I always seemed to get a lot of private requests since day one. And I kinda push for it since I dislike giving everyone a free show.
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I’m on CB so the member can request a private show anytime and I just click accept and away we go. I get a lot of repeat privates with the same member. I always allow private shows.
I thought why ask girl on dating sites in other countries if they want to get naughty on skype WHEN I can just do it on a cam site with girls that are willing to do it.(Which could be almost all of us as I think most of the models spend at least a small percentage of time on market research)
How did you become a spectator/spender on live webcams? What initially drew your attention to the live aspect?
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What makes you stay around?
(Theres millions to choose from what keeps you loyal to those select few?)
Asking for a friend....
What makes me stay - they give value for my tokens and if they welcome me when I show up with an instant PM - if they say they missed me (probably not true but works when they say it) - one even said - want to know a secret - I said yes - she said last night I masturbated thinking about you - so hot - and then she eventually got my whatsapp and would MFC Mail and MFC Pm me etc - she got thousands upon thousands of tokens from me. I finally had to leave her - just too expensive. To this day every 2 weeks or so she contacts me to remind me she is there with open arms to take me back hahaha. Luckily I got money or she would of put me in bankruptcy. And Looking at sites - big spenders come and go - I think that happens a lot frankly but hey - are grown men - they need to sharpen up. My thoughts if you are a cam model - big spender hits the room - get them on snap or whatsapp immeditaely - they lifespan of most viewers and I mean MOST is until creidt card is maxed out. So that is max 2 months - as a model you need to work on them daily to come visit OR they will find another model to give their money to. My thoughts anyways and I spent $6,000 plus a month on the sites - all different girls - couple regulars but not many - always new girls coming around to see hahaha
As a viewer - honestly - I did not know on CB that you could as a model if could allow recording of PVT. Most do for a fee BUT I never asked - just left - they lost a lot of money. Have it set to allow and if you want something for it let htem know when they request - most will gladly lush you for 200 or whatever you need. Or raise per minute rate. If I pay 12 or 18 a minute I lush a lot. When I get to the 30 a minute - I not lush much extra and at 60 for sure I not do lush but MOST girls don't ask - they do the show.
Didn't read all the replies above.
Fun and interaction.
I don't. The only time I happened to stick around with a model with whom I sort of became who I guess you'd call "a regular" it ended up, pardon my french, in a shit show.
Word of mouth. So I guess either cam sites marketing completely failed with me or, much more likely, I am not visiting sites where I imagine cam sites are advertising on. Anyway, some would consider word of mouth one of the most powerful marketing tool, in which case, we can say it worked and was a success.
Fun and interaction.
I don't. The only time I happened to stick around with a model with whom I sort of became who I guess you'd call "a regular" it ended up, pardon my french, in a shit show.
I found Chaturbate at the beginning of the pandemic, and the first thing that hooked me was being able to tip to control toys. It seemed insanely hot and fun to send someone vibrations from across the world.
Then I started looking into the BDSM/Dominatrix side of it and fairly quickly found a Mistress who pushed all my buttons. A couple of weeks later hers was the only room I'd go to, and now I'm one of her harem of fan club subs. Was not expecting at all to find a new social circle on a cam site but she's funny, her regular subs all seem very nice guys and it's just nice to hang out there at night. Some of them have been regulars for years.
She might do a couple of private shows in a night but mainly guys are tipping in the room for stripteases, foot fetishes PM sessions and findom games - and also she'll occasionally give tasks to everyone to amuse herself/keep people sticking around.
My experience with her has become much less sexual and more social over the year. I still tip for dances etc but now that I feel like we're "friends" (lol, yes I know) I'm actually not interested in masturbating while in her room.
She's been camming for 10 years and is also genuinely into BDSM outside of it being a job, so I don't know how common it is to find her kind of room.
Then I started looking into the BDSM/Dominatrix side of it and fairly quickly found a Mistress who pushed all my buttons. A couple of weeks later hers was the only room I'd go to, and now I'm one of her harem of fan club subs. Was not expecting at all to find a new social circle on a cam site but she's funny, her regular subs all seem very nice guys and it's just nice to hang out there at night. Some of them have been regulars for years.
She might do a couple of private shows in a night but mainly guys are tipping in the room for stripteases, foot fetishes PM sessions and findom games - and also she'll occasionally give tasks to everyone to amuse herself/keep people sticking around.
My experience with her has become much less sexual and more social over the year. I still tip for dances etc but now that I feel like we're "friends" (lol, yes I know) I'm actually not interested in masturbating while in her room.
She's been camming for 10 years and is also genuinely into BDSM outside of it being a job, so I don't know how common it is to find her kind of room.
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Believe me, it wasn't the case. Imagine if I could have any problem with a model who doesn't even live in my country. Not the case. She was totally giving me the psycho online GFE. Have no time for that.
goldmouthbitch
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hahaha - am a big tipper and when find another girl - they anger comes out - sometimes disguised as broken heart BUT am 99.9% sure its about the lost tokens. Is classic - webcam girl has 20 guys per day or more playing with her BUT me the viewer - should have only her hahaha - ya right - NOT for this guy anyways. I am mostly on Chaturbate and I see the same big tippers like me - in all different rooms - never just 1 room. Had 1 model ask me what about our relationship when she saw me in another room. I did not know how to reply to that - first how saw me - is like a stalker and secondly - what relationship - this virtual fake one where the only time i get interaction is when I pay hahaha. She even told me once if I wanted her all to myself I could do the goal each day haha - hahah - too funny. AND I know if you did - she would be back on cam 2 hours later to get more. Why not - is never enough money- never.
Wow, you should not have to deal with people's baggage!! Isnt that why you are here paying for it in the first place? So you don't have girls calling you wanting to know your every move. I find that really strange. Guilt tripping you into staying and remaining loyal. But it just has the adverse effect?
It's really evil actually. Imagine them as a girlfriend!! Jealous webcam models haha. You couldn't make this stuff up!
I had a friend that was a r/l sex worker and enough was never enough there either. As I've said before though, these are not just cam girls. They are business women!
You can't just say that without providing details! Or is this something everyone knows about but me?
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That’s a nice thread. Here are my answers:
- I was immediately hooked on the live aspect
- I could try out some fantasies
- I thought I knew already a lot, but I learned a lot about sex, and about my own sexual desires
- It is super exciting to talk to new people from different places around the world
- During the pandemic, I miss random chats and encounters in public spaces like bars and clubs. It helps me to not feel too lonely while stuck at home. (Really, thank you, cam performers! Your presence helps me too keep mentally sane during these times)
- Without being able to tell when and why - I just click with some (few) people sexually
- Apart from that, it's the same reasons why you get along with a person in "real life" - sense of humour, eloquence, common interests, intellectual compatibility, similar political views
- I meet three people on a regular basis. They are totally different from each other.
- From time to time I do a one-off session with someone I do not know, because it's exciting to get to know someone for the first time
- I visit live webcams on CB and on OnlyFans for about two years now, and I had only pleasant experiences.
- A local Porn Star that I follow on social media announced an appearance on CB
- I was immediately hooked on the live aspect
- I could try out some fantasies
- I thought I knew already a lot, but I learned a lot about sex, and about my own sexual desires
- It is super exciting to talk to new people from different places around the world
- During the pandemic, I miss random chats and encounters in public spaces like bars and clubs. It helps me to not feel too lonely while stuck at home. (Really, thank you, cam performers! Your presence helps me too keep mentally sane during these times)
- It's the company as much as the sex
- Without being able to tell when and why - I just click with some (few) people sexually
- Apart from that, it's the same reasons why you get along with a person in "real life" - sense of humour, eloquence, common interests, intellectual compatibility, similar political views
- I meet three people on a regular basis. They are totally different from each other.
- From time to time I do a one-off session with someone I do not know, because it's exciting to get to know someone for the first time
- I visit live webcams on CB and on OnlyFans for about two years now, and I had only pleasant experiences.
I’ve had this happen twice.
The first model DMed me on social media WHILE I was in a different model’s room, telling me why the girl was bad news (the girl was, in fact, totally cool and I still visit her). When I stopped visiting the model that complained, I’d get “I miss you, please come see me” messages about twice a month. I soon figured out the messages were sent on the same dates each month. Whenever payday was close, as if on a schedule, she would tell me she missed me.
The 2nd time it happened, that model also tracked me down in a different model’s room and DMed me there to guilt trip me. I had only visited her once before - same day actually - and she was already pulling that nonsense.
A third model was trending in that direction but I cut it off quickly because I had gotten better at spotting the red flags. (Such as repeatedly saying “I love you” to an uncomfortable degree, from the first visit, and complaining of heartbreak when she realized I also followed one of her friends).
90% of my model interactions have been fun and pleasant, but there are always a few like this, unfortunately. Sucks, because I am sure some guys fall for it.
From my observation the people who mostly request private shows are usually not the ones who are interested in tipping for public shows.
Well, you don't have to make it up. There are lots and lots of them, and you often can't tell until it's too late (since after all, we guys can't think while we have an erection).
I have absolutely no problem with getting an occasional message from a model I haven't visited in a while where she asks how things are at my end and blah blah blah, but there's a fine (not) line between that and having a cam model dramatically demanding to know in what room you spent your time last night. I've had "You aren't seeing someone else, are you?" sent to me.
I'm way too chewy to really care about it, but there are probably enough guys who will succumb to the guilt trip.
For quite a few I guess it boils down to simple maths; spending your money on a private or tipping for whatever happens in public for a few hours. Few can do both.
In my observations, when a member with tokens shows up and immediately asks for a PM, they’re often there to inquire about a private show. (And whether they get one or not, they often leave without publicly tipping.)
Personally, I do both. More public than private, but I have bought a fair amount of private shows recently.
Theres something I have noticed when I visit other rooms on my broadcasting account:
The tip menu is like 5-100 for a private message but almost immediately as i enter the room I've got a dm from the host asking how i am and what i want. But only colours get this treatment? I think its icky. It's meant to be welcoming but has the opposite effect on me for sure! I leave immediately lol.
I've read posts on this forum about models hoping viewers are gonna pay their way by giving them the sob story. Eurgh. Stay classy
every days a lesson 
Yes, very common. Dark purple name on Cb or whatever other top-level tipper designation pretty much get hit immediately when we enter every room. I hate it too. As you say it has the opposite effect. And it's always near the exact same conversation. Gets old fast. Let me come in and sit down and check things out a little first.
I run my accounts with a lower level showing wherever I can to avoid that.
I'm mostly on StripChat where it's blindingly obvious how much money you have spent during your "career" there, but after I hid my user level (for lack of a better word), the instant PMs when I come to a room are fewer. So yes, they go "straight for the purples" to use CB parlance. In 99% of the cases I just ignore the PMs and babble away in public chat or leave.
The last 1% I could probably write a book about
Public shows are a time investment. If you are looking for something immediate and have the money for it they are the way to go.
I'm mostly on StripChat where it's blindingly obvious how much money you have spent during your "career" there, but after I hid my user level (for lack of a better word), the instant PMs when I come to a room are fewer. So yes, they go "straight for the purples" to use CB parlance. In 99% of the cases I just ignore the PMs and babble away in public chat or leave.
The last 1% I could probably write a book about
Yes, same with "Ultimate" or whatever I am on Strip. Immediate friend request, etc.
StripChat has the big advantage of being invisible if you want which makes it easy to avoid when just browsing around room to room.
And if you’re on a site (and with a model) that gives you a recording of your private show, it’s basically another way to add a custom video for your collection in real time. For those that like to buy videos.
I didn’t care about private shows until I did a few with the models I liked most. I’ve grown to enjoy the convenience of having the recordings stored on the website, if I’m ever bored and can’t find a “live” room I like.
And I already know I like those models, and I know they’re doing things I enjoy in those videos. Worth the extra tokens, IMO.
So what about the guys that tip just to get through the goals? Like they are clearly the best tipper and just wanting to get to the good bits. I imagined it was because the model had done their time with the viewer... privates, social media, OF etc?
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