Another Does She Like Me Thread...lol.

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Forum tip: You need to move your replies to quotes *outside* of the bracketed quoted post, otherwise it's very hard to discern which text is your response and which text is the original quote. Like this!

 

[trogdor81]

Forum tip: You need to move your replies to quotes *outside* of the bracketed quoted post, otherwise it's very hard to discern which text is your response and which text is the original quote. Like this!

Ok, I think I got the memo!

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Ok, I think I got the memo!

Nice. And! If you are trying to reply to individual sections of a post, you can highlight that text and then click "quote" on the pop-up, which will add that to the multi-quote. Then click "insert quotes" beneath the reply field, and it will populate the text area with the quotes you can then respond to.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

Nice. And! If you are trying to reply to individual sections of a post, you can highlight that text and then click "quote" on the pop-up, which will add that to the multi-quote. Then click "insert quotes" beneath the reply field, and it will populate the text area with the quotes you can then respond to.

I find it easier to just type out the quote syntax for what I was since I'm already cutting out portions of the text. Personal preference is all.

 

[trogdor81]

individual sections of a post

I got it! Took a few tries though....

 

[AnaBee]

Where is she from? Why is that such important piece of info that can’t be revealed?

 

[Just_A_Guy]

Depending on where he lives and how tickets are booked, he'd need much more than just a full name and address.

Yeah you are right. that's true.

I've been taken advantage

Force, I'm 100% sure that bad and past experiences have made you a better person. That's what happened to me and I believe is what happens to everybody. The most valuable lessons are the bad ones, I believe. Our mistakes, Our failures. We all learn our lessons the hard way, we move on, and always remember those lessons trying not to repeat the past mistakes.

That said, quarantine has sort of put me in a philosophical mood. You mentioned in another thread that you are a Virgo just like me. Well, from a Virgo to another one, we know very well that life doesn't give you any lemon so that you can make a lemonde. Life only gives you shit and it's very hard to make lemonade out of shit. But we, as Virgos, somehow always manage to make the best lemonade.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

Force, I'm 100% sure that bad and past experiences have made you a better person. That's what happened to me and I believe is what happens to everybody. The most valuable lessons are the bad ones, I believe. Our mistakes, Our failures. We all learn our lessons the hard way, we move on, and always remember those lessons trying not to repeat the past mistakes.

That said, quarantine has sort of put me in a philosophical mood. You mentioned in another thread that you are a Virgo just like me. Well, from a Virgo to another one, we know very well that life doesn't give you any lemon so that you can make a lemonde. Life only gives you shit and it's very hard to make lemonade out of shit. But we, as Virgos, somehow always manage to make the best lemonade.

Very true, and agreed. I look at my past experiences as learning lessons, always try to make something positive out of the shittiest of situations. I don't look at my being taken advantage of as my being a victim, nor jaded for them. It happens, we learn and move it.

Similar to you, I've used this quarantine as a reflective and philosophical time. It's given me a different perspective of what I think is important and what I used to isn't necessarily so anymore.

Thanks.

 

[Herein2020]

I got divorced 10 years ago - was with her for almost 9 years and ya - if the end of your marriage was anything like mine I really need to get laid after roughly a year in the ice chamber we called our bedroom =) So I roamed - met lots of ladies and even went down to Reno to one of those anything is allowed ranches to spend 40 minutes for $1,000 with a porn star hahahha. All of it was crazy but it took what it took to get back on the path. Met a lady after that and was with her for 10 years and COVID was the final nail in that relationship as I had to return to my country. So rebounding was fine for me and I rebounded a lot before settling down again before and the cams are helping get over this one =) So keep bouncing - don't stay down =) Be safe though =)

 

[dark_mermaid]

I wish you good luck. But whatever happens, please report back.

 

[trogdor81]

Don’t listen to all the advice from people who work in the industry and see stories like yours every few months...

You are special! You both are!

How could they, or anyone else, know the special connection you have with this girl. To everyone else she might not be real, she is just pixels on a screen that magically arrange themselves into a form that delights all men, but to you she is a real person. Somehow through undersea cables, through satellites, through radio waves, your souls have joined. What was once only a digital dream has become real in your hearts.

You know that when you finally meet in person a new life for both of you will start, she is what you have desired, what you have hoped for all your life. You are a good person, you deserve a happy life with a beautiful young woman who will make all your fantasies come true. We both know that you will devote yourself to her, to give her a life with her soulmate, you will give her the life that she deserves. It is just cruel fate that has put her in this position and with your help she can achieve the life she deserves, the life that you will give her...

Ask yourself, how can anyone be so cruel as to deny all this? How can no one else see that destiny has brought you together, in a world that is so full of misery? The universe deserves that the two of you have a happy ending, just like in Pretty Woman.

Just don’t forget to tattoo your back first; to mark the day when your life took a turn.

I was thinking more of a face tattoo like Post Malone.

 

[trogdor81]

I got divorced 10 years ago - was with her for almost 9 years and ya - if the end of your marriage was anything like mine I really need to get laid after roughly a year in the ice chamber we called our bedroom =) So I roamed - met lots of ladies and even went down to Reno to one of those anything is allowed ranches to spend 40 minutes for $1,000 with a porn star hahahha. All of it was crazy but it took what it took to get back on the path. Met a lady after that and was with her for 10 years and COVID was the final nail in that relationship as I had to return to my country. So rebounding was fine for me and I rebounded a lot before settling down again before and the cams are helping get over this one =) So keep bouncing - don't stay down =) Be safe though =)

Dude, I haven't had sex in like 2.5 years and that's not even the worst part of how my marriage ended. I'm over the shitshow relationshit that was my marriage, but I'm not even in the right mindset to start or want to have a relationship right now. Thanks, I plan to just have fun and not do any thing too crazy within reason.

 

[Marceline]

If you do ever end up meeting her, especially if it’s when you’re traveling in her country, just be smart and do so in a very public place for your own safety. Not saying sketchy things only happen in foreign countries, because I knew someone (family friend’s son) in the US who got hooked pretty bad on drugs and him and his girlfriend tricked some guy on a dating site into thinking he was meeting up with the girl and then the two of them beat the shit out of the guy and robbed him. That terrible shit can happen anywhere. However, if it happens in a foreign country it’s a lot less likely that the local police would care about a foreigner and things could go a lot worse than just getting beat up and robbed.

 

[MarieElise]

That's the most important and profound question asked in this whole thread.
I'm a tad worried too.
Please let us know what's gonna happen to your sweet dogs in that scenario.

Glad I'm not the only one who was worrying about the dogs. That was the one part of this, I got emotional over, the dog (s). They are so sweet and loyal, and stay with us through so much.

Not that I don't hope the best for @trogdor81. It's just so far, his situation doesn't sound completely out of control, like some others have. I know from my counselor days that most people have a hard time when a marriage fails, but it sounds like it's been a while, and he seems pretty balanced. I always feel bad when I hear of any marriage failing, because I know that in 95% of cases, its a really big loss for both parties involved. Like Dark Mermaid, I also hope that you let us know how this progresses, and whether you go to visit etc @trogdor81 .

ETA; I would watch your thinking on anything if you have not had sex in 2.5 years. I can only speak from my own experience, but I once went 5 years, and was really making some SUPER, super insane decisions. I firmly believe, that in some cases celibacy, can lead to total insanity. And by some cases, I guess I mean my own. Not having sex regularly, has never served me well. So just a friendly warning there. It really clouds decision making and rational thinking SEVERELY.

 

[trogdor81]

Glad I'm not the only one who was worrying about the dogs. That was the one part of this, I got emotional over, the dog (s). They are so sweet and loyal, and stay with us through so much.

Not that I don't hope the best for @trogdor81. It's just so far, his situation doesn't sound completely out of control, like some others have. I know from my counselor days that most people have a hard time when a marriage fails, but it sounds like it's been a while, and he seems pretty balanced. I always feel bad when I hear of any marriage failing, because I know that in 95% of cases, its a really big loss for both parties involved. Like Dark Mermaid, I also hope that you let us know how this progresses, and whether you go to visit etc @trogdor81 .

ETA; I would watch your thinking on anything if you have not had sex in 2.5 years. I can only speak from my own experience, but I once went 5 years, and was really making some SUPER, super insane decisions. I firmly believe, that in some cases celibacy, can lead to total insanity. And by some cases, I guess I mean my own. Not having sex regularly, has never served me well. So just a friendly warning there. It really clouds decision making and rational thinking SEVERELY.

I love my dogs one of them I have had for 16 years and the other is the only good thing that came out of my marriage. I didn't fight her on too much of anything (I wanted her out of my life and gone), but said "I'm keeping the dog."

I was in a verbal, mental, emotional, and sometimes physically abusive relationship. With someone who has major issues and probably a personality disorder. I caught her sending nudes to another man and her response was to lie, call me crazy, and then physically assault me after I showed her the proof. I had black and blue welts going up and down my whole arm it was pretty bad, but like a dumb ass I didn't report her to the police (she works with kids, so I didn't want to jeopardize her job). She told our counselor on our first session I was paranoid and delusional to cover lies involving who she was with. We were separated since Dec 2017 and the divorce was final this past October and I have three months left of alimony to pay her. I had some kind of real big fucked up trauma bond involving her and it took me awhile to work on that and get over it (I still am kind of). I could write a 50 page novel about how terrible it was, so I think I am in the 5% where it wasn't a big loss other than monetarily for me and my sanity for a few years.

I also owned my home prior to meeting/marrying her and I feel it's kind of tainted now. Which, is the real reason I am trying to determine if I should sell/rent my home out, which has nothing to do with a cam model. I haven't told her that much about my marriage other than she knows I am divorced and we had a lot compatibility issues and that's about it. She did come across photos my mom still had up of us from a few years ago (she told me my ex was beautiful and I cringed), so I had to go untag myself from them.

Everything I've been thinking of doing was decided WAY before I even started talking to this model. I still have another 4/5 months before I can even go anywhere, so it's not like I am making any rash decisions soon and a lot can change by then. There was a lot stuff from my background that I didn't include in my post, because I didn't think it would be relevant. But, I'm not a lovesick obsessed client with a model who wants to run off, make my life revolve around her, and drain my 401K or get a ridiculous back tattoo.

I just thought it was extremely odd for a model to give me her personal information and I even know how much money she has. I don't even remember why, but she told me and then showed me her bank account balance. I also know a lot about her personal life that I just thought would be odd to share with someone if you are trying to scam or lie to them. I understand talking to someone online though you can feel like you have a connection to someone. Who knows maybe she can pick up I might be empathetic and sympathetic and that's how she is trying to scam me if she is. If I meet her cool and if I don't then I am also fine with it.

I'll be sure to update as everything gets closer.

She's from one of the countries that was a part of Yugoslavia.

 

[Shiningwolf]

Sorry, but unpopular opinion, I'm not gonna be the one to encourage unhealthy behavior, so don't mind all the ladies buying into your sob story. No offence dude but you met a hot girl on the internet and you're so invested how do you know she's been playing you like a fiddle ? How do you know the truths she told you are not figments? You gotta think deeply there must be men in her home town why she reaching out if she's got local guys. How do you know she does not have a boyfriend ? Most importantly why are you in love with someone you don't even know on a personal level ? For example am I gonna fall in love with a Barista at Starbucks cause she smiles at me ? Sounds like infatuation to the highest degree.

 

[Beawaresweety]

But.. but he isn't in love.

IMHO, but OP is one of the most sane and polite dudes who came here with the same problem.

I don't see a single reason to give him some "reality check" or tell him to fuck off because he's being reasonable.

I don't think he's delusional (I haven't seen any signs of insanity in his posts).

I wish him good luck.
Thanks for not putting the forum on the newer level of craziness
(other *does she like me* dudes have done this exact thing during the past month).

 

[Shiningwolf]

But.. but he isn't in love.

IMHO, but OP is one of the most sane and polite dudes who came here with the same problem.

I don't see a single reason to give him some "reality check" or tell him to fuck off because he's being reasonable.

I don't think he's delusional (I haven't seen any signs of insanity in his posts).

I wish him good luck.
Thanks for not putting the forum on the newer level of craziness
(other *does she like me* dudes have done this exact thing during the past month).

That is irrelevant if he is polite or not. I don't like giving people false hope cause it often leads to a soul crushing conclusion. You Ladies are encouraging him to fly across the country quit his job for a women he never even met that is unhealthy in my books. LDR usually never workout unless you pour a lot of money into them. I could search a random girl from Europe and hit on her doesn't give me the right to wanna get involved in her life. Is it an impossibility no. Is it unlikely and she is milking him ? More than likely.

 

[MarieElise]

That is irrelevant if he is polite or not. I don't like giving people false hope cause it often leads to a soul crushing conclusion. You Ladies are encouraging him to fly across the country quit his job for a women he never even met that is unhealthy in my books. LDR usually never workout unless you pour a lot of money into them. I could search a random girl from Europe and hit on her doesn't give me the right to wanna get involved in her life. Is it an impossibility no. Is it unlikely and she is milking him ? More than likely.

What are you talking about? He has stated clearly, SEVERAL times, that he planned on traveling, before he even met her. Fair enough if you have a different point of view, that's the beauty of discussion, but what are you basing it off of? Want to go ahead and communicate that before you tell "us ladies" what we are, and are not doing? Because to me you are coming off like you know what is in OPs mind, as well as ours, and that's not possible Bud. I'm also wondering if your remarks are bordering on sexist, hence my calling you "Bud", in the way that I have. Which is not characteristic of me.

Are you just being aggressive for the sake of it? Like go work out or something, if that is the case.

 

[Shiningwolf]

What are you talking about? He has stated clearly, SEVERAL times, that he planned on traveling, before he even met her. Fair enough if you have a different point of view, that's the beauty of discussion, but what are you basing it off of? Want to go ahead and communicate that before you tell "us ladies" what we are, and are not doing? Because to me you are coming off like you know what is in OPs mind, as well as ours, and that's not possible Bud. I'm also wondering if your remarks are bordering on sexist, hence my calling you "Bud", in the way that I have. Which is not characteristic of me.

I'm not degrading anybody I never said women were any less you're putting words into my mouth, but its a story as old as time a guy falls in love with a performer. I never said he could not travel and enjoy himself, just that LDR cost a lot of money and investment. I'm basing it off the countless guys who thought they were in love to only come to realization that you can't be in love with someone you don't even know on a personal level but I'll keep quit and let him quit his job and try to find work in a country will offer him half of what he currently making but you seem to know what is healthy so more power,

 

[MarieElise]

I'm not degrading anybody I never said women were any less you're putting words into my mouth, but its a story as old as time a guy falls in love with a performer. I never said he could not travel and enjoy himself, just that LDR cost a lot of money and investment. I'm basing it off the countless guys who thought they were in love to only come to realization that you can't be in love with someone you don't even know on a personal level but I'll keep quit and let him quit his job and try to find work in a country will offer him half of what he currently making but you seem to know what is healthy so more power,

Wow, just wow. I like to go off of what people are actually saying, and not assume things about others, based off of the past. If I'm wrong I'm wrong, but I like to keep an open mind.

Why does the sex of the last 3 posters matter, if you are not being sexist? Force has been taking the time to understand his story too, and yet somehow it's just us ladies, that are encouraging him. You just don't make any sense. Why even mention "ladies" at all, in the way that you did. It came off to me like you were saying that because we are women, we are therefore gullible.

This guy has never said a thing to make me think he is "in love" as you put it. What are you even talking about?

He never once said he was quitting his job?

Um, not continuing to have a convo with someone who is basically talking gibberish. Please do be quiet now though, that would be nice
ETA; This thread had taken a pretty civil and positive direction, before you had to bring your weird conclusion jumping, personal party of 1 into it.

 

[Shiningwolf]

Wow, just wow. I like to go off of what people are actually saying, and not assume things about others, based off of the past. If I'm wrong I'm wrong, but I like to keep an open mind.

Why does the sex of the last 3 posters matter, if you are not being sexist. Force has been taking the time to understand his story too, and yet somehow its just us ladies, that are encouraging him. You just don't make any sense. Why even mention "ladies" at all, in the way that you did. It came off to me like you were saying that because we are women, we are therefore gullible.

This guy has never said a thing to make me think he is "in love" as you put it. What are you even talking about?

He never once said he was quitting his job?

Um not continuing to have a convo with someone who is basically talking gibberish. Please do be quiet now though, that would be nice

Well that's fine agree to disagree you opinion is not fact so yeah let;'s see how it pans out. Btw you got no right to take away someone free speech that is sexist you know ?

 

[MarieElise]

Well that's fine agree to disagree you opinion is not fact so yeah let;'s see how it pans out. Btw you got no right to take away someone free speech that is sexist you know ?

I'm putting you on ignore now, because you honestly make no coherent sense. Maybe sober up or something. Bye bye now.

 

[Shiningwolf]

I'm putting you on ignore now, because you honestly make no coherent sense. Maybe sober up or something. Bye bye now.

Could careless just another ignorant living in bliss who is not open to discussion but resorts to running away and name calling. I don't like opinionated people anyway

 

[Mila_]

That is irrelevant if he is polite or not. I don't like giving people false hope cause it often leads to a soul crushing conclusion. You Ladies are encouraging him to fly across the country quit his job for a women he never even met that is unhealthy in my books. LDR usually never workout unless you pour a lot of money into them. I could search a random girl from Europe and hit on her doesn't give me the right to wanna get involved in her life. Is it an impossibility no. Is it unlikely and she is milking him ? More than likely.

Did you even read OPs posts? Ours? Sounds like you skimmed at best. Most of us adviced him against going, it is not cross country but to another continent, OP is not going to quit his job, he has a job that he can do remotely from anywhere in the world, and he is giving up on nothing to go. Sounds like you didnt even read a single post here.

My first impression of OP is he is more articulate and smart than most guys getting scammed and he seems to have a good head on his shoulders, it has only been confirmed as the thread progresses. I personally did not encourage him to travel to meet this camgirl because I am of the opinion that he is in all likelihood being played. The majority of us adviced him against traveling to meet her, the minority is telling him there is nothing wrong with a little risk and it might even be fun. The reason I don't share that opinion is because we also know sometimes the mob owns camgirl studios in EE and I am more afraid for his safety than his feelings, anyone traveling to a foreign country they dont even speak the language is already in a vulnerable position... however, if he does choose to go ahead with it, I wish him nothing but good luck and fun times.

 

[Shiningwolf]

Did you even read OPs posts? Ours? Sounds like you skimmed at best. Most of us adviced him against going, it is not cross country but to another continent, OP is not going to quit his job, he has a job that he can do remotely from anywhere in the world, and he is giving up on nothing to go. Sounds like you didnt even read a single post here.

My first impression of OP is he is more articulate and smart than most guys getting scammed and he seems to have a good head on his shoulders, it has only been confirmed as the thread progresses. I personally did not encourage him to travel to meet this camgirl because I am of the opinion that he is in all likelihood being played. The majority of us adviced him against traveling to meet her, the minority is telling him there is nothing wrong with a little risk and it might even be fun. The reason I don't share that opinion is because we also know sometimes the mob owns camgirl studios in EE and I am more afraid for his safety than his feelings, anyone traveling to a foreign country they dont even speak the language is already in a vulnerable position... however, if he does choose to go ahead with it, I wish him nothing but good luck and fun times.

I agree I'm not some cynical asshole who wants to see OP not succeed, hell if he finds love more power to him. he is a lucky guy. I just don't keep quiet about someone one being taken advantage of. But like the last girl guess should resort to name calling and telling people to not share their opinions cause it does not coincide with my beliefs

 

[Herein2020]

Dude, I haven't had sex in like 2.5 years and that's not even the worst part of how my marriage ended. I'm over the shitshow relationshit that was my marriage, but I'm not even in the right mindset to start or want to have a relationship right now. Thanks, I plan to just have fun and not do any thing too crazy within reason.

For me was over a year without any - stayed faithful too as didn't want to bringing no bad diseases back into the home. So ya - once was free - had to make sure the gear still worked other than in my hand =) And it did =) Never did marry again and won't and the lady I was with for 10 years - she knew that. I never lived with her or her with me - rented a duplex and her and her kids on 1 side and me on the other side - no common law happening. Paid all the bills - left her setup for life as was the ex - so its all good - and I get to roam =) Free at last - for 2nd time =)

 

[Herein2020]

Here is my thought - the hustle girls need to be joining this forum so they can add to these threads their success in meeting great guys when they did cam and how happy they are now. Got married - had 2 kids and bought big house. Let them know there is love to be found on the cam sites and just keep working on getting to meet her =) I guess this in love with cam girl is the same as thinking the girl on the corner selling her body for $80 does it because she likes sex. NOT. Maybe the cam girls are streaming as they are so horny they need 4 to 6 hours of sex everyday NOT. They are there to make money - that is the end of the story. Why would she give up money from hundreds of guys to count on money from 1 guy - not going to happen. I don't have the app but swipe up and down on your phone and hookup with some local girls =) Or just enjoy the fantasy of the cams =) OH and ya - I don't get into twitter, instagram or whatsapp with the cam girls - ONLY because I need to detach too and if I was getting reminders everyday of how great she is then I can see the love cycle happening =) Stay free my man =)

 

[Herein2020]

I agree I'm not some cynical asshole who wants to see OP not succeed, hell if he finds love more power to him. he is a lucky guy. I just don't keep quiet about someone one being taken advantage of. But like the last girl guess should resort to name calling and telling people to not share their opinions cause it does not coincide with my beliefs

I am cynical hahaha - and nothing I like more than Back Tattoo threads. Last one that same lady pointed out to make sure used the right font for maximum exposure. This one though did add putting in on the penis with some mention of balls and the tears could act as lube so ya - I literally have tears in my eyes right now from laughing so hard.

 

[Herein2020]

Instead of a back tattoo, maybe go for something a bit more unique: a penis tattoo. That way every time you go to a camsite to masturbate, you can look down and "ohhhh yeah, shit" and then close the site - a cruel reminder to stay away from them

I am literaly pasting this into my notes- too classic =)