Annoying things members do

[ComicOzzie]

Guys who come in a model's room asking how many tokens every single thing costs (videos, c2c, Skype, etc) when those answers are available either in the topic or on her profile, and oh, the guy is showing zero tokens!!!!

 

[AutumnDayKink]

Emailing me several times a day on my twitter comes to mind! lol

I had a wannabe-sub-boy DM me about three times a day on twitter for a while. I'm happy to follow people on twitter, mostly other cam girls or guys who have tipped me/been fun to talk to. This particular guy tipped me once (worth $2.50) and then whined for my attention daily. He wheedled and fussed and tried to guilt me about hurting his feelings when I told him I wouldn't give away any services for free. I finally got rid of him with this message and, you know, I'm okay with hurting his feelings.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

Guys who come in a model's room asking how many tokens every single thing costs (videos, c2c, Skype, etc) when those answers are available either in the topic or on her profile, and oh, the guy is showing zero tokens!!!!

I always thought judging someone by them having zero tokens showing to be a bit short sighted. The truth is, with token storage, a model has no way of knowing how many tokens someone has. Nor does it take into account them buying some.

In the past I've kept tokens in storage as a way of keeping them 'out of sight out of mind' to save them for certain models later. But I'd see one model I wanted to take private, or i just HAD to have a raffle ticket... Now I always keep my tokens and RP's hidden, but if she had looked at my tokens and saw zero and told me off in the room like so many seem to do, I'd have gotten annoyed. I would have shut down the storage page where I was about to transfer enough tokens back to do the private and forgot about her.

There's also been many times where I've had the 'buy more tokens' page up, filled out and ready to submit. And I was just waiting to see if she would be willing to do something for that amount, or find out how much she wanted for something. So my tokens showing zero in that case is meaningless. A single confirmation from her and a click from me can put all the tokens needed into my account instantly.

I realize there's many people who ask about stuff with no intentions of getting tokens. But models that publicly get annoyed with people for asking about things, while showing zero tokens, are pretty naive of how the site works and really are screwing themselves over.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

I realize there's many people who ask about stuff with no intentions of getting tokens. But models that publicly get annoyed with people for asking about things, while showing zero tokens, are pretty naive of how the site works and really are screwing themselves over.

Just an edit to preemptively avoid any people tempted to argue. Yes, I understand if they show 20 reward points, no tokens, been on mfc for a year... Then they aren't going to be tipping. I get that already. Not the type of people I was talking about in the previous post.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

@JerryBoBerry @ComicOzzie

The way I took it was "Why can't the guy just freakin' read the damn profile?!"

I agree that judging based on tokens is ridiculous, but I have also seen the habit of members who ask for the price of a 50 item shopping list...then don't buy a damn thing. Personally I wish every cam site simply said whether someone was on a free account or not, and not allow anyone to view the members money. Just because a ton of money is shown doesn't mean he'll tip either. It only leads to frustration on both sides.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

This guy said hi in my chat...I don't know if the sound cut for him, but I DID say hi back. He didn't say anything else, but another started chatting. I'm chatting with the other member when the above happens. I hate to know what lead to him having butthurt so easily.

I've also seen members do similar things before when a model doesn't IMMEDIATELY respond. If it really annoys you just leave, but no reason to act like a spoiled child about it.

Accidentally cropped it out, but he of course immediately left before I could say anything. I'm sure he huffed to himself saying something along the lines of "she doesn't care anyway" as well *sigh

 

[Jessi]

This guy said hi in my chat...I don't know if the sound cut for him, but I DID say hi back. He didn't say anything else, but another started chatting. I'm chatting with the other member when the above happens. I hate to know what lead to him having butthurt so easily.

I've also seen members do similar things before when a model doesn't IMMEDIATELY respond. If it really annoys you just leave, but no reason to act like a spoiled child about it.

Accidentally cropped it out, but he of course immediately left before I could say anything. I'm sure he huffed to himself saying something along the lines of "she doesn't care anyway" as well *sigh

Ah yes, the passive-agressive OK FINE ILL JUST GO THEN guy.

Even if I missed their greeting by accident, theres no way Im going to chase after someone who acts like that.

 

[ComicOzzie]

Idiots who speak in code...

todd678711:lol our pb 1.3 B

(He was referring to the PowerBall lottery rising to 1.3 billion next week)

 

[ComicOzzie]

Mansplaining basic stuff to a veteran model...

drillerking: pm?

drillerking: its a private msg...i sent it already

 

[AutumnDayKink]

Telling me you're going to splurge on some tokens but that you're not going to spend any of them on me. Ouch. Kind of rude. (this is from a regular who never tips but is fun to chat with so I don't ban him or anything) It just hurts because I've spent a lot of emotional energy talking to this guy, and I've enjoyed it but this is still work, let us not forget.

 

[MsRoxieBabe]

Member: Show me your boobies! Show me your boobies! Show me your boobies!

Me: Tip for a boobie flash, hun!

Member: I can't! Show me your pussy! Show me your pussy! Show me your pussy!

Me: Only in private or a group show

Member: show me your boobies and pussy. Show me your boobies and pussy.

Member: Screw you bitch. Don't tease show me something. Bitch!
Show me your boobies!
Show me your boobies!Show me your boobies!
Show me your boobies!
Show me your boobies!

 

[AutumnDayKink]

Show me your boobies!
Show me your boobies!Show me your boobies!
Show me your boobies!
Show me your boobies!

Can't tell you how many times I've had members/basics roll in and just shout TITS at me for a while.

 

[MsRoxieBabe]

Can't tell you how many times I've had members/basics roll in and just shout TITS at me for a while.

I was on for six hours and I had one member beg for boobies and booty for 4 1/2 hours. Every time I cam back from private he would still be there to boobie beg. Simply shouting to show him my boobs and pull off my panties. Then he started cussing because he said I went to private with that guy with a gym outfit fetish and he thinks its wierd , and was willing to do that. I was like uhhhh he paid for a 25 minute private show you have not tipped a penny. lol

 

[SaffronBurke]

Member: Show me your boobies! Show me your boobies! Show me your boobies!

Me: Tip for a boobie flash, hun!

Member: I can't! Show me your pussy! Show me your pussy! Show me your pussy!

Me: Only in private or a group show

Member: show me your boobies and pussy. Show me your boobies and pussy.

Member: Screw you bitch. Don't tease show me something. Bitch!
Show me your boobies!
Show me your boobies!Show me your boobies!
Show me your boobies!
Show me your boobies!

Anytime someone uses "boobies", I automatically assume that they're 10. I just don't know any adults who use that word unless they're talking to a kid.

 

[MDouble00]

Telling me you're going to splurge on some tokens but that you're not going to spend any of them on me.

That is such a dick move. Hopefully he is being sarcastic and is going to give you some if not all those tokens. Cause seriously total dick if he doesn't.

 

[AutumnDayKink]

That is such a dick move. Hopefully he is being sarcastic and is going to give you some if not all those tokens. Cause seriously total dick if he doesn't.

Alas, it's been over a week and I haven't seen a nickel. Looks like a dick move, unfortunately.

 

[MsRoxieBabe]

Anytime someone uses "boobies", I automatically assume that they're 10. I just don't know any adults who use that word unless they're talking to a kid.

I bet your right!

 

[acep]

Just an edit to preemptively avoid any people tempted to argue. Yes, I understand if they show 20 reward points, no tokens, been on mfc for a year... Then they aren't going to be tipping. I get that already. Not the type of people I was talking about in the previous post.

Forget 0/20s, I've lost count of how many guests and basics I've seen ask how much something costs. (I know that's not who you were talking about, I just always find those funny)

 

[ComicOzzie]

Asking really, really stupid questions...

wyoming133: are your boobs big enough for sucking? (asked of a model with 38DDD natural tits.)

 

[AmberCutie]

Asking really, really stupid questions...

wyoming133: are your boobs big enough for sucking? (asked of a model with 38DDD natural tits.)

Not all big boobs are easily self-suckable, though. I got some biggies, I can barely get mah lips around dem nips. (I assume member was asking if she could suck them, not if a 2nd person could get their mouth on them.)

 

[Guy]

Breasts are beautiful

 

[Alisa]

Not all big boobs are easily self-suckable, though. I got some biggies, I can barely get mah lips around dem nips. (I assume member was asking if she could suck them, not if a 2nd person could get their mouth on them.)

This. It has nothing to do with the size, but rather the shape and state of your skin. I have natural 36E boobs and I cannot even lick the nipples, because they are too firm for now. I tell nipple licking lovers to come back in 10 years.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Telling me you're going to splurge on some tokens but that you're not going to spend any of them on me. Ouch. Kind of rude. (this is from a regular who never tips but is fun to chat with so I don't ban him or anything) It just hurts because I've spent a lot of emotional energy talking to this guy, and I've enjoyed it but this is still work, let us not forget.

Ban/ignore him and start enjoying your cam life having friends who actually respect you. Your tipping regs hate him too, I promise

 

[AutumnDayKink]

Ban/ignore him and start enjoying your cam life having friends who actually respect you. Your tipping regs hate him too, I promise

Should I, I don't know, at least message him to let him know WHY I banned him?

 

[JoleneBrody]

Should I, I don't know, at least message him to let him know WHY I banned him?

You can do whatever obviously but my advice is to remove and reset.
A regular is someone who tips when he can and chats, even if those tips are sparse. A zero tipper who chats every day is a freeloader, and flaunting tipping others makes him an asshole free loader. Not a regular.

 

[sexyvanessa4u]

Telling other members to tip. If it's a non-tipper who does this, I have no problem with telling them off or banning them. But it's harder when it's a tipper. I had someone do this to me yesterday. I charge 10 tokens to PM me for the day and someone came in my room and asked for PM's. Another guy in my room (who was tipping me, not huge amounts, but he was the only one tipping at the time) posted the gif saying "10 tokens for PM." and he's not my moderator or anything. I wanted to tell him to stop, but I didn't want to piss him off because he was the only one tipping me at the time, but I think he was chasing other guys out of my room. I know members hate it when other members tell them to tip. I'm working on being more assertive.

 

[Entertainer33]

Ban/ignore him and start enjoying your cam life having friends who actually respect you. Your tipping regs hate him too, I promise

Depends how often he'd say it. See it once, I think "what a douche." More than that, maaaaaaybe I'd start to hate him.

Telling other members to tip. If it's a non-tipper who does this, I have no problem with telling them off or banning them. But it's harder when it's a tipper. I had someone do this to me yesterday. I charge 10 tokens to PM me for the day and someone came in my room and asked for PM's. Another guy in my room (who was tipping me, not huge amounts, but he was the only one tipping at the time) posted the gif saying "10 tokens for PM." and he's not my moderator or anything. I wanted to tell him to stop, but I didn't want to piss him off because he was the only one tipping me at the time, but I think he was chasing other guys out of my room. I know members hate it when other members tell them to tip. I'm working on being more assertive.

I'd PM the regular and ask nicely "Please don't tell others to tip in my room. I appreciate the thought, but I've got this." If they don't respect your wishes, yeah, not worth it.

I bite my lip, er, hold back the typing a lot in rooms where freeloaders ask for things. The ladies' have this.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Depends how often he'd say it. See it once, I think "what a douche." More than that, maaaaaaybe I'd start to hate him.

I dunno... if a member is in your favorite models room, who you tip to support, every day for weeks/months/years talking the whole night and not even once helping the room with goals... you wouldn't dislike him just on the grounds that he expects you to carry him?

I'm honestly curious. and I mean never tipping, like literally 0. I consider even 10 tokens a month a nice way to support the models you like.

 

[MDouble00]

Telling other members to tip. If it's a non-tipper who does this, I have no problem with telling them off or banning them. But it's harder when it's a tipper. I had someone do this to me yesterday. I charge 10 tokens to PM me for the day and someone came in my room and asked for PM's. Another guy in my room (who was tipping me, not huge amounts, but he was the only one tipping at the time) posted the gif saying "10 tokens for PM." and he's not my moderator or anything. I wanted to tell him to stop, but I didn't want to piss him off because he was the only one tipping me at the time, but I think he was chasing other guys out of my room. I know members hate it when other members tell them to tip. I'm working on being more assertive.

I don't know what it is but I'm bothered by this in different levels. I'm annoyed by this behavior more when I'm a regular and a guy that hasn't been around in a while comes in and starts dumping tokens on the model and trying to dominate the room and telling everyone what we should do or how we should act because they have arrived.

 

[Entertainer33]

I dunno... if a member is in your favorite models room, who you tip to support, every day for weeks/months/years talking the whole night and not even once helping the room with goals... you wouldn't dislike him just on the grounds that he expects you to carry him?

I'm honestly curious. and I mean never tipping, like literally 0. I consider even 10 tokens a month a nice way to support the models you like.

My understanding was he does support at times. It was that he taunted Autumn with "oh, maaaaybe I'll give you some tokens, I dunno" as if she should give something or beg for them. I give the unsociable a chance, but just one chance.