Camgirls, porn and guys -- any opinions, workable attitudes?

[gloriaden]

I guess this is about relationships, camgirls, porn and guys.

I was wondering how guys and girls here feel about their significant other taking an interest in porn and camgirls, even while they are in a relationship with you.

Imho, I feel it is sort of ok provided they genuinely care for you and do not see anyone else physically. And they are open and share with you their interest in other girls/porn/camgirls.

how do you guys view camgirls, porn and relationships?

 

[dougk3454]

Re: Camgirls, porn and guys -- any opinions, workable attitu

As long as everything is open and honest, then where is the problem?

Hmm, somewhere in that question is a contradiction...ahh, most relationships aren't totally open and honest. Many people still view porn, et al, as shameful in some way. If both people in the relationship can actually be honest with each other and accepting and perhaps interested, then there will be no issue.

Now if it goes beyond interest into actually taking time and attention away from the relationship (and this can be any activity), then there is a problem that must be addressed.

 

[gloriaden]

Re: Camgirls, porn and guys -- any opinions, workable attitu

well, that's the thing i would have thought porn was shameful
but maybe times have changed?
how should a girl feel about her guy indulging in porn (or a guy feel abuot his girl doing so)?
is it acceptable if they are honest about their interest?.....
or is it still infidelity or unacceptable..

 

[Runts]

Re: Camgirls, porn and guys -- any opinions, workable attitu

Unfortunately, there is no ONE answer to this question.

The only answer that matters is what your partner thinks. If he/she is fine with porn and camming, then go for it! If he/she is not, then you partake of it at your own risk.

 

[AlexLady]

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Masturbation is very important to sexual health for both girls and guys. Sometimes you need some "me time" and other times you need to learn something new about yourself. If you don't ever masturbate, I'm definitely going to think you're worse in bed than someone who does. Guys last longer, and girls know what they like. I fucking hate it when a girl comes to me for sexual advice and she says "ew" when I ask her if she masturbates. Girls like that should still be virgins >_>

The thing is though - most people masturbate to something. It can be a thought in their head, a smell, a memory, or even something visual. Why get so upset if it's something out of their head verses in it?

Sure, with a camgirl you can get more attached than with a fantasy... but personally, I jerk off to thoughts of my friends all the damn time. It hasn't ruined my relationship with them or my partner.



Overall though, this is something couples need to talk about after they get serious together. That people don't talk about it is the only problem with this subject.

 

[Jebbaz]

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After being an active participant at MFC for roughly 6 months now, give or take a week or two, I can honestly say I'd have no problem with a significant other becoming a cam model. I'd probably perv on him/her with everyone else in the chat room.

 

[Sevrin]

Re: Camgirls, porn and guys -- any opinions, workable attitu

Unfortunately, there is no ONE answer to this question.

The only answer that matters is what your partner thinks. If he/she is fine with porn and camming, then go for it! If he/she is not, then you partake of it at your own risk.

This. You are you and your partner is your partner. If it's something you can talk about with your partner, then it's something that might fit into your relationship. If it's not, then you will have a choice to make.

 

[CamillaJay]

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I'm perfectly fine if my boyfriend watches porn but I would not be ok with it if he was watching a girl on cam and interacting with her. It's more personal watching a cam model, like he can actually get to know her and possibly develop feelings. I would just feel that if he has to go look at girls on cam, then I'm obviously not doing something right especially if he can't satisfy whatever it is with porn. Is this weird since i am a cam model?

 

[Eva_ChangeN]

Re: Camgirls, porn and guys -- any opinions, workable attitu

My hubby has this to say about the topic: "I don't care if she's on cam or being a model, or a web ho or whatever you call it. I don't care how many girls she gets with, just how many real dicks get in there. Just be honest." :thumbleft:

My view is that it is all about communication. If you can't talk about sex, porn, masturbation or paint color for the bed room, then you don't have a real relationship. I have always been open about what I like, views on porn, opinions on girls I would wanna fuck and that kinda thing. We were both new to the sex actions when we met, being virgins and so have learned a LOT from each other. I agree to watching porn and cam girls cause it keeps things new and ideas fresh. Instead of us going outside our home and fucking God knows who and what, we can watch it individually or together. Sometimes we leave porn or MFC on while having fun, just for change of environment. I also like when I am hanging out in a chatroom on MFC and he is lurking LOL We usually hang out in similar spots when it comes to porn, altho I prefer girl on girl more than he does LOL education comes in many forms and without learning you can not grow and experience other awesomeness. I would have never played with myself if I hadn't stumbled upon my Dad's Jenna videos


As for him getting personal with camwhores...if he is just being friendly its all good. If he plans on running half way across the world to fuck her, thats totally different. In our relationship its OK for him (or myself) if he wants to be with another female just for sex/fun kind of thing. We both agree that another female is OK as long as it isn't a long term relationship and stays outside the home, as well as COMMUNICATION that a booty call is in order. We have not done this yet, but its been a standard as long as we have been together which has been almost half my life HAHA!

 

[gloriaden]

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I'm perfectly fine if my boyfriend watches porn but I would not be ok with it if he was watching a girl on cam and interacting with her. It's more personal watching a cam model, like he can actually get to know her and possibly develop feelings. I would just feel that if he has to go look at girls on cam, then I'm obviously not doing something right especially if he can't satisfy whatever it is with porn. Is this weird since i am a cam model?

i agree with Eva.. i think it should be ok for your s.o. to take a keen interest in porn/cam people but he or she has to open and honest to you about their interests. its a good way to communicate what they like. i like to think thats what you are together for, to share your hearts and minds and the world around you..

so what is important is openness and also hygiene. he/she shouldnt go sleep with everyone because really its very risky and unhealthy.

although i said the above, when your love is very young and new i think its good for you both to have eyes for only each other. it helps build faith together in each other? everyone should have a chance at young true love?