Banned for participating at Exxxotica 😡

[lulu_only_fans]

The pictures are pretty self explanatory. I went to Exxxtopia Friday 10/25 and was so excited to come home and stream about what a great time we had and the amazing vibes and then was banned for what someone who was hired in the Dungeon room did after I signed a waiver of consent. This is the only reply I’ve got. So I’m being punished because I went to an event to support chaturbate? Do they understand that this is peoples livelihood? I’m sick over it. Please help @punker barbie

 

[BrookeRidess]

Curious were you Abel to get this resolved

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Is this in the TOS somewhere that you can’t broadcast with injuries?

The platform reaching out I get, but a ban when you’re not in imminent danger feels silly

 

[AudriTwo]

So what happens if someone got into an accident had obvious signs of bruising but still need to stream because they have bills to pay?

Fuck them i guess. This is too extreme of a reaction. I have never seen any other site do this.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

So what happens if someone got into an accident had obvious signs of bruising but still need to stream because they have bills to pay?

Fuck them i guess. This is too extreme of a reaction. I have never seen any other site do this.

Yeah I remember having a massive black bruise on my inner thigh - I covered it because it hurt my earnings and did like body stockings and stuff - it was a huge pain. I can’t imagine being banned for it

 

[sparks1957]

The response from Chaturbate that you posted indicates that your account is suspended until the bruises heal. Chaturbate has no way of knowing how the bruises were caused, it's understandable that they don't want a possible victim of domestic violence performing.

 

[Vixxen81]

It can take months for deep bruising to heal on its own. An arnica based cream or gel applied daily can dramatically reduce the recovery period.

Please let us know how this works out. I understand the frustration of being at a sanctioned event and then being punished for the results.

I won't say who but another model had to take two months off because she bashed her arm pretty good and the bruise made it look like she was assaulted by a baseball bat. She's just clumsy.

 

[MarieElise]

Gosh scary to realize some sites ban for bruises Even if it were from DV @sparks1957 how is banning someone from their independent income helpful? I don't get your thinking on that at all??? And how would that be a cam site's judgement call? Sorry, but to me, that sounds ridiculous.

Anyways, sorry you are dealing with this OP Seems unfair.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

The response from Chaturbate that you posted indicates that your account is suspended until the bruises heal. Chaturbate has no way of knowing how the bruises were caused, it's understandable that they don't want a possible victim of domestic violence performing.

Them checking in and ensuring you are safe is understandable.

If someone is a victim of domestic violence cutting off their income until they heal is literally making things worse

 

[Highlander884]

I can imagine, people's other half's beating them more because for getting suspended. Just finding any excuse to be a cunt and hit them.

I know a girl who accidentally cut her arm on her desk when she was broadcasting, blood coming out, she didn't get banned.
What about all the girls who slap their butt's, if they get a bruise the following day from it will they get suspended?

I mean obviously I get the concern and out of over 100k people broadcasting I wouldn't be susprised if someone's at least been talked into webcam by their other half but what can you do besides send a message of concern and hope they message back asking for help?

 

[sparks1957]

Gosh scary to realize some sites ban for bruises Even if it were from DV @sparks1957 how is banning someone from their independent income helpful? I don't get your thinking on that at all??? And how would that be a cam site's judgement call? Sorry, but to me, that sounds ridiculous.

Anyways, sorry you are dealing with this OP Seems unfair.

Chaturbate didn't ban her, they told her she couldn't stream until the bruises healed. Whether it is fair or not, Chaturbate can suspend or ban any model they want, for any reason. I hope the OP signs up for other cam sites and is able is to start making money again.

 

[MarieElise]

Chaturbate didn't ban her, they told her she couldn't stream until the bruises healed. Whether it is fair or not, Chaturbate can suspend or ban any model they want, for any reason. I hope the OP signs up for other cam sites and is able is to start making money again.

Yes, I get all of that. That's obvious. It was more this part of what you said that I didn't really understand at all, and wanted to highlight.

it's understandable that they don't want a possible victim of domestic violence performing.

Potentially sweeping DV under the carpet where it can't be seen and "offend us", or ruin our boners, isn't super helpful. I am highlighting that, because a lot of political choices people are making rn, are not helpful, and destructive to women. And I believe people should have to see the results of the votes they make, and causes they support. Whether it offends them or not But I realize it was just a thoughtless/ uninformed comment, on your part. The larger social picture is more what matters to me.

 

[Vixxen81]

I've been with CB since the days of extreme anal gaping with anal hooks, extreme bondage and humiliation, cock and ball torture that would make me wince in ways my face didn't know were possible. Every content moderation change has been an attempt at pre-emptive compliance (which is what the media is doing with sanewashing Trump's absolute garbage nonsense, so they aren't sent to the gallows first, but I say this only to highlight Marie's concerns about the larger picture).

Chaturbate doesn't really care about the content or the person in question, they care about maintaining a clean reputation as far as reputations can go in the world of sex work and staying compliant with the law.

I think this is part of the reason they allow fan sites and links because they know some sites allow content they don't and everyone needs more than one revenue stream.

It is unclear whether the OP was at the con under invitation of CB or went as a regular con attendee. I would hope if it was the former someone would have said hey, if you do this you won't be able to broadcast until it heals or is covered up.

 

[AudriTwo]

Potentially sweeping DV under the carpet where it can't be seen and "offend us", or ruin our boners, isn't super helpful.

it also perpetuates the stereotype or assumption that sexworkers are victims of domestic abuse and forced into the profession.

 

[MarieElise]

it also perpetuates the stereotype or assumption that sexworkers are victims of domestic abuse and forced into the profession.

Exactly. Which often times just feels like an offshoot of whorephobia and sexism to me.

"A woman couldn't possibly be choosing to do this herself, women don't even enjoy sex". and more Victorian Era, Freudian, Angel Whore complex blah, blah, blah sexist bullshit, that conformist people swallow, without actually thinking about. Then regurgitate with half a chance, regardless, of how inaccurate the situation might be. But I digress.

I think it's helpful to highlight and point out these errors in thinking, stereotypes and tropes when we see them. So as to kind of debunk, and stop perpetuating harmful garbage thinking.

 

[punker barbie]

Hi @lulu_only_fans Support has confirmed that they have received your email and is currently being looked into. We appreciate your patience. Support will get back to you as soon as possible.

 

[Squinkle]

Well that's incredibly unfair. I saw a model last month who had a bruise that covered her entire thigh! It was swollen and huuuuggge. She said she fell down a storm drain. Ouch.

...but she's a top model so it's ok apparently. She didn't get banned.

Sorry they are treating you unfairly. I hope you get it resolved.

 

[BrookeRidess]

We're u able to get back on cam?

 

[lulu_only_fans]

Curious were you Abel to get this resolved

Nope. I continue to email them and the email above from 10/28 is the last non-automated response I’ve received. Is @punker barbie still responsive on here?

 

[lulu_only_fans]

We're u able to get back on cam?

Nope. I continue to email them and the email above from 10/28 is the last non-automated response I’ve received. Is @punker barbie still responsive on here?

 

[lulu_only_fans]

Curious were you Abel to get this resolved

Nope. I continue to email them and the email above from 10/28 is the last non-automated response I’ve received. Is @punker barbie still responsive on here?

 

[lulu_only_fans]

Well that's incredibly unfair. I saw a model last month who had a bruise that covered her entire thigh! It was swollen and huuuuggge. She said she fell down a storm drain. Ouch.

...but she's a top model so it's ok apparently. She didn't get banned.

Sorry they are treating you unfairly. I hope you get it resolved.

Ugh this infuriates me. The e-mail from above is the last I’ve received and I email over and over again.

 

[lulu_only_fans]

We're u able to get back on cam?

Nope. The above email is the last non- automated a received and I’ve emailed over and over again. I think people should be aware but I’ve been trying to give them opportunity to correct the problem. If I don’t hear back from them today I’m going to give up and make sure as many people on every platform I have are aware. I tried camsoda vut it’s not the same. But they literally have a 24/7 online support person available and phone number and fix your issues immediately.

 

[lulu_only_fans]

Hi @lulu_only_fans Support has confirmed that they have received your email and is currently being looked into. We appreciate your patience. Support will get back to you as soon as possible.

I’ve still received nothing but automated responses. I even followed up by sending a copy of my ticket for the date I was there and still cannot broadcast. I’ve sent numerous e-mails and no explanation whatsoever.

 

[lulu_only_fans]

Gosh scary to realize some sites ban for bruises Even if it were from DV @sparks1957 how is banning someone from their independent income helpful? I don't get your thinking on that at all??? And how would that be a cam site's judgement call? Sorry, but to me, that sounds ridiculous.

Anyways, sorry you are dealing with this OP Seems unfair.

I am overwhelmed by responses and appreciate everyone’s support! I just saw @punker barbie did respond 10 days ago saying it was being reviewed and I continue to send emails but have gotten nothing but automated responses. The above email from 10/28 is the last. I have tried other platforms but was really invested in chaturbate and felt my potential for growth was greater. I tried camsoda and it’s not for me but they have 24/7 customer support by phone or an online representative who resolves you issues immediately. If I don’t get a response by today I’m just going to give up but not without trying to make some type of impact even if it’s little. I have a lawyer calling me today. I’m trying to see who monitors chaturbate and if I can report them. It’s discrimination at the very least. Also, try to get my story out to as many broadcasters as possible. Luckily I wasn’t there for too long but imagine being a broadcaster who has built themselves for years. Scary the lack of security that all that work and your liveliness is subject to. At any point in time it’s gone! For me because I went to an event sponsored by then them to support them? I’m a single mother of 4 and was tired from my job. I am a RN and the nurse burnout is real and I just need some time and this was such a good opportunity. I love the vibes from the users and other models. Even at the expo the whole atmosphere was just all love and positivity. I was so excited to get home and stream about it and I was banned mid-stream. I was talking to my girlfriend who is also a RN and she was telling me about her new job and it was so triggering. Like why are nurses so cruel to eachother and we’re suppose to be caregivers but camgirls (who you would think would be more catty) are all about empowering one another.

 

[lulu_only_fans]

Curious were you Abel to get this resolved

Nothing authored responses since 10/28.

 

[lulu_only_fans]

Nothing but automated responses since 10/28.

Automated

 

[lulu_only_fans]

Is this in the TOS somewhere that you can’t broadcast with injuries?

The platform reaching out I get, but a ban when you’re not in imminent danger feels silly

Still banned a month later.

 

[lulu_only_fans]

So what happens if someone got into an accident had obvious signs of bruising but still need to stream because they have bills to pay?

Fuck them i guess. This is too extreme of a reaction. I have never seen any other site do this.

It’s scary the lack of job security. Imagine people who have built their name up and invested in this site for years.

 

[lulu_only_fans]

They took about six days to disappear and I have sent multiple emails indicating so. There are also multiple conditions that could cause someone to bruise easily. Would they be discriminated against? Another model also commented on a top model having similar bruises and never being banned so once again the question of discrimination continuously comes in question.