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Shaun__ said:
Retweeting dick pics, my twitter feed has random dicks in it this morning. They are not even in interesting poses or anything.
I saw some of the fallout for that. :( I guess it's a good reminder that what we may find funny when we are drunk (I think that was the case?) may really annoy the people who follow us. They are a different audience, after all.

I follow a few models who retweet seemingly EVERY nice thing that's said about them (and every time people vote for them in whatever the flavor-of-the-month voting contest is) and that annoys the bleep out of me. Not only does it seem really braggart, but it also fills my timeline with tweets of people whom I do not follow. I don't want to unfollow these models because they are an awesome part of the industry I am in and love, but I've had to remove them from my lists of people that I follow closely just to unclutter.
 
The Twitter app I use (Ecofon) allows you to mute people, which is awesome, but yeah I have a few models muted and it makes me wonder how often guys unfollow for the same things that annoy me.

I don't like when models post tons of Tumblr links to Twitter that just say "[photo] tumblr.lakdfjkdla.com", I don't see the point of those. So many in a row looks spammy.
 
AmberCutie said:
Shaun__ said:
Retweeting dick pics, my twitter feed has random dicks in it this morning. They are not even in interesting poses or anything.
I saw some of the fallout for that. :( I guess it's a good reminder that what we may find funny when we are drunk (I think that was the case?) may really annoy the people who follow us. They are a different audience, after all.

I follow a few models who retweet seemingly EVERY nice thing that's said about them (and every time people vote for them in whatever the flavor-of-the-month voting contest is) and that annoys the bleep out of me. Not only does it seem really braggart, but it also fills my timeline with tweets of people whom I do not follow. I don't want to unfollow these models because they are an awesome part of the industry I am in and love, but I've had to remove them from my lists of people that I follow closely just to unclutter.

Along the same lines, when a model retweets every person that mentions them in the FF# thingy. You are retweeting to people that already follow you. And when it gets past 3 people, you have officially annoyed the shit out of me. :lol:
 
ILikeUonTop said:
AmberCutie said:
Shaun__ said:
Retweeting dick pics, my twitter feed has random dicks in it this morning. They are not even in interesting poses or anything.
I saw some of the fallout for that. :( I guess it's a good reminder that what we may find funny when we are drunk (I think that was the case?) may really annoy the people who follow us. They are a different audience, after all.

I follow a few models who retweet seemingly EVERY nice thing that's said about them (and every time people vote for them in whatever the flavor-of-the-month voting contest is) and that annoys the bleep out of me. Not only does it seem really braggart, but it also fills my timeline with tweets of people whom I do not follow. I don't want to unfollow these models because they are an awesome part of the industry I am in and love, but I've had to remove them from my lists of people that I follow closely just to unclutter.

Along the same lines, when a model retweets every person that mentions them in the FF# thingy. You are retweeting to people that already follow you. And when it gets past 3 people, you have officially annoyed the shit out of me. :lol:

Haha.... oops. :shifty:
 
ILikeUonTop said:
Along the same lines, when a model retweets every person that mentions them in the FF# thingy. You are retweeting to people that already follow you. And when it gets past 3 people, you have officially annoyed the shit out of me. :lol:
I retweet every model that mentions me on #FF. I want to thank them for doing that for me, and one quick way to do that is by RTing them so my followers see their face/Twitter name. And by RTing them, the other girls that are mentioned in the tweet also get another mention.
 
Retweet rampages are pretty annoying. One of my follows recently just started retweeting ridiculous numbers of seemingly random people. But most annoying thing? Unfollow is way easier than even setting your PM to friends. Hard to get too annoyed by things I can control myself.
 
Kradek said:
Retweet rampages are pretty annoying. One of my follows recently just started retweeting ridiculous numbers of seemingly random people. But most annoying thing? Unfollow is way easier than even setting your PM to friends. Hard to get too annoyed by things I can control myself.
Super easy, I agree. But I think I'd be in a weird position if these people realized I wasn't following them anymore, and they're a big part of the camming community, I'd also miss the good tweets that are sprinkled in with their RT-orgasms.

I'm guessing this is only a predicament for me because they're fellow models. If I was just a member, it would be less complicated.
 
LadyLuna said:
MemberEd said:
I was talking to a model who was not great at English. She went off cam for a while and began PMing me, trying to talk me into a private, in much improved English. Really a creepy experience imagining who I was actually talking to. So having someone else pretend to be the model in a PM is right up there with annoying things to do.

Talking and typing are two different things. For one thing, the accent doesn't come through in typing, so that might have been half of it. For another thing, she might have gone away to be able to consult a dictionary without looking like she's doing so on camera. Lastly, I knew plenty of classmates in French class who passed all the written tests with flying colors, but could hardly speak it and couldn't read it to save their lives.

If she had been sitting there chatting away while in view of the camera and her hands were nowhere near the keyboard, that's one thing, but being better at written English than spoken English is in no way proof that it was a different person.


Right, I used talking in the broad sense of communicating. She never actually spoke and was typing on cam. I stand by my annoyance claim. It was not her typing when she was off cam. :)
 
AmberCutie said:
I'm guessing this is only a predicament for me because they're fellow models. If I was just a member, it would be less complicated.
That's probably true, and something I'm in a fortunate position not to have to worry about!

FWIW, last night's mayhem didn't cause an unfollow from me. One offs are not usually a big deal IMO.
 
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AmberCutie said:
Kradek said:
Retweet rampages are pretty annoying. One of my follows recently just started retweeting ridiculous numbers of seemingly random people. But most annoying thing? Unfollow is way easier than even setting your PM to friends. Hard to get too annoyed by things I can control myself.
Super easy, I agree. But I think I'd be in a weird position if these people realized I wasn't following them anymore, and they're a big part of the camming community, I'd also miss the good tweets that are sprinkled in with their RT-orgasms.

I'm guessing this is only a predicament for me because they're fellow models. If I was just a member, it would be less complicated.

As a member I need to maintain business relations with important models too. Even if we are not chatting about our weekends with each other, like I do with close friends, I still need to keep an ear out for what they are up to.
 
AmberCutie said:
Super easy, I agree. But I think I'd be in a weird position if these people realized I wasn't following them anymore, and they're a big part of the camming community, I'd also miss the good tweets that are sprinkled in with their RT-orgasms.

I'm guessing this is only a predicament for me because they're fellow models. If I was just a member, it would be less complicated.
No it can be just as complicated. Members can still develop friendships with models too. So it's a bit awkward deciding to unfollow a person.

For me personally, I use twitter to chat. So someone (anyone, not just a model) who is just using it to retweet nonsense all the time or post those inspirational posters that no one really cares about anyway, then I decide I have to not follow them anymore. I try to look at it objectively, and a bit selfishly on my part. The only reason I started a twitter account in the first place was light-hearted social chatting. If I'm following someone who is not contributing to that, and in fact annoying me as well, then they have to go.

Now it is nice to see tweets when models will get on cam or specials... stuff like that. Those aren't the incessant tweets i'm talking about. And most of the time those are interspersed with regular chat anyway, so they don't don't affect me. I just wanted to clarify that - the normal day to day promotion done by a model is NOT what i am referring to here. I'm good with those because they don't generally go into the super annoying number of tweets.
 
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Bocefish said:
Inspirational bitch fest between models this thread has become and how dare any member that has a gripe do so here without pages upon pages going nowhere.

Remember that this is a thread that models themselves can actually see. Many of us have been on the other side of these situations, so yes, we are allowed to defend ourselves and fellow models and try and explain to members that they may have got the wrong end of the stick in certain situations.

Like in the situation with the model having great english typing and bad english on cam. I actually know for a fact several Romanian and Russian models really lack confidence in their english speaking so barely speak while on cam and it comes out really bad, but when they're in pm typing and chatting with regulars their english is amazing. I have a member friend who is very close to several girls like this, close enough to have met them in person, when I went to the girls rooms I thought they could barely speak english but he assured me it's just from lack of confidence while on cam rather than an inability to understand.

The reason that Luna and Kaylee have spoken up is that there is already a lot of stigma on foreign models and a lot of members are super paranoid about studio's. Maybe this is the case with this particular model, but it's also more likely that her spoken english just isn't as good as her written english. It'd be very unfair on the model if members were getting the wrong idea and being put off her for wanting to put effort into chatting to members she likes while she's off cam- and while she feels she actually can communicate with them.

Sure if it is the case that it's some random person from a studio and not the model typing then that's not only annoying, it's a bit freaky! But it's a pretty strong accusation against a model with really no proof other than light speculation, suspicion and distrust on one members part.

I mean a situation like getting annoyed at model's retweeting constantly, or even tweeting loads and loads of really pointless tweets, well, if that's happening then it's pretty clear it's happening, and it is annoying. Not the pinnacle of evil or anything, but it does fill up the feed and means you miss out on other things. There's also no gain from it. The model isn't really advertising herself, she's not really giving anyone new information, if anything by retweeting and tweeting too much she'll fill up her twitter so much that it'll be impossible for anyone to follow.
I can understand some of the retweets, it doesn't really bother me to be honest, and fair enough if any model wants to come along and explain why she does it. It helps give a more open minded understanding to things that irritate us, and maybe next time we won't be as annoyed or as quick to judge because we'll understand the other side. Being annoyed or judging are hardly virtues, they're feelings that you cannot help, but when you vocalise those feelings on a public forum then you need to accept people might try and explain the other person's point of view and try not to be even more annoyed when they do. If all you want to do is bitch without anyone standing up for the other side then go to a members only forum or go hang out in the lounge.
 
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Kradek said:
Retweet rampages are pretty annoying. One of my follows recently just started retweeting ridiculous numbers of seemingly random people. But most annoying thing? Unfollow is way easier than even setting your PM to friends. Hard to get too annoyed by things I can control myself.

Ya know, you can actually turn off retweets from people you follow. It's a miracle!
 
Kradek said:
Protocosmo said:
you can actually turn off retweets from people you follow
That part of your post was useful. Thanks.
As far as I can tell, you can't in Tweetdeck. I tried turning off RTs on Twitter, and they still show on Tweetdeck.

And I can't stand the standard Twitter interface.
 
AmberCutie said:
Kradek said:
Protocosmo said:
you can actually turn off retweets from people you follow
That part of your post was useful. Thanks.
As far as I can tell, you can't in Tweetdeck. I tried turning off RTs on Twitter, and they still show on Tweetdeck.

And I can't stand the standard Twitter interface.
Tweetbot (what I'm currently using on iOS) does have the option. It's a little buried though.
 
AmberCutie said:
Kradek said:
Protocosmo said:
you can actually turn off retweets from people you follow
That part of your post was useful. Thanks.
As far as I can tell, you can't in Tweetdeck. I tried turning off RTs on Twitter, and they still show on Tweetdeck.

And I can't stand the standard Twitter interface.
Yeah. I don't think we can. I use tweetdeck too.
 
Kradek said:
AmberCutie said:
Kradek said:
Protocosmo said:
you can actually turn off retweets from people you follow
That part of your post was useful. Thanks.
As far as I can tell, you can't in Tweetdeck. I tried turning off RTs on Twitter, and they still show on Tweetdeck.

And I can't stand the standard Twitter interface.
Tweetbot (what I'm currently using on iOS) does have the option. It's a little buried though.
Yeah I know that does, I use that on my iPad and iPhone, but am mostly on my desktop with Tweetdeck which is a far superior app than anything else out there, and there's no mute/RT block.
 
On Tweetcaster, you can't turn off retweets globally, but you can for individual accounts. Not everyone goes nuts with retweets, so that makes sense.
 
MemberEd said:
LadyLuna said:
MemberEd said:
I was talking to a model who was not great at English. She went off cam for a while and began PMing me, trying to talk me into a private, in much improved English. Really a creepy experience imagining who I was actually talking to. So having someone else pretend to be the model in a PM is right up there with annoying things to do.

Talking and typing are two different things. For one thing, the accent doesn't come through in typing, so that might have been half of it. For another thing, she might have gone away to be able to consult a dictionary without looking like she's doing so on camera. Lastly, I knew plenty of classmates in French class who passed all the written tests with flying colors, but could hardly speak it and couldn't read it to save their lives.

If she had been sitting there chatting away while in view of the camera and her hands were nowhere near the keyboard, that's one thing, but being better at written English than spoken English is in no way proof that it was a different person.


Right, I used talking in the broad sense of communicating. She never actually spoke and was typing on cam. I stand by my annoyance claim. It was not her typing when she was off cam. :)

Ah, I got you now. Yeah, that is annoying.
 
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PunkInDrublic said:
Having like four birthdays in the span of 6 months is annoying.
I've always wondered if this is something that models actually do or just an urban myth... I've never come across a girl who I've noticed having more than one birthday a year :shock:
 
LilyMarie said:
PunkInDrublic said:
Having like four birthdays in the span of 6 months is annoying.
I've always wondered if this is something that models actually do or just an urban myth... I've never come across a girl who I've noticed having more than one birthday a year :shock:
I've only seen it once, but yeah, it does happen. Usually models with low camscores try it, simply to get their camscore up.
 
LilyMarie said:
PunkInDrublic said:
Having like four birthdays in the span of 6 months is annoying.
I've always wondered if this is something that models actually do or just an urban myth... I've never come across a girl who I've noticed having more than one birthday a year :shock:

Lots of Romanian models also celebrate their name day, but this is clearly nor the same as a 2nd birthday.
 
LilyMarie said:
PunkInDrublic said:
Having like four birthdays in the span of 6 months is annoying.
I've always wondered if this is something that models actually do or just an urban myth... I've never come across a girl who I've noticed having more than one birthday a year :shock:

I've seen girls lie about their camiversary for some reason. There was a model that I used to watch for an entire year before I started to cam myself. I have no idea how long she was on the site before I even came across her, either.
As I was approaching my second camiversary, she started tweeting about celebrating her first....ummm wat. :think:

People lie about some weird things, and I have no idea what the point behind lying about your camiversary even is.
 
ComicOzzie said:
LilyMarie said:
PunkInDrublic said:
Having like four birthdays in the span of 6 months is annoying.
I've always wondered if this is something that models actually do or just an urban myth... I've never come across a girl who I've noticed having more than one birthday a year :shock:

Lots of Romanian models also celebrate their name day, but this is clearly nor the same as a 2nd birthday.
In Orthodox countries like Russia and Greece, the name day is often a bigger deal than the birthday. Record-keeping of birth dates was traditionally unreliable, but they sure knew their saints.
 
bakersman said:
If you actually become a friend with a cam model you met on the site, be careful what you wish for!

A model and I started pm'ing and then gmail chatting off cam, we became friends and had all this fun stuff to talk about, and then our relationship become completely nonsexual: we were buddies. I totally turned into 'hey girlfriend', lol. She asks me advice about dates she goes on, and gives me some too. I can't get off on watching her strip any more, lol. If we met in person, we'd have coffee and chat about shit and then go home, lol.

I chat with another model behind the scenes a lot too but damn I love perving on her so I'm careful to take her pvt every once in a while and contribute to her public shows. Can't take the risk of getting girlfriended with this one :)

This is always a risk. Where you first found the other person sexually appealing, but it waters itself down fairly quickly.

One model I know has complained about this happening to other members who have her phone number and such. They were all into her, sexually speaking, and eventually they stopped being sexually attracted to her. They still tip and such, but they never join groups, or take her private, etc. She said it sucks because she still finds those members sexually appealing and misses watching them get off to watching her (she's a perv :p ).

She's said to me she fears this happening with us (the fact she finds me sexually attractive makes me know she is blind :lol: ). But, I've been careful to keep things at a point where I don't lose my sexual attraction to her. I might not be perving her all the time when she is on cam... as in I'm not sitting there wanting to fap every time I see her. But I keep myself sexually interested in her. I still join groups, go private, etc. and still get off to her. I make sure not to text her too often so that it becomes routine and buddy buddy over some fun texts now and then and maybe she sends me a hot pic every now and then (it can be weeks or months between texts because I see her almost every day on cam, last texting time was when I was waiting in line for my Xbox One). I still let her know when I find what she is wearing or doing is sexy, etc. For instance, right now she got tipped to show off her BJ skills. She happily obliges things like this (for the right amount of tokens) because she has an oral fixation... and, woah... it was hot....

The risk, as mynameisbob with the whole geographical location thing is always a factor in just letting it come down to being more buddy buddy with the model. Even in a single country, like the US or Canada, if someone is 3k miles away (opposite coast), the likelihood of ever meeting them becomes slimmer.

Even with models closer that is an issue. One model I know in the midwest and I have seriously talked about trying to get together for a weekend where we basically never leave the bed of the hotel. But, it's still a 24 hour car drive to get to each other, or a plane ride, plus hotel, etc. that it's not always economically feasible to one or both of us when the time looks right. Or the time looks good for one, but due to other obligations on the other's part, it simply can't happen.


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New part of this topic:

So a girl started last week or the week before (time is kind of blurring while I am on disability it's so boring). Her whole thing on her first day was saying she turned 18 the day before, supposedly even showed her birth date on her ID. OK, fine. Cute enough, nice body, etc. but the obvious draw was the whole barely legal aspect. She kind of got spoiled by guys going for the barely legal thing. Top tip got her first private, ended up getting tipped over 10k in total for that. Yadda yadda.

So, her second night she obviously has her topic set really high based on how much she made the night before and is still going on the just turned 18 thing. But, she knew all the tricks of the camming trade on MFC, too... the whole X tokens then group topic, etc.

None of that is the thing that annoyed me, though.

What annoyed me was during her topless countdown on her second day someone asked how much for a flash, and she literally said, out loud "no flashes! you guys have to work for it if you want to see boobs!"

I'm sorry? What? Is it suddenly the member's job to tip the model? I think not.

The model's job is to do things that entice the tipping. However she works to entice that tipping is up to her. However, to come out and basically say that the member's have to work to see what is ostensibly being offered is wrong. It's a give and take. Obviously the members are supposed to tip to get the countdown completed if they want to see whatever is being offered. However, the model is the one working, and is the one who has to entice the members to tip. Whether it is by flashes, dancing around, doing jumping jacks with a stack of books on her head, etc. is unimportant. But to have the attitude that just because the model is on cam guys should feel it is their obligation to tip her just for being there is completely annoying.

People can't just show up to their jobs, in most cases, and sit there doing nothing and expect to get paid for it. And this goes for being a cam model, as well. If I tip a model with a funny tip note just because, then I'm tipping just because. If I'm tipping for something specific, I expect that something specific to happen. It has changed from just because to a business transaction. If I'm tipping towards a countdown, I don't expect to hear how it is my responsibility and my job to tip towards said countdown.

It makes me glad I hadn't tipped her before that remark was made. Made no fucks given about not tipping her after the comment was made, too.
 
I pretty frequently say that the countdown for naked must me made to see boobies. I don't offer flashes often, if ever. Was it just the comment using the word "work"? I took the comment to mean she wanted everyone to chip in for the goal to see boobs. Which to me isn't out of the ordinary at all.
 
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