The_Brown_Fox said:
You're right...it's not okay. And neither is it okay for someone to come into my room and say "I hope you get raped by that White dick that you worship so much." Sure, you could argue that "two wrongs don't make a right" and tell me to "just ignore it, Fox," but if someone is attacking me like that, the last thing on my mind is what's "right." So you'll have to excuse me if I don't turn the other cheek, and launch into combat mode instead.
And it happens on cam sites (and sometimes forum threads) too...specifically when a model has a troll in her room making nasty comments. Attack her for no reason and piss her off, then you'd better be prepared for shit to get ugly prior to the banhammer.
People should just use common sense and better judgement before opening their mouths. It sure would make life a bit easier, I think.
Okay... am I the only one drawing parallels between how you say you'll treat a troll giving you shit in your room and how he treated the heckler at his show? I in no way mean to say that anyone should feel his comments are justified. I am merely saying it seems like a lot of you ladies should be able to relate.
He was on stage doing his thing for his comedy show and someone is being a real tool. This person is interrupting the flow of his show. This isn't the first time someone's acted like this and it won't be the last and he was tired of it.
You're doing your thing for your cam show and some guy is being a real tool. He's interrupting the flow of your show and the chat. This isn't the first time someone's acted like this and it won't be the last and you are tired of it.
How many of you NEVER go off on the guy before you lay down the ban hammer? What if you didn't have a ban hammer? I think more than half of us may snap and say something mean. Some may say something in extremely poor taste like he did. Crucifying him makes most of these people hypocrites in my opinion.
sweetiebatman said:
I'd love to see you move on from people in the street calling your disabled brother a "spastic" driving your mother to an early grave
Not so subtle when you and your family have been dealing with it for the best part of 26 years. There is NO subtle difference there is clearly a massive difference
I'll admit that's a tragedy. As for the rest of your post... so much I want to say and all of it will just make you more angry so let me just say this instead. I've had a decent share of tragedy in my family. I don't feel the need to get into details so if you'd be so good just trust me on that. I think I deal with it pretty well. I'm very sorry you won't "get to see" me move on from some sort of tragedy since it seems you would enjoy that thoroughly.
A final thought: I'm one of those premiums who actually has a profile. Under "Meaning of Life" I put the following. "To enjoy every moment you can and make the best of the moments you cannot." Tragedies such as what you describe are not moments you can enjoy. My idea of making the best of situations like yours would have me more focused on educating people of their ignorance. It's pretty easy for me to do because I am so emotionally reserved. Some people find that wooden planks have more personality than I do because of that but it also allows me to try and figure things out before I go with my knee jerk reaction. You went with the knee jerk and wound up freaking out over a misunderstanding of terminology (which you have sense apologized to Frankie for) and before you had a chance to come back with that, I posted the first song the word Spastic brought to my mind because that's how my brain functions. You're still freaking out after gaining the knowledge that it was a misunderstanding.
tl;dr - If you're trying to make me feel bad or get an admission of guilt, good luck. I concede only that your family's situation regarding your brother was and continues to be a tragedy.
