What do I do about this customer?

[LilyBlueBBW]

Hiyas Good Folks of this forum.

I am back with yet another dilemma that I need solved. How do you deal with an extremely indecisive customer?

I started a new PSO gig a few days ago and I managed to get a customer that asked me to conduct calls with him offline. I said that was cool because I am open to making as much money as possible and let's face it, most PSO companies don't pay nearly enough to their girls. The customer has been saying for 3 days that he wants to do a call but when it comes down to him actually doing it, there seems to always be some sort of an excuse. The customer will literally send me a text message where he is asking me when we can do a call and then I tell him that I am available to do it at that moment and then he will text back and say that he wants to maybe do it later on in the day and this kind of an exchange has been going on for 3 days.

Oh and in case you are wondering, no this man does not have my real number. Whenever I get a PSO caller that wants to talk off the line, I ALWAYS give him a textnow number.

My bills are paid for the month and I have most of the basic necessities that I need for the month, so I am not completely clamoring for this man's money. I just want him to stop playing games and actually do a call, if he is going to do it.

I am trying NOT to go off on this man because it looks like from the signature on his text messages that he works for Sotherby's, however his indecisiveness is extremely infuriating.

I want to tell him to NOT text me unless he has some damn money but I am trying to figure out how to say that in a way that is not rude.

I don't think that this man has any real intention of doing a call with me and he's probably just fucking with me but I could be wrong about that. I am 2 seconds away from blocking this man because whereas I obviously don't really need his money at least at this juncture of the month, every little bit counts. I am tired of getting my hopes up to maybe take a mini trip to the mall when he texts me and then he pulls the rug from under me.

Can anyone out there give me any advice on how to potentially handle this extremely indecisive customer?

 

[Vixxen81]

He wants to see if you're available at his whim and walks away when you are. Tell him you're not available the next time and see what happens. Come back with an update.

 

[Squinkle]

When they string me along, I block them. Like you said, they have no intention of doing a call with you.

I don't like to take customers off-site because they often act this way. They think it's a way to get free stuff, but it's not. They also tend to do chargebacks frequently when taken off-site.

I think you should just block him and move on. If he were going to pay, he would have already. His signature is probably bullshit. It's a method to make you think he is wealthy so you'll do extra. These guys lie about everything.

 

[Marceline]

“These are my available times, if you want to do a call, that’s when you can do it”. Say that and then put whatever time you want to be available. Have the window of time be only two hours, like 6-8 pm EST or something like that. After that, do not respond at all outside of that timeframe.

One thing I’ve noticed about men, whether it be irl or in sex work, it’s a turn off if a woman is always available to them. If they feel like your time is precious, they’ll make more of an effort if they really want to.

It could also be that he’s just stringing you along because it’s an ego boost to have you immediately message back and say you’re willing to do a show right then and there.