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Dearest Fishyballz:

You have been a very long-time member of ACF. A huge contributor, whether your posts were full of unfavorable opinions, hot and sexy gifs/pics, or just random discussions. I have appreciated your contributions, even your disagreements, over the years.

However, it would seem that you've had quite a few run-ins with other people of ACF that I hold near and dear. They may not have been a member of ACF as long as you have (well, a couple have been here longer, actually), but they have been a very big part of this community since they joined us, and I can't just overlook this many attempts to "rain on their parade" so to speak.

At this time, I would ask that if you do come back to ACF, you reply in this thread and give a general apology. I know you have PM'd people in the past after a "drunk" night and told them you were sorry, you were drunk, you get out of hand, yadda yadda. But your posts in the last day and a half have irritated more than a handful, and I think we deserve a bit of public recognition that you were out of line.

And yes, you were out of line, regardless of how the girls retorted. At risk of sounding like a child... YOU STARTED IT. Out of nowhere, in a thread that was a discussion about habits of models where models are whole-heartedly welcomed to give their input. The quote you included in your post had absolutely nothing to do with you, yet you started name calling right off the bat. You can only poke a kitty so many times before she'll turn around and swipe you with her claws. While some people have taken the model's reply to you to be a bit offensive, I can only say that you had it coming (and that she didn't mean it 100% the way it was taken, though it was abrasive) since this wasn't the first time you've targeted her in your "drunken rampages."

So, dear Bocefish, please let me know how you'd like to proceed. I would like to continue to welcome you here, but cannot feel comfortable doing so until you've let the masses of upset people know that you're sorry for your actions. It's my job to try to keep this place even keeled. I allow a lot of disagreeing and unpopular opinion exist here for the sake of discussion and variety, but you've sort of pushed the boundaries too far numerous times.

What say you?

PS: To the non-Bocefish members reading this - this thread is NOT to become a hate filled bash session. It is merely to publicly note my distaste for what happened and an invitation to right a wrong. Anything in this thread that I feel is a violation of this trust I'm giving you will be deleted at my discretion.
 
Completely agree Amber,

I liked Boce as a poster and despite being at the polar end of the thread we usually met in (gun control) I respected the guy as he was quite concise in his arguments and beliefs and backed them up well with facts and links to support what he said,

I was however quite shocked when I came back on after a couple of days to see how a couple of threads had escalated after some needless sand throwing on his part, they were both uncalled for abusive in the extreme


I'd just echo what Amber is saying, I too have come on "under the infulence" and its quite easy to run your mouth and be what my mates tearm a Keyboard Warrior but at he end of the day its not worth it, Abrasive Boce I dont mind and in fact quite like, debate sharpens the mind but abusive is just uncalled for
 
bawksy said:
How is it that I've never had one of these threads?
Yes, how is that mister troll? Maybe we need to reexamine our definition of you, sir.
 
bawksy said:
How is it that I've never had one of these threads?
Very good question ! haha, the first time I entered ACF was right in the middle of your duckface fight with Ciara_Lynn, I had no idea of what was going on in ACF, it did not stop me to go directly into White Knight mode
 
RedHerby said:
bawksy said:
How is it that I've never had one of these threads?
Very good question ! haha, the first time I entered ACF was right in the middle of your duckface fight with Ciara_Lynn, I had no idea of what was going on in ACF, it did not stop me to go directly into White Knight mode
:lol:
 
I actually have no idea what this is about except that apparently some shit went down that I didn't read heh.
 
Jupiter551 said:
I actually have no idea what this is about except that apparently some shit went down that I didn't read heh.
no idea ? and still thanked Amber ? As only member between 20 models , where is your brotherhood feeling ?
 
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RedHerby said:
Jupiter551 said:
I actually have no idea what this is about except that apparently some shit went down that I didn't read heh.
no idea ? and still thanked Amber ? As only member between 20 models , where is your brotherhood feeling ?
:lol: ouch!
 
RedHerby said:
Jupiter551 said:
I actually have no idea what this is about except that apparently some shit went down that I didn't read heh.
no idea ? and still thanked Amber ? As only member between 20 models , where is your brotherhood feeling ?

Actually now looking at the thanks and can see that only a couple of members have thanked Ambers post. I would have thought other members would be very happy that if one of you guys decided to throw drunken abuse at a girl for no reason that rather than her instantly banning you she'd give you a chance to explain and apologise... but you know, whatever, maybe being banned straight off would be more appealing? I think she's been more than fair and deserves thanks!
 
RedHerby said:
bawksy said:
How is it that I've never had one of these threads?
Very good question ! haha, the first time I entered ACF was right in the middle of your duckface fight with Ciara_Lynn, I had no idea of what was going on in ACF, it did not stop me to go directly into White Knight mode
Yeah Bawksy has had his fair share of trouble-making here, too. He's also a different sort of irritant. It's outright expected from Bawksy to be a dick sometimes, but more in a trolling sense than an outright asshole sense. (I am not saying that excuses Bawksy's behavior, only that it stings differently than what happened here with Boce.)

But he and I are closer and I can give him a right verbal tongue-lashing in PM on MFC. He's also been put in the doghouse without warning for a long period of time, as well as had threads/posts immediately deleted without warning, edited without warning, etc. (Which really upsets the Bawks, to be censored, haha. :p )
 
And I hope you understand we, or for sure I, were just ribbing Jup a bit. I think you know I know what sort of asshole Boce can be. (Understanding I'm no Angel)
 
Jupiter551 said:
I actually have no idea what this is about except that apparently some shit went down that I didn't read heh.


And what's messed-up is that somewhere in the thread he called you a 'wussy boy' (he had been arguing with Nordling again, and decided to throw your name in there) even though YOU weren't even involved in the argument at all!
 
The_Brown_Fox said:
Jupiter551 said:
I actually have no idea what this is about except that apparently some shit went down that I didn't read heh.


And what's messed-up is that somewhere in the thread he called you a 'wussy boy' (he had been arguing with Nordling again, and decided to throw your name in there) even though YOU weren't even involved in the argument at all!
yeah so I heard :roll:

Even having not read it I thanked Amber cos I trust her to do what's fair, and I know first hand that Boce can be a dick.
 
The_Brown_Fox said:
Jupiter551 said:
I actually have no idea what this is about except that apparently some shit went down that I didn't read heh.


And what's messed-up is that somewhere in the thread he called you a 'wussy boy' (he had been arguing with Nordling again, and decided to throw your name in there) even though YOU weren't even involved in the argument at all!
Really, that is outrageous all by itself.
 
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camstory said:
The_Brown_Fox said:
Jupiter551 said:
I actually have no idea what this is about except that apparently some shit went down that I didn't read heh.


And what's messed-up is that somewhere in the thread he called you a 'wussy boy' (he had been arguing with Nordling again, and decided to throw your name in there) even though YOU weren't even involved in the argument at all!
Really, that is outrageous all by itself.
On one level, on another I don't give a fuck what he says about me :p
 
Not defending his lash out, but I hope Boce comes back. I think he kind of adds a necessary devil's advocate component to the forum. He's not that hard to disarm, and he always has sexy avatar pictures.
 
When he comes back (and he will because no one ever really leaves ACF...lol), I hope he comes back with an apology. I don't mean an "Well you gotta understand that I was drunk..." excuse. But a sincere apology.
 
He's certainly taking his time stewing in his own juices over this one. :lol: It is kind of hilarious how painfully embarrassing his return is likely to be. 'Oh hai guys... :oops: ' lol
 
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TheFluffsta said:
He's certainly taking his time stewing in his own juices over this one. :lol: It is kind of hilarious how painfully embarrassing his return is likely to be. 'Oh hai guys... :oops: ' lol
that, or fantasising about bursting in with an AR-15 and showing us just what a good-guy-with-a-gun can do on a litre of scotch.

I don't 'hope he comes back', but if he does he does, and if he's a decent guy then fine. I do think this interaction has turned toxic for him and he needs to either quit it or quit posting in threads that are going to bring out his angry side. I'm trying to do the second part myself.
 
If I ever have a board meltdown and if I'm ever invited back I reckon I'll play it cool and stay away for a month or two. Then I'll come back... with "amnesia". I'll introduce myself as if I've never spoken to any of you. I'll be all like, "hi, I'm Bob. Nice to meet you. I totally have amnesia".
And if anyone points back to this post and is all "you've been rumbled, young man" I'll just be like "firstly, I have no recollection of posting that and secondly, who are you?". I'll probably keep that up for a year or so then I'll make a big, important post about how I tricked you all and then I'll shop my story around various Hollywood film studios.
 
:lol: @amnesia
 
Jupiter551 said:
TheFluffsta said:
He's certainly taking his time stewing in his own juices over this one. :lol: It is kind of hilarious how painfully embarrassing his return is likely to be. 'Oh hai guys... :oops: ' lol
that, or fantasising about bursting in with an AR-15 and showing us just what a good-guy-with-a-gun can do on a litre of scotch.

I don't 'hope he comes back', but if he does he does, and if he's a decent guy then fine. I do think this interaction has turned toxic for him and he needs to either quit it or quit posting in threads that are going to bring out his angry side. I'm trying to do the second part myself.

To a lesser extent, this is kind of why I took a long break. At the time I felt the forum was in a rather different direction and I just wasn't enjoying myself on the forums. It was toxic in that it was deflating my mood rather than elevating it. There were a few certain people that particularly bothered me, but honestly I can't remember who was involved. But I'm back and enjoy myself here just fine now.
 
mynameisbob84 said:
If I ever have a board meltdown and if I'm ever invited back I reckon I'll play it cool and stay away for a month or two. Then I'll come back... with "amnesia". I'll introduce myself as if I've never spoken to any of you. I'll be all like, "hi, I'm Bob. Nice to meet you. I totally have amnesia".
And if anyone points back to this post and is all "you've been rumbled, young man" I'll just be like "firstly, I have no recollection of posting that and secondly, who are you?". I'll probably keep that up for a year or so then I'll make a big, important post about how I tricked you all and then I'll shop my story around various Hollywood film studios.

Or you could just create a new username.
 
emptiedglass said:
mynameisbob84 said:
If I ever have a board meltdown and if I'm ever invited back I reckon I'll play it cool and stay away for a month or two. Then I'll come back... with "amnesia". I'll introduce myself as if I've never spoken to any of you. I'll be all like, "hi, I'm Bob. Nice to meet you. I totally have amnesia".
And if anyone points back to this post and is all "you've been rumbled, young man" I'll just be like "firstly, I have no recollection of posting that and secondly, who are you?". I'll probably keep that up for a year or so then I'll make a big, important post about how I tricked you all and then I'll shop my story around various Hollywood film studios.

Or you could just create a new username.
And then be embarrassed when I call you out for making a 2nd account since I can find you out. ;)
 
emptiedglass said:
The smart way would be to use a different IP address, too.
Your style is too unique EG, ppl would know. :-D
 
emptiedglass said:
The smart way would be to use a different IP address, too.
Except someone else has already tried that and Amber and Jawbs pwned their ass. :lol:
 
everytime someone comes back with a different IP address we always identify them cos they might change their account name, IP, etc, but they can't change their assholishness.
 
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