HiGirlsRHot said:
I could careless about anything related to the Khardarisian (including taking the time to spell their name right) clan.
Sounds like it might not be possible, but if it is, I may care less. In fact the only reason I have any notion of what a Kardasian is, is b/c about a year ago i was over at a buddies house and happened to glance up at the TV being watched by his GF, and seeing Bruce Jenner said something like, Hey that is Bruce Jenner huh? When his GF realized I had never even heard of a Kardasian before that, she had trouble believing I was telling her the truth. :lol: I really might as well be living in a cave when it comes to some things.
But I think this thread may have got :text-threadjacked: right from the start if it was the OP's intent to start a conversation about the implications of the huge choice that is made when anyone decided transitioning is the right choice for them. To that vein i would be very interested to hear others thoughts, and don't see anything wrong with such a conversation in general, but only when that conversation becomes specifically about, "some one person" or, where bigoted biases are introduced to lump ppl making such a choice into a group. If ever there was a subject that spans such a scope of varied complexities as to truly be homoginist, this is it, IMho.
I'll start, and see if maybe others have interest enough to follow up.
The idea that there are many ppl who feel as if their physical gender, gender at birth, does not match their mental/emotional gender, I think makes the case very well, that nature is neither cruel nor compassionate, but in fact is wholly indifferent, and imperfect in how physical gender assignment effects our emotional well being. I further think that is something that can be very hard to keep in mind when realizing that you embody the wrong body. That realization can, and prolly does most often feel very unfair and cruel.
On a personal note, I still wonder if I really am a lesbian, (something I hate to say b/c of the
less than serious popularity of guys joking that they are lesbians) in a mans body, as it has for many years felt to me. Or is my love of woman as sexually desirable just a product of years of programming? If I had been born physically female, would cock be my genitalia of choice? I'll never really know, but suspect my sexual preference would have been for other females to some degree if Bi at all. Being drawn to females for me started in early grade school. When the other boys were running around girls spraying them with imaginary kooty spray, I was trying to score a GF. And, later my sexual desire of females never felt forced. In fact I think my strong sex drive has come at the cost of other things, as it has consumed so much of my attention and time since before puberty.
If anyone else has similar feelings one way or the other, or feels they have any input at all, it would be nice if I didn't feel like the only one exposed here. On the other hand no one forced me to expose myself.
