Advice for a model friend?

[JimsX]

An MFC model friend of mine has been dealing with a harassing premium for months. He started off fine, doing privates and Skype shows (for cash, a mistake she admits). She changed her mind on the Skype after he got really demanding. Now he goes to her room daily, doing the occasional private, but mostly just sitting there not saying a word. Then he will pm her ranting about he is not welcome in her room and that she ignores him (both true). She has banned him but he uses a proxy to come back using another account of his (obvious it is him).

Today he again asked for Skype; she said no and told him to never ask again. He then went all passive aggressive saying that he has been her friend for years and how can she treat him this way; saying that he tries his best to support the prostitutes on MFC, but they reject his help; he just wants her to get all the money for a show and is just looking out for her (yet he slipped and said he thinks MFC private is too expensive).

She is not the first model he has treated this way. I know of 4 others who have been through the same thing with him. Is this a bannable offense? I know that guys do far worse things on MFC, but the biggest fear this woman has is he told her he has hundreds of pictures and dozens of videos of her. She is in a country where camming is illegal and worries about what he might do, spreading her stuff online.

Is there any point in her reporting him? Any point in my reporting him?

 

[JerryBoBerry]

Then he will pm her ranting about he is not welcome in her room and that she ignores him (both true).

But has she put him ON ignore? Make it so he knows none of his shit can ever be read by her again or seen in her room and he may lose interest. If he makes another account and gets back in, just keep on putting him on ignore.

 

[JimsX]

Then he will pm her ranting about he is not welcome in her room and that she ignores him (both true).

But has she put him ON ignore? Make it so he knows none of his shit can ever be read by her again or seen in her room and he may lose interest. If he makes another account and gets back in, just keep on putting him on ignore.

Hadn't even thought of this. This might work better than banning him.

 

[Leon_Omega]

Tbh, if he has all the stuff he says he has, there's no point in worrying about that since he's unhappy now. If he's the sharing type, it'll get uploaded regardless of what she does. Personally, I'd point out to him that him making new accounts takes a lot more effort than her ignoring them. I had a lot of success pointing that out to trolls on CB whenever I modded. "You go through all the effort of making a new account, it takes me two clicks and an enter to get rid of them. Are you really THAT bored?"

She lives in a country where camming is illegal, but does he have any personal information on her? Because if he doesn't, it'll be difficult for him to effectively blackmail her.

I don't think any price is too high to pay to avoid having to deal with harassment on a daily basis. :twocents-02cents:

 

[Nordling]

I think I'd just ban him whenever he shows up. If camming is truly illegal in her country, she may not want to report him for this...since MFC may ban her to cover their ass.

And ban him without comment. It's obvious that attention is his main desire. Flick of the wrist and a click of a button...gone. Eventually, he'll give up when he gets no response other than making him create another name.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

I've had this happen, and it's really annoying. You ban, and ignore, but their creepy lil name just sits there watching you...I really wish MFC would do what SM does and ban card numbers rather than IP...it just asks for more people harassing models. It's one of the few things I liked about SM when I worked there.

 

[JimsX]

Thanks guys. I will talk to her tomorrow and advise that she put him on ignore and keep banning if necessary. Sucks that she would have to do that, but she worries about him spreading her image around. I have talked to him several times and personally I think he is just a cowardly little prick, but I have seen him go ballistic on another model and make her cry on cam. This lady is in the Philippines, so she is right to worry, as it is illegal there. Unfortunately he has her real name and city (but not address or phone number) since she did accept cash for shows in the past.

The point about MFC dumping her as the easier option has some merit I think, since Thai models were banned after the Mila Milan shit. I will suggest she hold off on reporting him. Sad it has to be that way.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

Why not have her sign up for ACF?

I have got to believe that this issue has come up in the models only section on more than one occasion. For security reasons I think sounds like something best dealt with in the model only section.

 

[JimsX]

Why not have her sign up for ACF?

I have got to believe that this issue has come up in the models only section on more than one occasion. For security reasons I think sounds like something best dealt with in the model only section.

Good idea. I will give her the link next time I see her.