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    Preferential treatment of customers by unsteady camgirls

    I don't know about every cam site. I posted what MFC's policy is above. They specifically endorse models and members "taking things offline" if they so choose. It's not right to accuse the member of doing something wrong under those rules. It's just real life. If a guy asks a girl out, she can...
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    Preferential treatment of customers by unsteady camgirls

    The problem with your tone here is that you seem to be accusing the member of doing something wrong if he expresses interest in you outside of the site. I don't think that's fair. I've had several models over time suggest getting together offline, but I wasn't interested. There is one that I've...
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    Preferential treatment of customers by unsteady camgirls

    Right, but it's all about how they go about it. If a model would normally treat a member like dirt, but she treats him well and pretends to like him because he tips a lot, that's where the problems come in. Again, I don't know enough about the OP to say that's his situation.
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    Preferential treatment of customers by unsteady camgirls

    Well, there is a wide spectrum. There are many cam girls who are very hardcore, "I'm only in it for the money" types who just want to get their tips, do their shows and log off, and keep the interaction to a minimum. That's their right. There are others who are completely themselves, and open...
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    Preferential treatment of customers by unsteady camgirls

    I don't know this guy or the models in question, so I can only go on what he said. If he is indeed regularly talking to them by phone and on Skype without paying for it (very important qualifier there), it could be that they feel close enough to him that they don't feel comfortable doing shows...
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    Preferential treatment of customers by unsteady camgirls

    Your post sounds kind of weird to me, but I'll take it at face value and respond to it seriously, since I have had some experience in this area. There have been a few cam girls over time that I've developed more "real" relationships with. What you seem to be missing is the separation most cam...
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    I'm not trolling. Maybe I've been too honest. The conclusion I'm starting to form is that individual cam girls can be ok by themselves, but collectively as a group, you have a bad influence on each other in a variety of ways.
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    My response is that you should re-read what you quoted from me. You're just doing more of the same, creating ideas in your own mind and applying them to me. You should also consider that you and others (like the other quote you posted) are putting a lot of effort into creating elaborate...
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    They're not assumptions. They're observations based on experience with cam girls. Science of any kind is based on observation and extrapolation, since no one can ever document every situation. I haven't kept a log of this stuff, so that's the weakness. But I strongly suspect if a legitimate...
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    I'm not just making these thing up, though. They're based on my own experience. I'm not on cam sites every day, but I have visited them on and off for about 5 years now. Of the cam girls I've spent enough time with for them to start talking about their family situation, I can only think of one...
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    I'll be more clear about it. My motivation in posting this topic was concern for cam girls who may have substance abuse problems. The primary motivation of most of the responses seems to be individuals defending their own image. If it doesn't apply to you, great. Congratulations. You pointing...
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    What I mean is that these are not things I said, but rather things that were pre-existing in the minds of the posters, who use me as an opportunity to vent because I failed in some small way to be "politically correct" and "stick with the script". To me certain things are objectively true...
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    There is a clear pattern here, at least with my own posts, of posting about a particular subject, and having cam girls jump all over some side comment, impute a bunch of motives and/or thoughts to me, and generally freak out about things I probably didn't even say. More importantly, what seems...
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    Those are all things I didn't say. These are obviously issues that exist throughout society. Are they more prevalent among cam girls? Sorry, but I think the answer is yes.
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    That's what I mean. They just bring it up, mention it in passing, etc.
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    Whether or not something is a "stereotype" is irrelevant. If it's true, it's true. And in this particular case, if someone does have a problem, you're not helping them by suggesting they should deny it so cam girls aren't "stereotyped".
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    I can't think of any case where I asked about it. It was always brought up by the model. There is also a definite pattern on this site of models becoming defensive about anything that could be true, but uncomfortable.
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    I don't have any belief I'm trying to confirm here. This is just stuff that has become apparent over time. I don't think anyone in this thread used that term. You are being very defensive. I wasn't the first to raise the subject of "denial", but it certainly is an issue in some of these...
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    I don't know, but it could be that we customers interact with many more cam girls than other cam girls do. Most of the ones I've spent any time talking to, and many more that I've just watched for a minute or two, will end up bringing up that subject in the course of conversation. Usually just...
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    Drugs, Alcohol and Cam Girls

    Yep, plenty of anecdotal evidence to go around. I will just add that if you find yourself building a high tolerance for any substance, meaning that you keep needing larger amounts to get the same effect, you are on your way to becoming an addict. And if you start feeling that you need that...
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