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apart from the usual horny stuff I like to chat to models about day to day things, nothing boring just general chit chat!! Do models like this?
 
apart from the usual horny stuff I like to chat to models about day to day things, nothing boring just general chit chat!! Do models like this?
Depends on the site, and depends on the model, and how busy they are. On some sites other guys will be ready to buy a show, and a dude incessantly chatting without tipping much, puts them off. So they go to another model instead. Because they don't want to interrupt and be seen by the model as "rude" or "impatient".

If you're tipping in proportion to the amount of time and attention you are taking, sure. But your idea of in proportion, and a successful model's idea of in proportion, are going to likely be very different.

On SM I have a guy who comes in and drops about $30, but then hangs out for 2 hours, pretty much chatting constantly, and not in a sexual way, or a way that includes other guys. I'm about to talk to him about it, and possibly block him. Because the money he's losing me, is way more than the money he's spending. Hope that made sense. I'm a front page model on SM (who's been camming 9 years now), so when I'm online making $30 in a stream hour is a huge loss for me, and will really piss me off! Ironically this guy probably thinks he's doing me a favor, but in reality I'm just tolerating him. Well barely anyways, because now I'm bitching about it here haha.
 
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Depends on the site, and depends on the model, and how busy they are. On some sites other guys will be ready to buy a show, and a dude incessantly chatting without tipping much, puts them off. So they go to another model instead. Because they don't want to interrupt and be seen by the model as "rude" or "impatient".

If you're tipping in proportion to the amount of time and attention you are taking, sure. But your idea of in proportion, and a successful model's idea of in proportion, are going to likely be very different.

On SM I have a guy who comes in and drops about $30, but then hangs out for 2 hours, pretty much chatting constantly, and not in a sexual way, or a way that includes other guys. I'm about to talk to him about it, and possibly block him. Because the money he's losing me, is way more than the money he's spending. Hope that made sense. I'm a front page model on SM (who's been camming 9 years now), so when I'm online making $30 in a stream hour is a huge loss for me, and will really piss me off! Ironically this guy probably thinks he's doing me a favor, but in reality I'm just tolerating him. Well barely anyways, because now I'm bitching about it here haha.
The way I run my room on SM is completely different to CB and SC. The goals for the sites are different imo on token sites you need the room more active to encourage people to stick around and tip, on PPM sites its about turn over of shows, having convocations takes away from that because members that are looking to get a show might feel like you are busy and not want to interrupt. Sounds like this guy is on the wrong type of site for what he's looking for imo. ** This is pretty much what I have noticed from my experience, days where I am on both token sites and ppm sites and people are talking in the token sites has a noticeable negative effect on the ppm sites.

As for the original question.

For token sites. I hate small talk, I cant do it, but I can talk on pretty much any subject, and generally like talking to people especially if someone's passionate about something, go ahead and talk about it, if I dont know much about it then I'll ask questions, if I do know something about it then we can go a bit more in-depth on it. The draw back is people often forget to tip when talking about non sexual things.

For PPM sites, the only convocation I want or need is what kind of show you want, anything more than that is unnecessary.
 
The way I run my room on SM is completely different to CB and SC.
I often run them both very similar. I’m not a top model or top tier model on mfc, but I keep my cam score up. So it’s working out ok for me so far.

With all the features that streammate and mfc have now (compared to say 2015) it is pretty much possible to run in the same way if you want, or very close. I feel like that way of thinking that you were talking about, is more based on how things used to be. A lot has changed, in the rules and site functionalities.

We may just get different mileage because you’re a male model and I’m female though. And I’m comparing MFC and SM. Whereas you’re comparing SC and CB to SM. Plus I do a lot of privates, true private and Skype shows on mfc. My room countdown goal, is pretty arbitrary or secondary to those for me. And I’ve literally never hung out in anyone else’s room to see how they do anything on pretty much either site.

The thing I have noticed on mfc that is different is that I need to be on a while longer to get things going. On SM if it’s a good night, I can hop on and be busy first 5 mins. Mfc takes a good 30 -60 mins for me, on average.
 
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I often run them both very similar. I’m not a top model or top tier model on mfc, but I keep my cam score up. So it’s working out ok for me so far.

With all the features that streammate and mfc have now (compared to say 2015) it is pretty much possible to run in the same way if you want, or very close. I feel like that way of thinking that you were talking about, is more based on how things used to be. A lot has changed, in the rules and site functionalities.

We may just get different mileage because you’re a male model and I’m female though. And I’m comparing MFC and SM. Whereas you’re comparing SC and CB to SM. Plus I do a lot of privates, true private and Skype shows on mfc. My room countdown goal, is pretty arbitrary or secondary to those for me. And I’ve literally never hung out in anyone else’s room to see how they do anything on pretty much either site.
Yeah, my experience with token sites is mainly people would rather tip for goals than take pvt shows. I also cant do gold shows on sm (they still wont give me the feature), so with guys not doing pvts on token sites and sm only being pvts for me it's pretty much like it is 2015 😂
 
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Yeah, my experience with token sites is mainly people would rather tip for goals than take pvt shows. I also cant do gold shows on sm (they still wont give me the feature), so with guys not doing pvts on token sites and sm only being pvts for me it's pretty much like it is 2015 😂
Ah ok, so basically we’re coming at it from totally different abilities to do stuff on each site. That makes more sense.

I also think that I have brought a lot of people over to MFC rather than taking people that were already there. And the people I’ve brought over , are people who get private shows with me, or you have followed my videos and stuff, and want to do fetishes shows in true private or on Skype.

I’m sure I have seen some people from their internal traffic, but the majority of the people I see on MFC as Regs, knew me before there, from other places. That’s gonna affect my mileage being very different too.
 
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Well personally I rather be able to have general chit chat with a girl then not but I'm not going to try and get in the way of better tippers (especially since i certainly couldnt afford to tip $30 an hour 😅), I rather chat with the room and not just the lady create more of a community feel.

I found most successful girls (in regards to revenue) on cb at least have a very social room and r good at chatting to regulars, makes them feel welcome and most of the largest tips have come from those who have general chit chat and a joke with the lady (then again i have usually avoid the more explicit rooms)
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Heck I wouldn't be following most of the ladies if they didn't make me feel welcome and not just a token dispenser.
 
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I'm up for chatting but you better be paying me for it. And not in a trickle down economics sort of way. In fact it's 500 tokens just to PM me.
 
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I always found general chit chat boring and repetitive. I think more important than the topic itself was if it was a topic that the entire room could contribute to. I remember once having a great conversation about books that multiple joined in on because of the books someone noticed I had on my book shelf and it was far more interesting than most of the random convos that I normally see. Also at least in my experience when more people are engaged I got more tips overall
 
I always found general chit chat boring and repetitive. I think more important than the topic itself was if it was a topic that the entire room could contribute to. I remember once having a great conversation about books that multiple joined in on because of the books someone noticed I had on my book shelf and it was far more interesting than most of the random convos that I normally see. Also at least in my experience when more people are engaged I got more tips overall
I see you're not familiar with the "yes and" principle.

"Did you know the Comedy Store was owned by Paulie Shore's mother, Mitzi?"
"Yes and did you know that she treated everyone horribly and low balled their rates often pushing them on stage in order to keep the venue's name in the press, promising future favors?"

OR

"Did you know the Comedy Store was owned by Paulie Shore's mother, Mitzi?"
"No, I didn't but I do know of many comics who got their start there. Do you have a favorite?"
 
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