Cam 2 Cam

[AmberCutie]

Ok... I need to dive into the male psyche here. I realize that not all of you who read this even feel this way, but I have to ask.

What is it that makes you want SOOOOO badly for girls to open your cam and watch you jack off? Sometimes so badly, that you beg in free chat for the model to open your cam window... I just don't get it. If you're in private with a girl, that's one thing. You two are having a bit of an intimate sexy moment, it's understandable to share in that via cam 2 cam.

But in public chat? Turning on a cam and seeing a cock being smothered by your hand is not going to melt me into a puddle of hornyness and make me cum on the spot. It seems many boys think we models are just DYING to see it.

My response now, is that we are in the room to watch ME on camera, not you. So STFU. (Ok not that mean and harsh, but along those lines.) As I told someone in group last night, "I am a married girl, I don't need any more cock in my life, just focus on MY cam instead of your own."

Aside from the reasoning above, as you all know I've decided not to turn on cams at all in my room. Even though lots of you would just make funny faces and entertain me, just being consistent and saying NO to all cam 2 cam invites is easiest on me.

So if you're one of these guys, share your motivation with us. If you're not, share your thoughts on this whole subject. I'm really interested to know what goes on in those minds of yours.

 

[Keithy]

Because my penis is so awesome I have to share it with the world.

 

[AmberCutie]

Because my penis is so awesome I have to share it with the world.

Sidenote: I do miss Gus.

And no, folks, that is not his weiner's name.

 

[spankamber]

i watch for 100 tkns to watch for 5 minutes and i tell them its unfair for me to watch you and give you my attention when others are in the room tipping and you havent. I do enjoy watching men stokre for me but think its unfair in publci chat because i cant play lol

 

[FifthElephant]

Ok... I need to dive into the male psyche here. I realize that not all of you who read this even feel this way, but I have to ask.

What is it that makes you want SOOOOO badly for girls to open your cam and watch you jack off? Sometimes so badly, that you beg in free chat for the model to open your cam window... I just don't get it. If you're in private with a girl, that's one thing. You two are having a bit of an intimate sexy moment, it's understandable to share in that via cam 2 cam.

But in public chat? Turning on a cam and seeing a cock being smothered by your hand is not going to melt me into a puddle of hornyness and make me cum on the spot. It seems many boys think we models are just DYING to see it.

To shoot off at a tangent.
The assymetry of the experience between the viewers and the models has always interested me.

The model is sitting there staring at a wall of chat - with maybe some PMs, and probably their cam window popped up - but it's just a 'mirror'.

The viewers have the additional involvement of being able to see the model - which even if she's not doing much can be restful, even if not sexual., much like staring at a sunset, or a tree.

How might the audience be able to better interact with the model - other than chat?
Voice is an obvious option - but it'd be way more intrusive than chat.

Cams are clearly another option, but even if it's technically possible - having - say - 80 cams open at once - isn't going to be ideal.

I wonder about motion capture.
Something like a live box of emoticons driven from members cams that just captures basic facial states, and displays a small box -

• 
  :-D :shock: :shock:
  :shock: :shock: :shock: :violin:

Can anyone think of an alternative to allow more interaction?

 

[BloodRed87]

It's kind of a attention whoring thing I guess; it's fun when the models attention is all on you when the room count 100 or so. Also, some models just get really turned on watching someone get off to them. I mean just ask Frankie, I think she mentioned she had 3 separate cams of guys fapping to her all at once last week. :lol:

I've personally haven't gone cam 2 cam yet since I don't have a web cam, but when I get one and a decent one at that; some models will seeing alot more of me.

 

[Bocefish]

Other than attention whoring, I got nothing, it makes me wonder as well. C2C in pvt is one thing, but if they need to be seen so badly...charge them whatever you feel is reasonable for your time to watch if you so choose, otherwise they can stfu or get the ban hammer. It amazes me that some guys will actually pay a model to watch them, but I s'pose it's better than having them flash unsuspecting victims or children in the park.

Some models do like it, but the majority don't in public chat. There is even a model that has contests like hairiest balls, largest load, or whatever. EroticEngland is her name, I think.

ETA: Just found out EE has a website to join her contests :lol:
ATA2: helps if I post the link http://eecontests.webs.com/

And WTF is up with the membercam douche nozzles that pretend to be women, but when you open their cam it's some fucktard fapping!?!? :evil:

 

[LuxDahl]

i watch for 100 tkns to watch for 5 minutes and i tell them its unfair for me to watch you and give you my attention when others are in the room tipping and you havent. I do enjoy watching men stokre for me but think its unfair in publci chat because i cant play lol

This. I charge 100 tks or tell them to take me private. I don't have time to watch every guy who asks me to. Looking at penis doesn't even do anything for me anymore. I asked my husband what guys think some of us are supposed to get out of watching them jerk and he explained that most men think like men (of course)...and assume women do as well. So it's much like you said, Amber. Guys become sexually aroused when they see pussy so they believe it works the other way around. They fancy an ego boost when you open their cam and look at their oh so special penis, the one that could bring you to orgasm within seconds, if only. :roll: Of course, we know this is rarely the case... A lot of voyeurs have a tinge of exhibitionism in them as well, but I agree with the sentiment that when someone is in my room they're there to watch ME, not for me to watch them. That's why it costs. There can only be one, lol.

On the subject of guys pretending to be chicks, they do it because it's less threatening to the woman they're trying to seduce. It also goes into role playing and all that jazz. I just know that I can always tell when a chick is a dude because he talks how he thinks women who are really into something are "supposed to". But that type of speaking comes from porn and we know who runs porn (men).

 

[AedanRayne]

One word: Exhibitionism.

Isn't that what our job is all about? I know I'm not the only person in the world to get off knowing people are watching me fuck myself. Hell, I randomly go into chat rooms like Room7 to get on cam for strangers (no money involved), and it's ridiculously exciting to see their shocked looks as I shove a dildo in my ass. So, I can understand why guys would like me to watch them choke the chicken. I love watching them in complete ecstasy, and sometimes I ask them to do fun things like licking their cum off of a plate (guys will do it for me, too - I'm a lucky girl) :-D . It's SO hot!

 

[LadyLuna]

lol, weird thing-

when I think about the other person watching me, unless it's a member I know really well, it actually turns me off... if I'm doing anything. If I'm just showing off though, it turns me on.

O.O guess I'm weird.

But yeah, the best thing I've been able to figure is, some women actually do get turned on by it. And guys get turned on by watching us, so why wouldn't we get turned on by watching them? (as their train of thought goes)

Plus, if they get their info from porn, well, the little I've seen has shown a substantial amount of the woman getting turned on when the guy's dick is revealed.

But, it's a little more complimentary than symmetrical. We get turned on by BEING watched, they get turned on by watching. Works a lot better than if we get turned off by being watched. lol.

A note to men: WOMEN ARE WEIRD. Well, not weird- different. There is no such thing as a generic woman. There are things that seem to work for the most part, but there's always a sizable number of exceptions to whatever that is. Including (as it says in another thread) the g-spot, and what parts of the woman's body are sensitive, and other such things. Every woman is incredibly unique in how they react to anything. Be it a touch in a specific spot, or a word, or a smell, or whatever.

 

[AluraCurvyBBW]

personally i hate when they ask so i tell them my system crashes.. which it does. lol so no lie there

 

[AlexLady]

Cam to cam in private is one thing yeah; the intimacy and the new level of fun is great. I try to get it as much as possible and am more likely to take a private if there is C2C. That is, so long as something special is happening on his end. I also love being able to chat and have voice when doing this.


In public though... Well I have three monitors. I like it when I know someone well enough that they'd turn on their cam as we hang out before the groups/privates. Mainly because I love to see them laugh with me or their reactions to things I do.

Text is plenty sure, but a bit more is no harm when I can ignore one monitor as needed.

 

[SweepTheLeg]

I don't cam to cam, and if I do its not to show me wenis its simply to get screen capped for every one elses amusement.

D0mino: "So I was in a pvt show, but I always leave my cams up that I am watching and SweepTheLeg makes this face...It wasn't a quick face it actually stayed like that for a really long time it seemed.

Dude...please explain wtf you were doing. I am dying to know."

 

[Classy]

Oooh Amber, you have started something that is one of my favourite topics... so having a break from writing - I couldn't resist chiming in

Well favourite topic isn't correct... it's actually one of my pet peeves..
This the desire for so many guys to show off their Three-Piece-Suite, their Trumpet, their Sausage and Taters (potatoes) or whatever you wish to call it to a woman of their dreams and really think that a disembodied Beef Bayonet is going to make a woman sopping wet!

Duh wha?

I actually started a group on Facebook after a few adult industry clients said the number of cocks in their inbox (no pun intended ) was getting beyond a joke. It was an insider joke between me and a couple of friends/clients, but it was interesting to see almost every one of my clients and female friends joined within 24 hours. LOL!

Now this was just pictures via Facebook, but I think it's directly related to the public wanking because, as you said Amber, public chat is a very different place to being in private.

So why? I had a thought about it when I started the Facebook group and had a chat with a colleague who is a psychologist and he agreed it's a likely reason.

Picture a guy who is lonely or feeling unfulfilled.
His sexual life revolves around his penis.
(note I didn't say revolves around sex - this is specifically the Hand-to-Wedding-Tackle relationship)
If his primary source of joy/ecstasy is his penis, then his old hunt-shoot-score mentality (that all us guys have inside us) clearly indicates that if HE gets so much pleasure from it? Then the woman of his dreams is going to think it's god's gift to womanhood!
He's not thinking about the fact that when there are words, ideas and a mental fantasy established (hello talking dirty! ) then a girl often DOES want to see He is targeting just the visual aspect.

Get to the point! You're eating into my wanking time, dude!
So it's possible that the guys sending the pictures and constantly asking for you view their cam aren't deviants, but just very lonely or inexperienced.

Of course there are probably some deviants as well - everyone is different, otherwise we would never learn to look at the world through someone else's eyes

Fuccccck! That's more than my 2 cents worth LOL - I'm going back to work! :shock: :lol:

 

[RufffRider]

i am with sweeptheleg on this one i don't cam to show my cock. i cam to entertain and pass the time. i have done shower shows though and other shows even more embarassing, but i often dance on cam :dance:

 

[AlexLady]

I honestly think they're mostly just exhibitionists. And in most cases being a nudest myself, I dislike exhibitionism.

 

[Mirra]

I cannot say I have any proven insight into this particular desire, much as I still don't get the whole feet thing. I've had one model ever actually ask me if I had a cam and requested to see it... but I suspect in her case it was because that's what she thought I wanted. I don't speak with said model anymore to be honest. If I had to guess, I'd say you have 4 types of guys when it comes to Cam 2 Cam requesting.

1. Guys who request it because they're proud and think what's on their cam will be impressive. Here be super huge egos.
2. Guys who don't request it because they are confident enough without ego inflation.
3. Guys who request it because they want an ego boost.
4. Guys who don't request it because they don't reckon anyone would want to see it anyhow.

That said, for privates I believe most guys would oblige a model if she asked and some who wouldn't request may offer due to the intimate nature of a private show.

 

[AluraCurvyBBW]

Now my fiance and I were in a mfc models room chatting and we told her feel free to look at the cam. We were not doing anything sexual. Just sitting around me on my prem acct him on his. We just wanted her to see both of us should she want to.

Frankly the only time I seen my mr whip out his german sausage he was gettin a show or teasin a friend on cam

 

[SweepTheLeg]

I don't really know where I qualify when it comes to members who get on cam for models.

I never really thought about even buying a web cam until a few models who i had become a regular in started asking me about buying one and now I only get on cam when I get requested to be, And or DEMANDED.

 

[Mirra]

Alura, I consider it different to inform someone that your cam is on. What I am referring to is the guys who request "look at my cam bb. u like bb?"

Just making sure my intentions are clear.

 

[N15PCA]

Honesty, I don't think any women should see me Jack off on cam or off. I think that is something you do By yourself in a dark room when you are a guy.

I think it just sick stuff for a guy to want to show his dick to any women on MFC. I just don't get it. It is sad really.

 

[hU89YYUghghgv78]

Honesty, I don't think any women should see me Jack off on cam or off. I think that is something you do By yourself in a dark room when you are a guy.

I think it just sick stuff for a guy to want to show his dick to any women on MFC. I just don't get it. It is sad really.

Sounds like someone has an ugly and/or tiny cock :lol:

I don't get it either, I'd never show my cock unless a model specifically asked to see it which I don't think will ever happen

 

[AedanRayne]

Honesty, I don't think any women should see me Jack off on cam or off. I think that is something you do By yourself in a dark room when you are a guy.

I think it just sick stuff for a guy to want to show his dick to any women on MFC. I just don't get it. It is sad really.

Sounds like someone has an ugly and/or tiny cock :lol:

I don't get it either, I'd never show my cock unless a model specifically asked to see it which I don't think will ever happen

Show me your cock!

 

[hU89YYUghghgv78]

Honesty, I don't think any women should see me Jack off on cam or off. I think that is something you do By yourself in a dark room when you are a guy.

I think it just sick stuff for a guy to want to show his dick to any women on MFC. I just don't get it. It is sad really.

Sounds like someone has an ugly and/or tiny cock :lol:

I don't get it either, I'd never show my cock unless a model specifically asked to see it which I don't think will ever happen

Show me your cock!

I will if I ever see you on

 

[AluraCurvyBBW]

Alura, I consider it different to inform someone that your cam is on. What I am referring to is the guys who request "look at my cam bb. u like bb?"

Just making sure my intentions are clear.

Oh i know hun. i was stating that as a member stand point if i turn my cam on i state to the model if you would like to see how i look it is on. usually in a pm

as a member i freakin dont get the bb look at my cam (or other variations on it)

 

[Cassidy Nicole]

Some guys LOVE to be watched. That's why they ask. It is a harder, more intense orgasm. And some guys just beat their dick like it stole something the moment they log into MFC.

 

[AmberCutie]

Just felt like posting the first 2 minutes of my first group show today. Note the <<<<<

It's going to be one of those days!

 

[stainedecho]

I don't. Some guys just have an exhibitionistic streak I'd guess. Others probably just want to show off.

 

[RufffRider]

Just felt like posting the first 2 minutes of my first group show today. Note the <<<<<

It's going to be one of those days!

i know we agree on everything, but why don't you turn the cam on and minimize it? at least for group?
i wouldn't want to look at weiny either, but maybe that stops the asking? (crosses fingers and hopes to not be called retarded)

 

[Remykins]

I get bugged constantly when I'm online to view cams. Its always in PM, guys don't even say hi, they just pop up with "my cam is on bb". Like....so? I think some guys want the ego trip, and want to feel like kingshit, having a hot girl want to see his dick. But he fails to realize that we're not just a "hot girl", we're girls who do this for a living, and get literally dozens of the same request day in and day out, and see nothing but cock all day long. And sorry, but generally, cocks are all the same. Unless its shaped like a balloon animal, we're NOT going to remember or care what it looks like at the end of the day. I care more about what the cock is attached to, the guy himself, his personality, and what he brings to a private session...which is why I enjoy c2c during privates only, because the interaction on webcam is far more arousing than seeing a dick jizz for the 11th time that day.

But on the topic of c2c I gotta rag on some of the dumb looking shit some guys do. Why do guys stick their face in the cam and waggle their tongue around like they're eating us out? I mean, when a guys going down on me, I better NOT be seeing what his face and tongue is doing because I'd hope their face was stuffed nicely in my snatch working magic...but seriously showing me the inside of your mouth, seeing leftover residue from your burrito dinner...ugh barf. And why do some guys HAVE to show me their hairy assholes? and WHY DO GUYS JERK OFF ON THE TOILET????.