimps.

So yeah, those were & are my concerns. Would be great to hear back from people with their thoughts on this.

 

[Lelo1]

I wonder if even talking about escorts on a website can get a website in trouble due to FOSTA/SESTA.

Honestly, I don't think people care if the other person is a virgin. Heck some people might like that your a virgin. What most people do care about is if your don't get them off. Really doesn't matter who comes first, just long as you do enough to get them off.

 

[Mila_]

Go for it.. not only will you gain experience but it will take the edge off... girls can smell a desperate dude and it’s off putting. If you are sliding it in regularly then you won’t feel like your date holds the key to your peen’s satisfaction and you can actually relax which will make you more popular with the ladies

 

[Deleted member 37064]

Only advice I can give:

1) Use protection
2) Use protection
3) If it isn’t legal, reconsider or accept the risk of legal problems
4) Use protection
5) Use protection

 

[Ava Nicole]

I think you should! Can’t help you on where to find a lady but to take that pressure off and get some experience will surely be welcome! I don’t think there’s any shame in seeking out a sex worker, you pretty much can tailor your experience to what you want (as long as you communicate well and are respectful to your potential provider). I’d suggest talking to a couple different ones (but don’t waste their time!) to try to get a feel for them. You will surely find someone who is sensitive to the fact you’re inexperienced and anxious about it and who will be able to put you at ease.

 

[sahi]

Just wanna make a couple things clear. Not that there's any shame in it or anything wrong with it but just wanted to say that I'm not a virgin. I've had sex a few times, but it didn't go well, hence one of the reasons for considering going to an escort. Just wanted to state that fact because I'm a stickler for people having accurate info on me, lol. And because it might affect the type of answer people give. Also I wanted to mention that of course I don't think there's any shame in going to an escort. I have the utmost respect for people who work in the sex industry.

 

[thejman_194]

I for one have never gone to an escort. But have thought about it. I think having new experiences are a great and that you should always try new things once in your life as long as they do not hurt or kill you. Just be sure you use protection. Also make sure you talk with the escort and see what they are ok with doing. Now I don't know this for fact but I am assuming that just like the cam models on MFC there are things some escorts will do and some others will not do. But also don't forget there is also the art of mastirbation to get those urges out that you may need. I know it is not the same though. Take care and best to you.

 

[ForumPoster]

Definitely are better avenues to find someone, even someone for sexual fun and experience. Use an app on your phone, are tons out there. Though I am sure you could watch enough stuff online to get you more than up to speed. Learn an instrument or something that takes your mind off and focus on making yourself more interesting which helps with the ladies in the end.

Also agree with the masturbation, it never gets old lol