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Carmita Bonita
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I wanted to add this : So we’re supposed to be receptive and agree to something that is both insulting and untrue stated from someone unnamed? Lol.
You asked if it’s true we’re bitter, we tried explaining we’re not and that you’re coming into this rudely (hence why you’re getting less than pleasing responses) , you don’t believe that we’re not bitter anyway so why even ask when you’ve already made up your mind when you’ve never even been into models only.
Many models myself included view mfc top 20 as sort of an exciting super bowl event. Models will and do get happy for others who climb the ranks and do well. We even have had threads about it congratulating others. I know this isn’t what other dudes like to hear-they want to believe we’re all about to get into a huge cat fight over members and money, that it’s this blood thirsty wrestling match but I honestly think camgirl drama is often overhyped and played up because members love it not because anyone is actually feeling that malicious. Drama happens and bitterness does happen in every industry ever. Making a sweeping assumption about a forum with upon hundreds of models is silly.
Some key points to take away:
No one needs to be top 20 to be successful and make an incredible living
Top 20 requires a degree of luck, insane work ethic and other factors. Forum or not you’re talking about a verrrry small percent of the camgirl population
Models are not nearly as bitter/jealous/dramatic/catty etc as men hope they are. There’s plenty of money and members to go around.
You asked if it’s true we’re bitter, we tried explaining we’re not and that you’re coming into this rudely (hence why you’re getting less than pleasing responses) , you don’t believe that we’re not bitter anyway so why even ask when you’ve already made up your mind when you’ve never even been into models only.
Many models myself included view mfc top 20 as sort of an exciting super bowl event. Models will and do get happy for others who climb the ranks and do well. We even have had threads about it congratulating others. I know this isn’t what other dudes like to hear-they want to believe we’re all about to get into a huge cat fight over members and money, that it’s this blood thirsty wrestling match but I honestly think camgirl drama is often overhyped and played up because members love it not because anyone is actually feeling that malicious. Drama happens and bitterness does happen in every industry ever. Making a sweeping assumption about a forum with upon hundreds of models is silly.
Some key points to take away:
No one needs to be top 20 to be successful and make an incredible living
Top 20 requires a degree of luck, insane work ethic and other factors. Forum or not you’re talking about a verrrry small percent of the camgirl population
Models are not nearly as bitter/jealous/dramatic/catty etc as men hope they are. There’s plenty of money and members to go around.
MarieElise
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If a person is gonna get jealous, rageful or greedy that's their own internal, subjective thing. Based on their mindset, emotions (that particular moment), and interpretation of information. This site is really supportive and positive. But just like anything in life, if a person wants to take something negative from it (consciously or even subconsciously) they will. It's a lot easier to blame everyone else, and the external, than to cop to one's own shortcomings and weaknesses. As an example, I will use myself. I'm human, I'm weak, I have LOTS of shortcomings. I have times where my business is slow, maybe I feel less great about myself/ my looks etc etc. I can come on here, or Twitter, and see how great some other model is looking, and doing, and feel a pang of jealousy. Sure. It happens.
However, I register that feeling, and realize that that other model has done absolutely nothing to cause that. That is my own weakness. Not their fault, nor the site they are on communicatings fault. I'm not gonna use that negative feeling, inside of me, to say something shitty to that model. I'm gonna use it to motivate myself to up my game. Start a new workout routine, try a different type of hustle, film more clips. Not tear someone else, who is likely reaping the rewards of their hard labor, down. It's just human to feel negative emotions, but it's our own choice how we act on upon them, and whether we can turn them into fuel that will motivate us (a defense mechanism named transmutaion, I believe), or some kind of self-imploding, shit exploding, disaster. Negative energy is still energy, and can be used.
ETA; And it would be a cool world if we could all support each other, rather than tear eachother down. If a model is going off about this forum, maybe their feelings are hurt about something complex, or they feel socially rejected or something. That sucks, and I feel for anyone who is going through negative or pain. However, it's not fair to blame the forum for this. Something likely happened that, that person also has personal responsibility in.
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It would be naive to think that there aren't models out there that don't like ACF, don't like me, don't like how they were treated here, etc. It happens. We are a bunch of humans, we have reactions and opinions and feelings that don't vibe well with everyone all the time.
And this is true for the MOST part, but there have definitely been interactions both in the public section and in the models only section that weren't all sunshine and rainbows. There have certainly been people who left with a bad taste in their mouth, or were even banned due to their attitude or behavior that no doubt are unhappy with this place.
Shit happens.
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I'm did not disagree with you. You are actually one of the nice cam models.
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DaisyTheKat
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I haven't been on this forum very long, but I've seen several models and members admit when they're wrong. Just because we're right on this thread doesn't mean we can't admit when we're not.
I think you also need to learn that someone disagreeing with you isn't an attack. You've been just as rude or more than most of the replies from other people on this thread. You expressed your opinion, and we expressed our disagreement. This doesn't make us bitter or rude.
You're completely free to think what you will of us, but there's no reason to be mean to others who think differently.
Thank you for your contribution. Your opinion is greatly appreciated. And welcome to the Camming World
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