My God. I decided I feel like having anal sex again, but thought I'd actually train for it, so I typically google in a search and find this girl asking a question about anal sex. Here's pretty much how it goes. Her boyfriend broached the idea of anal sex with her, she didn't like the idea and said no. With time he mentioned it several more times and convinced her to try it. Soon as they do it he rams the whole thing in really fast, causing her serious pain, she had to make him stop immediately. She was basically asking if it is actually possible to not feel pain.
There is just so much wrong with this. Anal sex is fun, but it actually sickens me that guys will pressure their girlfriends into doing it. If I were with him and liked the idea of say... torturing him, or whipping him, and he said no, that would be the end of that. Anal sex can be very painful, I would bet this guy wouldn't let her ram a dildo straight up his arse if she said she thought it was sexy. It's that thing I see a lot with girls, a girl doesn't want to do it and the boyfriend pressures her into it because he watches it in porn. She starts feeling inadequate and feels she needs to please him so she gives in. He then takes absolutely no care into researching it and treats her arse like it's a pussy.
There was a reply with a girl explaining what worked with her, and saying with her boyfriend the first few times she tried she cried the entire time because it was so painful.... Is it just me who is thinking: How the fuck is this guy fucking his girlfriend there when it's giving her so much physical pain that she's in tears?! And he's still enjoying it?! How?
I'm sorry but this kind of crap is ridiculous. Pressuring a person into doing something way out of their comfort zone that'll probably cause them pain for your own pleasure, and then doing it and continuing even when it's causing them extreme pain. Not only can I not understand how this could be fun for a guy, but well, it's a bit too close to rape for my liking. Yes there's consent, but it's unwilling consent. It's consent only given because of emotional blackmail. I wish there were a word for this kind of thing.