Turned on but cant get wet or loose?

[Allie_Michexxe]

The past few times me and my bf have had sex i had felt a little bit of pain (like the kind that its just to big, and he has a 8.5+ inch dick so understandably) but i was also intoxicated so i didn't think much of it. The last time we tried to have sex i got very aroused, but my body didn't show it. I couldn't get wet or loose at all, he thought he was doing something wrong but no matter what we did nothing worked. I obviously got very upset as sex is a very big part of our relationship, and as a sex worker it means a lot to me outside of it also being my job. Today i pulled out my vibrator to see if watching porn and using it would maybe turn me on, and possibly get me off.... but to no success. Absolutely no results.... I honestly don't even know what to do, Im terrified somethings wrong with me because iv always had a very high sex drive, and now its like my body is fighting back.

 

[Nikola Tesla]

OBGYN

 

[BlairLuxe]

The past few times me and my bf have had sex i had felt a little bit of pain (like the kind that its just to big, and he has a 8.5+ inch dick so understandably) but i was also intoxicated so i didn't think much of it. The last time we tried to have sex i got very aroused, but my body didn't show it. I couldn't get wet or loose at all, he thought he was doing something wrong but no matter what we did nothing worked. I obviously got very upset as sex is a very big part of our relationship, and as a sex worker it means a lot to me outside of it also being my job. Today i pulled out my vibrator to see if watching porn and using it would maybe turn me on, and possibly get me off.... but to no success. Absolutely no results.... I honestly don't even know what to do, Im terrified somethings wrong with me because iv always had a very high sex drive, and now its like my body is fighting back.

Any time you have changes like this, it's advisable to visit your gynecologist. Have you changed birth control recently? I've had various birth controls before that made me more dry or more wet. When I stopped hormonal birth control all together, I found that different parts of my cycle affect my ~lady fluids~ differently. Other medications than hormonal medication can also cause vaginal dryness, as well, such as antihistamines (allergy meds etc) and antidepressants. Low estrogen levels are often a culprit for vaginal dryness, though, and is a very common thing as ladies age (I don't know your age though).

When sex is painful, especially when it's a new thing that's out of the norm for your body, it's good to get checked out by a doctor to rule out infection, hormonal issues, or any other problem. Vaginal dryness CAN contribute to fungal and bacterial infections, so it's important to take care of. Good luck!

 

[Allie_Michexxe]

Any time you have changes like this, it's advisable to visit your gynecologist. Have you changed birth control recently? I've had various birth controls before that made me more dry or more wet. When I stopped hormonal birth control all together, I found that different parts of my cycle affect my ~lady fluids~ differently. Other medications than hormonal medication can also cause vaginal dryness, as well, such as antihistamines (allergy meds etc) and antidepressants. Low estrogen levels are often a culprit for vaginal dryness, though, and is a very common thing as ladies age (I don't know your age though).

When sex is painful, especially when it's a new thing that's out of the norm for your body, it's good to get checked out by a doctor to rule out infection, hormonal issues, or any other problem. Vaginal dryness CAN contribute to fungal and bacterial infections, so it's important to take care of. Good luck!

im 19 so age isnt a factor, and i dont take any medication of any kind and havnt in many years, iv gone through every reason in could be and i just cant find anything, hormones dont just change over night.... i went from having sex 3-5 times daily to not being able to get aroused at all in one night. i work night shift and am working 14 nights straight right now, going to a doctor is always out of the question especially when the only doctors note my work will accept is from the emergency room.

 

[BlairLuxe]

im 19 so age isnt a factor, and i dont take any medication of any kind and havnt in many years, iv gone through every reason in could be and i just cant find anything, hormones dont just change over night.... i went from having sex 3-5 times daily to not being able to get aroused at all in one night. i work night shift and am working 14 nights straight right now, going to a doctor is always out of the question especially when the only doctors note my work will accept is from the emergency room.

In that case, maybe the culprit is stress and/or lack of sleep if your schedule is crazy. Bodies do weird things when stress is a factor.